Zonsezi zidayamba ndi kuyankhula kwakanthawi kochepa podwala ndi bwenzi. Adafunsa momwe zinaliri, ndipo ndidayankha chizolowezi chomwe ndinali bwino monga nthawi zonse. Zimachitika mwa anthu opusa kwambiri, "inali yankho lake, lomwe, lalikulu, ndipo limakhala ngati chiwonetsero.
Ngati mukuvomereza moona mtima, kusamva bwino, kusatsimikizika mawa ndi mkhalidwe wa mantha ndi zomwe timakumana nazo tsiku ndi tsiku. Komabe, palibe amene akufuna kuvomereza kwa iyemwini, ndipo koposa kotero ena kuti pamoyoyo siochuluka. Inde, ndisonyezeni wina yemwe amasangalala komanso momveka bwino zolephera zanu komanso mavuto anu akamalankhula za zomwe amapeza payekha? Sizinali zoyembekezeredwa kudandaula, koma popanda chiwonetsero, "moyo wabwino" m'zaka za 21 zikamatha kuchita. Ndipo mbali inayo, ndi yayikulu, chifukwa ndizosangalatsa kuzindikira kuti ndinu okwatirana, osagwira ntchito m'mavuto a anzanu. Koma ndikofuna kuti mutenge dziko lapano limabweretsa mavuto akulu kwambiri.
Munazindikira kuti pali nkhani zambiri pamutuwu "Momwe Mungachotsere Kuipa", "gonjetsani zachisoni" Njira ndikudzipatsa mwayi wopuma kunkhondo yawo. Mulimonsemo, sindipempha kukhumudwa ndikusangalala nazo. Kuphatikiza apo, chifukwa cha kulimba mtima kwake, sindimavomereza malingaliro olakwika, koma sizingandilepheretse kuyikapo ndi zokumana nazo zamkati. Yang'anirani kuwongolera kwanu ndikulola kuti mumve zomwe mukufuna thupi lanu, osati kuti siziyenera kukhala zoyenera. Mwachitsanzo, tili ndi ubwana, sitinaseka pomwe tikufuna kulira?
Vladislav Makabulkuk amakhulupirira kuti muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungachitirere bwino - ndiye kuti zisintha mwachangu
Thupi lili bwino komanso lotanganidwa kwambiri. Ngati tikanamiza anthu ena nthawi yayitali, kenako kuti zidzamumvekere, ndipo amaponyeranso mafunde ophulika. Ingoganizirani kuti mukufunadi chidutswa chaching'ono cha keke, koma zakudya zimati ufa ndi nambala yochenjera. Tiyerekeze, masiku angapo kapena ngakhale milungu ingapo mumangopepuka kuti mumapewe modekha, koma nthawi imodzimodzi "mudzuke" chilichonse mu keke ndipo musamvetsetse momwe adadyedwa. Ndipo tsopano ndiuzeni zabwino: kugula chidutswa kapena kufa mukatha kudya kwathunthu? Ndimatsogolera kuti ngati mukufuna kulira, fuulani (osati kwa ena, mwachilengedwe; potengera chopondapo, chonde), ndiye kuti muchite. Osawopa zakukhosi kwanu ndi malingaliro anu, phunzirani momwe mungawatengere, kenako mudzamvetsetsa momwe mungalimbane nazo.
Munthu ayenera kuvomereza kuti ali ndi vuto loipa kapena tsiku losafunikira. Ayenera kuphunzira kudziwa kuti sangakhale osalala nthawi zonse. Chifukwa cha izi, pakapita nthawi pamene zochuluka zikuchitika, ndizosavuta kuti ziwapulumuke. Pambuyo pa "kubadwa" kwa vutoli, ubongo wathu umayamba kufunafuna njira zothanirana ndi. Pakachitika kuti mudzakane "zoyipa zoyipa", sizokayikitsa kuti boma lino lisinthe.
Sindikunena kuti kudandaula kwa ena, itanani pakati pausiku kupita ku abwenzi komanso nkhani zotopetsa pa nkhani. Ndikuyesera kukutsimikizirani kuti muyenera kuphunzira kumva kuti ndinu omasuka. Wina akumveka zosavuta, inde? Ndikhulupirireni, ndikudziwa kuti ndi zoyipa bwanji kutenga malingaliro anga. Lolani kuti mumve zomwe ndikufuna mphindi - zosangalatsa, koma m'malo ena zimakopa kwambiri. Mukuchepetsa kuwongolera mtima, inunso mudzamverera kovuta kwambiri munthawiyo ndipo pambuyo pake mumvetsetse kuti sikuti "zoopsa." Ndikhulupirira kuti kufupika sikubweretsa chilichonse chabwino ndipo sichimatipangitsa kukhala bwino / amphamvu / onyoza m'maso mwa ena. Kuphatikiza apo, kuti apusitsidwe m'malingaliro awo miyoyo yawo yonse, simungagwire ntchito iliyonse (izi palibe vuto!) Chifukwa chake ndibwino kuyamba kumvetsera mkhalidwe wanu.