Kuyesedwa kwaperekedwa kwa ife kuti tikhale olimba, komanso - kotero kuti tili bwino. Kukhala pawokha kumakhala kovuta, komanso kulera mwana kusungulumwa - chifukwa chachikulu chomvetsetsa kuti ndiwe "zipatso." Sili ngakhale mchere wopanda mchere kudya. Mwamunayo ali ngati dzanja. Wolemba Tatyana Vedinskaya posachedwapa adatulutsa "fungulo la mtima wa Maya." Chifukwa chabwino kwambiri chokumana ndikumumvera malingaliro ake pamutu wofunika kwa azimayi ambiri. Kupatula apo, Tatyana adalowa munjira iyi ndikuukitsa mwana wake wamkazi.
«Ndikukumbukira momwe zinaliri. Ndikhala pa sofa, mwana wanga wazaka zanga amagona m'magolo, ndipo ndimayesetsa kuzindikira izi - ndidatsala ndekha ndi mwana. Ine - wazaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi zinai, ndikufuna kuwona zojambula za chip ndi Dale, ndikufuna wina kuti afulumire kuti andithandizire, koma patsogolobe kwa zaka zongokhala ndekha. Ndikukumbukira ndikuyang'ana mwana wanga wamkazi ndipo ndikuganiza: Ayi, sindinakonzekere izi. Sindikupirira. Izi ndi zoopsa zina.
Chinthu choyamba chomwe mumaphunzira za inu Yotsala yokha ndi mwana ndi momwe mukugwirira ntchito.
Mwachitsanzo, ine sindinadziwe kuti nditha kupita ku zinthu zambiri patsiku, ngakhale ndi mwana m'manja mwanga. M'malo mwake, ndisanakhale ndi mwanayo, ndinali waulesi. Moyo Wopangidwa - ndipo ndinaphunzira momwe ndingagwiritsire ntchito nthawi yanga ndi zinthu zanga motere chifukwa zinali zokwanira pachilichonse. Ana atha, koma luso la kudzipangitsa limandiphunzitsa mokhulupirika mpaka pano.
Kulera mwana monyanjidwa kumapangitsa kuti mumvetsetse zambiri za inu
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Chinthu chachiwiri chomwe muphunzira za inu - Ndikosavuta kuti mutha kugawa zonse moyenera "zofunika" komanso "zosafunikira."
Kudyetsa mwana ndikofunikira. Sambani pansi - zosafunikira. Pezani ntchito kunyumba ndikofunikira. Kugwirana ndi abwenzi - osafunikira, koma ofunikira, chifukwa, mukudziwa, apo ayi nthawi zambiri ndimakana kudzuka m'mawa.
Chachitatu: Mayi wopanda mayi angadziwe mwachangu kuti, zikakhala mngelo konse - ndipo sizikhala.
Mukakhala ndi ntchito zovuta pamaso panu, nthawi zambiri mumakhala osapita m'mbali. Tayerekezerani mwana wamkazi wabwino? Kodi Mumayembekezera Anthu Osagwirizana? Kudzinamizira Zomwe Mukufuna Kumvera Kumalo a Anthu Okhudza Misonkhano Yanu ya Anzanu? Ayi, mayi wopanda mayi alibe nthawi yokongola. Ndipo chithumwa chimakhala "chifukwa choti" si mngelo ", zimakhalira zosavuta. Anthu amayamba kukulemekezani ndikusintha malingaliro anu. Bonasi yosayembekezeka komanso yosangalatsa.
Zaka Zachinayi - Ikagona, zimakhala, mutha kuyimirira, ndi maso otseguka, komanso ngakhale mu mzere ku Erc.
Kupumula ndi mwayi uliwonse, kupuma kotero kuti chaka chonse mukukumbukira - amayi osakwatiwa amadziwa momwe mungayamikire mphindi ndi maola aulere. Zokwanira mokwanira, mukadzaza muyeso, ufulu uliwonse umabweretsa chisangalalo chochuluka.
Lachisanu: Mphindiyo idzafika pamene mwadzazindikira kuti amayi anga, sanachite bwino kwambiri atalangizidwa kudikira, osagawika kuti asasiye maphunziro ake, kuganizira zamtsogolo zake.
Amayi osakwatiwa omwe amapambana, osamvetseka mokwanira, amapeza nthawi yawo "yosindikizidwa" yopanga nthawi yodzidalira, kuti athandize ziyeneretso, pezani dipuloma. Zimathandizira bungwe komanso kudziletsa, zomwe ndidalemba kale pamwambapa.
Koma Kupeza kwakukulu Kuyembekezera Amayi-Lomor, izi ndi zomwe iye amakhoza kukondana ndikukonda. Chiwerengero chochititsa chidwi, koma chiwerengero cha maulendo opambana, koma chiwerengero cha maulendo opambana ndi akazi okhala ndi mwana wamkulu. Amayi osungulumwa, monga lamulo, kutembenukira kuti mukhale akazi okongola. Amasankha amuna oyenera, osathamangira, musapangitse zopanda pake, chizindikiritso cha achichepere achikondi, ndipo - nthawi zambiri - nthawi zambiri khalani osangalala muukwati wobwereza mobwerezabwereza. Koma izi, monga akunena, nkhani ina kale. "