Kodi mungakhale bwanji kwa munthu wanu yemwe akufuna komanso yekhayo? Funso ili silibwera pansi ndi magulu osati buku limodzi. Ndipo ndizothandiza tsiku lililonse. Amayi ambiri amaloledwa kusuntha ziphunzitso zawo zonse ndi mapepu awo kuti atenge chisamaliro chachimuna ndikukhala kwa iye. Komabe, pali malamulo anayi osagwedezeka omwe mayi ayenera kuwona pafupi ndi iye. Ndipo sizokha kutalika kwa miyendo ndi kukongola.
Chinthu chachikulu ndi mzimu, enawo alibe ndi vuto?
Mafashoni amakono amapereka machenjera ambiri: kupanga miyendo yayitali, siketi yafupi, eyess ndi yakuda, milomo yamafuta, itc. Koma zimangokhala zosungunulira.
Wina ndi akazi okwatirana omwe sakhalanso kuyesera kudzisamalira, chifukwa mwamunayo waona chilichonse: m'mawa, ndi wodwala, komanso wowuma. Akazi ambiri otere amakhulupirira kuti chinthu chachikulu ndi mzimu. Ndipo ngati mwamunayo akonda mzimu, maonekedwe ake salinso zinthu. Tsoka ilo, chikhulupiliro ndi chokhazikika, chotero. Alan ndi Barbara Piz, ofufuza aku America pamunda wa maubale, adaganiza kuti amuna ndi mafunso awo aluntha komanso zinthu zina zomwe sizikonda akazi omwe:
- wokongola;
- Wokhoza kubadwa kwa ana athanzi (monga akunenera kuti khungu, tsitsi, mano, nyerere zowoneka bwino, zokongoletsedwa bwino);
- Wokhoza kutumikira bambo uyu : Cook kophika, tsatirani zovala zake, chilimbikitso apanyumba, dongosolo, ndi zina zotero.
- Verny ndi odzipereka kwa munthu uyu.
Lembani mndandanda wosangalatsa! Nthawi yomweyo, onse a amuna, ndi amayi ndizofunika kwambiri. Kwa azimayi omwe ali omasuka kwambiri oyenera kusamalira, amatha kukhala chizindikiro. Thupi laimuna limapanga maulendo 5 kuposa mahomoni a azimayi omwe ali ndi udindo wokhala boma ngati AdEan ndi chidwi. Ichi ndichifukwa chake amasankha mosamala, ndi kusankha mnzake. Ambiri amakhudzidwa ngati akazi omwe akumvetsetsa kwawo amadzipanga okha kukhala owoneka bwino: amadula tsitsi lawo, kuvala china chake. Chifukwa chake, azimayi akuwoneka kuti akumvetsa kuti amuna akulakwitsa ndi kusankha komwe si njira yochezera kwambiri.
Ndidapereka nsembe
Tsopano za omwe sakudziwa momwe angapangire ndikusunga ubale ndi zojambula zakunja ndi kugonana. Izi sizotheka kufotokoza za mahomoni okha. Ngakhale, ngakhale mutatsata gulu la amuna okwatirana, ndiye kuti mapulogalamu a CT 2 amagwirizanitsidwa ndi kuthekera kwa mkazi kuti "akhale mnzake" ndipo adalimbikitsana.
M'malingaliro ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu athu, lingaliro la "ndalama" limasokonezedwa ndi lingaliro la "kupereka nsembe". Amayi ambiri amakhala okonzeka aliyense, kuti azikhala pafupi ndi mwamunayo ndikuyika fupa - "Ndayamba kuyanjana."
Chitsanzo cha izi zingakhale: kumvetsera nkhani zopanda pake; Kuyesa kupulumutsa mnzanu kuchokera pa hanguni, m'malo motsatira zochitika zawo; Kugonana "chifukwa akufuna"; Kuthamangitsa ndalama kwa nthawi yayitali; Kupereka mphatso zamtengo wapatali, ngakhale zikakhala zosatheka.
Amuna amawona kuti wokondedwa wawo amasamukira. Amamvanso kukhala nthawi yayitali, ndipo atazunzidwa - nawonso ali wolakwa. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zambiri imathamangitsa ngakhale kukongola kodabwitsa. Kumverera kwa ngongole ndi ngongole kupha chilako chilichonse.
Chifukwa chake, malire ndikofunikira pankhani yomanga maubwenzi, kutanthauza kuti mkati ndi chakuti kunja. Chongani zovala zanu, tsitsi limatsitsimutsa mawonekedwe ake, lipange zokonzedwa bwino komanso zolimba. Chifukwa chake amuna ozungulira inu adzakhala ochulukirapo kuposa ena. Eya, kuthekera kokhazikitsa muubwenzi ndi luso lomwe lingafunikire kugwira moyo wanga wonse. Dala!
Maria zemykova, wamisala, wothandizira pabanja komanso kutsogolera kwa maphunziri a Center Working Center Marina