Ndizosatheka kutumiza kudalirika komanso ubale wopanda m'maganizo komanso mwakuthupi. Popanda izi, alipo, ngakhale maubwenzi aatali kwambiri, atembenuke kuchokera kwa okonda kukhala othandizana nawo, omwe sangalolere ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi mgwirizano ndi wokondedwa wanu.
Tinaganiza zopezera zomwe zimayenera kupanga awiri kuti asamalidwe kulumikizidwa kosawoneka.
Osayerekezera mnzake ndi amuna ena
Palibe wa woimira pansi wa pansi osayerekezeredwa ndi amuna ena, makamaka ngati fanizo silikukondera. Kumbukirani kuti fanizo lililonse ndi munthu wina yemwe simunakhale naye paubwenzi weniweni sangadzetse phindu lililonse, koma lidzakulepheretsani kudzidalira kwa munthu wanu. Pankhaniyi, sikofunikira kukambirana za maubwenzi abwino komanso odalirika.
Lekani kufunsa kwa mnzanu wa kusintha
Kumbukirani kuti anthu abwino sakuchitika, bambo wanu ndi wamkulu, ndi mfundo zake komanso malingaliro ake ofalikira padziko lapansi, kuti azisokoneza kufanana ndi dziko lapansi kudzakhala kovuta kwambiri. Ganizirani zomwe inu simukukhutira ndi iye kwa inu. Kodi mumasowa kuchitira chidwi? Bwanji osagawana pang'ono ndi izi, m'malo mongofuna kutsatira lingaliro lanu la ubale wabwino. Onetsani kusintha, bamboyo adzakhala othokoza.
Osawopa kutsegula bambo
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Chikondi chochuluka
Inde, tikukambirana za kama. Moyo wapamtima ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri zomanga ubale wolimba komanso wapamtima. Sizingatheke kudziwa munthu, kukhala ndi usiku umodzi naye, wina alibe moyo kuti asangalale ndi theka lanu lachiwiri. Osawopa kuyesa kukagona ndikuphunzira zambiri kukhulupirirana wina ndi mnzake nthawi zabwino kwambiri.
Pezani chinthu chimodzi
Palibe chomwe chimagwirizanitsa banja ngati ntchito wamba. Ngati mwakhala pachibwenzi ndikumva kuti Iskra masamba, pezani mwayi wopulumuka ndi mnzanu, koma nthawi zonse muziganizira zofuna zanu zokha, komanso zofuna za wokondedwa wanu.
Khalani omasuka
Mwamuna wanu si wokondedwa yekha komanso munthu amene amakutetezani, komanso amakhala wokonzeka kukumverani ndi kusamalira mukafuna. Kuyankhula za moyo womwe simukuwona kutuluka, osati chiwonetsero cha kufooka, koma chibadwa chamunthu chokwanira cholandira chithandizo ndi kumvetsetsa kuchokera kwa munthu wapamtima. Chifukwa chake, timagawana molimba mtima ndi anthu, nkhani zam'malingaliro, kotero mukukhala kulumikizana komwe mumafunikira.