Masiku ano ndizovuta kuyerekezera moyo wokhazikika wopanda kulankhulana. Maluso olumikizirana kumathandiza kwambiri pantchito, amalola kukhazikitsa moyo ndi kupeza anzanu. Komabe, nthawi zambiri ndikofunikira kupeza malo apamwamba kapena kuphunzira kukambirana zimatipangitsa kuti tigwiritse ntchito akatswiri azamisala ndipo amapita kumitundu yonse. Koma momwe tingaphunzirire kulumikizana popanda kusokonezeka? Tidzauza.
Osapewa kulankhulana
Nthawi zambiri, munthu amene amamupha, mukamafuna kulowa ndi munthu wina, amayesetsa kupewa mikhalidwe yomwe adzadzikuzanso. Sinthani njira. Ngati mungamuone mnzanu mwangozi mumakumana naye mwangozi, musayese kungolira mwanjira ina, anene kuti moni, ngati mungachite. Kuyambira ndi masitepe ang'onoang'ono, posakhalitsa mudzasiya kukumana ndi vuto lililonse.
Musalole kudziletsa nokha
Gawo lalikulu la mavutowo polankhulana zimapangidwa chifukwa chomvera. Tiyerekeze kuti tikudziwa kuti munthu amene amalankhula nawo modabwitsa, koma muyenera kukambirana naye funso lofunika. Mumadziyang'anira nokha pasadakhale zokambirana zotopetsa, zomwe, mwazomwezo, zikutembenukira, m'malo mwake, yesani kuyilamulira m'manja. Kudziwa mitu yanji kuti mulankhule ndi mdani wanu, yambitsani zokambiranazo kuti mukambirane zokambirana zokhazokha ndikumasulira zonsezo, zomwe zingakhale zabwino kwa onsewo, osapereka foniyo kuti ipite kumitu yoyipa.
Osawopa kukhala oyeserera
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Yambitsani zokambirana zanu
Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi moyenera kwambiri kuti musinthe kudzidalira - kulankhula ndi bambo woyamba. Choyamba, zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri chifukwa choopa kukanidwa, koma mukalandira kuyankha kwabwino kwa omwe akuphunzira nanu, kudzidalira kwanu kudzachitika. Komabe, ndikofunikira kulingalira za momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito zomwe zingakhalepo: ngati mukuwona kuti munthu sakonzedwa kuti azilankhulana, dikirani.
Mawonekedwe sichothandiza nthawi zonse
Inde, mukamagwiritsa ntchito zokambirana zofunika, muyenera kutsatira mtunda winawake, koma nthawi zina zimakhala zouma mafunso anu ndi mayankho okha ongokakamiza kuti asokonezene ndi inu. Palibenso chifukwa chotero. Yesani kupuma, mutha nthabwala, ndipo koposa zonse, sankhani mitu yomwe mudzasangalale ndi zomwe mudzakhale nazo zonse, chifukwa palibe choyipa kuposa omwe akuigwiritsa ntchitoyo, yemwe amangonena za iye ndi mavuto ake.
Khazitsani zaluso
Kuphatikiza makanema okhala ndi bloggir kapena zokambirana ndi munthu wodziwika yemwe amakonda anthu mamiliyoni ambiri, mwina mwina adawona wosewera wapadera wa chikhalidwechi. Munthu wotopetsa yemwe amakambirana pa cholembera chimodzi, osati kuti alibe chidwi, sangathe kuchita bwino mwa omvera. Yesani kugwiritsa ntchito mayeso anu: Pezani kanemayo pa netiweki yokhala ndi munthu amene mumamukonda, munthu amene mumamusilira, ndipo mumasilira mafunso ake, pomwe iye sakhala pantchito, koma amalankhula kuchokera kwa iye. Yesani kumvetsetsa kuti chinsinsi cha kuchita bwino kumeneku, chifukwa munthu wotchuka aliyense amadziwa kuyika anthu. Ntchito yanu ndikupeza zomwe zimathandiza munthu kuti akope owonerera atsopano ndikuyesera kugwiritsa ntchito motere polankhulana ndi anthu ena.