Iliyonse ili ndi munthu wotsika kapena wamkulu kuposa mnzake. Komabe, nthawi zina, kulimbitsa kugonana kwathanzi kumakula, pambuyo pake kungakhale ulemu wosangalatsa.
Kodi mungadziwe bwanji chiyani munthu wanu yemwe ali ndi lingaliro labwino kwambiri?
Akatswiri amisala amayambitsa zizindikiro zingapo zodziwika bwino:
- Mwamuna yemwe ali ndi nkhawa zokhumudwitsa amawoneka mafilimu osunthira akuluakulu, ndipo zimachita zokha popanda umodzi wogwirizana ndi kugonana kwanu.
- Nthawi iliyonse ndikagonana nanu, akuyesetsa kudzikhutiritsa pakapita kanthawi.
- Ngati mwadzidzidzi mukana kuyandikira kwambiri, amayamba kuchita zinthu mokwanira.
Kodi mwayi woti munthu adzayang'ana kumbali yanji?
Ngakhale ndi ludzu losatha, osati "chimphona chilichonse chomwe chingasankhe pa woweta. Onse payekha: ngati wina athetsedwa kulumikizana ndi mayi wina aliyense yemwe adamuyankha mobwerezabwereza, ndiye kuti winayo sadzayang'ana kwa mnzake, koma adapereka kuti mkazi wakeyo akwaniritse. Nthawi zambiri, vutoli limathedwa, pomwe m'modzi wa omwe ali mmodzi adzachotsedwa pa kugonana, amayamba kukayikira theka lachiwiri m'Cusono, ndipo nthawi zambiri amakayikira.
Munthu wodalira saganiza za chisangalalo chanu
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Kodi mungasiyanitse bwanji chizolowezi chogonana?
Kusiyana kwakukulu kumatha kuonedwa kuti ndikukhutira kwanu: Kodi mwamunayo amayesa kukukondweretsani kapena ndikungosangalatsa kwanu? Nthawi zambiri, anthu odalira saganiza za wokondedwa aliyense konse, amakonda kupeza zotulutsa posachedwa. Wogwira naye ntchito yabwino yokhudza kugonana, monga lamulo, amayang'ana kukhutira kwa theka lachiwiri.
Zoyenera kuchita ngati mnzanu akugonana?
Chofunika koposa, sikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti popanda katswiri pano. Ndizosatheka kupeza yankho lavutoli, popeza kudalira kwa kugonana sikusiyananso ndi mitundu ina ya zodalira zomwe zimafunikira kusokoneza. Ngati mnzanuyo amasangalala ndi chibwenzi chanu, iye ali ndi gawo lalikulu lomwe angakuthandizeni kulandira thandizo kuti akusungeni, koma kufunitsitsa kudzipulumutsa kumachokera kwa iye, chifukwa ndizosatheka kuthandiza munthu yemwe alibe kuzindikira za kupezeka kwa vuto.