Chikondi ndi chinthu chovuta. Simungadziwe kuti ndani mwa kukoma kwa munthu amene wakukopeka ndi inu, ndipo ngati muli ndi ubale mtsogolo. Komabe, mzimayi aliyense pa Arsenal ali ndi njira zingapo zomwe zimathandiza kufulumizitsa ku Kulankhulana Kwaubwenzi Kukhala Pamisonkhano Yachikondi. Ikugawana zinsinsi ndi iwo omwe, chifukwa cha zaka zachikondi, sanaphunzirepo kupeza njira kwa abambo.
Kumwetulira - chida chachikulu
Ndani mungafune kupitiliza kulankhulana - ndi munthu amene amakumwetulira kapena akasula kapena sawonetsa momwe aliri? Ndizomveka kuti anthu ambiri asankha njira yoyamba. Timatambasuliratu anthu abwino - ndipo izi zimatsimikizira sayansi. Chifukwa chake alers magazine amalemba za phunziroli UC Berkley, zomwe zidachitika kwa zaka 30: Zithunzi zophunziridwa za omaliza maphunziro a Maphunziro a Zithunzi zakale, kenako ndikuwunikira moyo wawo kumapeto kwa sukulu. Zinapezeka kuti anthu omwe azolowera kumwetulira adakwanitsa kuposa anzawo kuwonongeka padziko lonse lapansi - moyo, ntchito, ntchito. Chifukwa chake kumwetulira, abwenzi, ndipo mudzakumana ndi chikondi chanu!
Muwoneni ali m'maso
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Mchikondi
"Ndingaganizire bwanji kuyang'ana mchikondi?" - Mukufunsa. Ndipo tidzayankha choti achite izi ndi zophweka: Funsani mitundu ya akatswiri akamasinthanitsa ndi zithunzi za ukwati wa chikondi, komwe akuyenera kufotokozera banja lachikondi lomwe amawona kwa nthawi yoyamba M'moyo. Kuti mugwirizane, muyenera kukumbukira mtundu wina wa moyo wanu mukakhala mchikondi kapena wokonda wokondedwa. Kenako timakondwera ndi chizolowezi chokondana ndi munthu: Kukula pang'ono mutu wa nyumbayi, kumwetulira ndi ngodya za pakamwa ndipo nthawi ndi nthawi yang'anani kuchokera ku Interloor. Mutha kukonza tsitsi kuseri kwa makutu kapena chitoliro cha mphepo pala lanu. Ngakhale munthu wokamba nkhani kwambiri amadziwa kuti amakukondani - kenako udzaona kumvera chisoni, kapena kusayanjanitsidwa kwathunthu ndikumvetsetsa chilichonse.
Mawonekedwe owongoka
Mukangofika kumbuyo kwanu ndikuchotsa mapewa pang'ono, mawonekedwe anu nthawi yomweyo amasinthidwa. Spark imawoneka m'maso, chiwerengerocho chimakhala chowoneka bwino, ndipo kunyada kwa kunyada kwa mphuno kumakula pang'ono. Pamlingo wozindikira, mwamunayo amawerenga chizindikiro chanu chomwe chimakuwuzani kuti mumakukondani komanso kumayamikira. Ndipo anthu, okhutitsidwa ndi iwo okha ndi moyo wawo, monga mukudziwa, amakopa chidwi kwa ena - amafunikira kukoka. Ngati mukusungunula nthawi zambiri kuti muthandizire aliyense akuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi buku lovala chidendene.
Nkhani Yapamtima
Pamsonkhano woyamba, simungathe kuyankhula: Panthawi ya chibwenzi, anthu ambiri mosama mosazindikira amaphatikiza chithunzi - machitidwe omwe amapereka mtundu wa munthuyu. Koma atakhala ndi masiku angapo, mudzapeza chilankhulo komanso kusunthira pa nkhani za nkhani zoseketsa kuti zitheke bwino. Munthu akamakukhulupirirani ndi maloto ake ndipo amalankhula za moyo amapentedwa, ndiye kuti nthawi yomweyo akuwoneka kuti ndi weniweni. Anthu omwe ali ndi mawu otukuka amakhala osavuta kukonda munthu wamoyo wotere kuposa momwe chithunzicho chidaperekedwa pagulu.
Kukumbatira munthu wosangalatsa
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Kukhudza Kuwala
Akatswiri azamisala amakhala ndi phwando lachinsinsi lomwe limagwira ntchito modekha. Kukonza munthu kwa inu, pamisonkhano muyenera kukhudza dzanja lamanja lake lamanja. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti munthuyo yekha sazindikira izi - onani chinyengo chotere mukamalankhulana bwino mukamaimirira pamaso pa wina ndi mnzake. Muthanso kukhudza phewa Lake, tengani munthu ali ndi kapena kukumbatirana. Tsimikizanani ndi munthu wosangalatsa kwa ife timakwiyitsa kukula kwa mahomoni a oxytocin ndi dopamine, "kupuma" ubongo komanso kumatipatsa chidwi chosangalatsa cha buku latsopano.