Tiyeni tiwone bwino. M'malo motero pali zovuta zanu. Mwachitsanzo, monganso, atsikana ambiri achichepere amakhala ovutikira anthu okwatirana. Kwa mtsikana, iyi ndi njira yofotokozera, monga mkazi wamkulu wosangalatsa yemwe angadalire osati osazindikira, komanso amunawo. Nzeru zathu, kapangidwe ka umunthu wathu kumapangidwa ndi zaka 28. Mfundo zoyambirira, maziko ndi ziphunzitso za iwo ndi dziko lomwe timapeza mpaka m'badwo uno. Chifukwa chake, ngakhale achinyamata akufunafuna njira yawo, mizere yawo imakula pafupi ndi bwenzi lokhazikika.
Koma pano siophweka kwambiri. Amuna okwatirana amakhala ngati atsikana osavuta. Zambiri mwazinthuzi sizimayenda kulikonse, chifukwa atsikana awa safuna anzawo okhazikika. Ambiri mwa oimira amphamvu kwambiri, akuvomereza ndi amuna okwatirana, ndi ana aakazi aukamwa kapena ana oledzera kapena ana adakula kukhala mabanja ovutika. Maubwenzi apamtima amagwirizanitsidwa ndi zowawa, kulangidwa, kusokonekera kopweteka komanso kudzitaya. Chifukwa chake, ali okhutira kwathunthu ndi ubalewo patali ndi kulephera kutseka kwenikweni.
Mwa amuna, zifukwa zawo zoterezi ndi: Mavuto Akuluakulu azaka zapakati, kuyesayesa kofunika kwambiri, mavuto amphamvu kwambiri muukwati, pamene makolo amafooka, ndipo maanja amapeza ndalama zazitali kwa wina ndi mnzake.
Chosinthira ndi ubale wa wachinyamata wokhala ndi mayi wazaka. Anthu ali ndi mawu ambiri omwe amasokoneza kupukusa kwa mkazi. "Mu 45 baba - Brury kachiwiri," mwina mawu wamba. Akazi nthawi zambiri amagwirizanitsa umunthu wawo ndi unyamata, watsopano ndi unyamata. Chifukwa chake, kulimbikira kuyeserera kuti musunge "zinthu zabwino". Amadziwa kuti ndi achinyamata, kukongola ndi kugonana kumakoka amuna. Chifukwa chake, wokonda wachinyamatayo ndi njira yodziuza kuti "ndidakali woyamba kubadwa," umboni woti udakali pachiwopsezo chachikulu.
Kwa mnzake wachinyamata, izi ndi chinthu chinachake. Monga lamulo, zimakonda kwambiri mbali za amayi athu maubale awa: Kuleza mtima, kulekerera, nzeru ndi kukhulupirika kwa okwatirana ake. Amuna oterewa amadzifufuza okha omwe amayi abwino kuposa momwe amachitikira.
Kutsutsa kotere pakati pa anthu, komwe kumakutidwa ndi chipolopolo, chikondi ndi moyo wamunthu.
Kuwerenga nkhaniyi, mwinanso, mwina mungaganize kuti maubale omwe ali ndi mnzanga wapamwamba kapena wotsika kwambiri ndi masewera okhazikika, zobisika komanso zobisika. Komabe, izi si zoona. Ubale ndi chikondi zenizeni ndizotheka ndi masinthidwe aliwonse komanso kusiyana pakati paukalamba, makamaka ngati nthawi zambiri amadzichitira okha zofuna, zosowa zawo ndi ntchito zawo.
Zikatero, kusiyana kwa zaka ndi gawo lomwe lidzakhale lokhalo lomwe liyenera kuphunzira kukhala ndi moyo: kupeza zokonda, ntchito, chidwi ndi moyo wa wina ndi mnzake zomwe zachitika.
Maria Donakkova (zemykova), katswiri wazamisala, wothandizira pabanja komanso akuwongolera kukula kwa uphunzitsi wa Mary Khazin