1. Maonekedwe a mano oyamba a mwana ndilochitika chosangalatsa kwa makolo ake. Njirayi nthawi zambiri imakhala limodzi ndi kupweteka komanso kuwonongeka kwa mwana wakhanda. Imakhala wopanda chopumira, yovuta, yovuta, nthawi zambiri kugona. Zoyenera kuchita? Gulani zoseweretsa zapadera, otchedwa atsesa. Zofanana ndi ma ragles, ayenera kukhala ochokera ku zinthu zopanda pake (pulasitiki kapena mphira). Teletheler yotere imasewera ndi cholembera choyamba, ndipo masheya ofunikira kuti agwirizane ndi ana.
2. Mukatsatira nthano kuti musamatsatire mano ochotsa mwana, ndiye kuti mtsogolo zitha kubweretsa mavuto ambiri. Pambuyo pa zonse, chitetezo choyambirira chimayikidwa mkamwa! Ndi maonekedwe a mano a mkaka, ndikofunikira kuwasamalira mosamalitsa: makolo ayenera kuphunzitsa mwana kuti azigwiritsa ntchito burashi (kuyamba kugwiritsa ntchito nsikidzi za ana). Kupanda kutero, zimakhala zovuta kudziteteza ku chitukuko cha mariti.
3. Ali ndi zaka zisanu, ana amatha kale ndipo akufuna kutsuka mano, koma izi sizitanthauza kuti makolo ayenera kusuntha bwino chifukwa cha izi kwa mwana. Mthandizireni kuti ayang'ane mosamala momwe adagwirira ntchito mosamala. Kuyambira zaka zisanu mutha kugwiritsa ntchito mano. Sankhani, ndikuyang'ana pa kapangidwe kake, ndicho chinthu chofunikira kwambiri chomwe phala silikhala ndi sultechete, parbens, oteteza zopeka, timbewu ndi kuchuluka kwakukulu.