Chiwonetsero china cha Bernard chinalemba kuti: "Unyamata ndi chinthu chodabwitsa. Upandu wake ndi mwayi wowononga bwanji ana! " Inde, m'dziko lamakono kuchuluka kwa anthu kukana kubereka ana sikukula. Wina akulengeza mokalipa udindo wake pankhaniyi pankhaniyi, podzitcha yekha, ndipo wina akupanga, kungotsatira zosankha zake.
Kodi chifukwa chake ndi chiyani? Kodi ndichifukwa chiyani anthu amoyo omwe amatha kubereka ana akana kubereka ana? Wofufuza zaku Canada J. Miyezo imayitanitsa zifukwa ziwiri pankhaniyi. Yoyamba ndi yonyansa kwa ana aang'ono ndi zonse zomwe zimalumikizidwa ndi iwo: njira yoyembekezera, yobereka, yoyamwitsa. Pali anthu okwana okwana, koma alipo. Chachiwiri sichikufuna kusintha moyo wanu. Ndiye kuti, anthu ali ozolowera kuti ali ndi nthawi yaulere, kuthekera komwe safuna kukana. Ndizosadabwitsa kuti ngakhale nyumba zapanyumba zimapezeka pakati pa anthu otere: amakonza bwino nyumba yawo, kugula mapepala okongola ndi okwera mtengo ndipo sakufuna kuti ana awonongeke ndi ana onyansa.
Pali chochitika chinanso cha zochitika. Anthu "okonda" ngati ruvo ngati, kuti asinthe yankho nthawi zonse: sindikufuna, ndiye ndikufunanso, pompano, ndipo pa nthawi yomaliza kuchokera kwinakwake kuti ine Sindikufuna "osafuna." Chifukwa chake akuyika moyo wawo wonse kufikira utayamba. Njira ina ndi kuimitsidwa kosalekeza panthawiyi "pambuyo pake." Anthu akuyembekezera ndalama zokwanira kuti apeze, amapangira ntchito kapena kusamukira kudziko lina. Nkhaniyi imatha kukhala yofanana ndi yomwe idachitika kale.
Nthawi zina kwa zaka mpaka 40-50 amuna ndi akazi amayamba kudandaula kuti sanapeze ana. Koma, osamvetseka mokwanira, ena amadzimvera chisoni, chifukwa sasangalala komanso kukhutira ndi kholo lawo lomwe. Nthawi zina anthu amabala ana pokakamizidwa ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu: "Aliyense ali nalo, zikutanthauza kuti ndiyenera kukhala" kapena "makolowo anaphunzitsa kotero" ndi zonse za mzimuwu. Mukusamba, ndikuyembekeza kuti, monga ambiri, zimabweretsa chisangalalo. Ndipo chakudyacho sichimabwera nthawi zonse pa chakudya ...
Ngati timalankhula za kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, ndiye kuti nthawi zambiri zimapangitsa kuti azimayi azichita zinthu zabwino komanso kuchuluka kwa ndalama komanso anthu olemera komanso osalemera.
Zachidziwikire, kubadwa kwa mwana kumachoka kwa mayi kwambiri - mphamvu, nthawi, thanzi - kuposa amuna. Koma akazi ndipo amapeza zochuluka kuchokera kwa icho. Ubwino wofunikira kwambiri umalumikizana ndi mwana.
Masiku ano, mwamwayi tili ndi ufulu kusankha ndipo titha kukonza zinthu zofunika kwambiri monga momwe timafunira kuti tipeze nthawi yathu pa zomwe timayandikira. ;)