Mwabwera kuno kwa miyezi ingapo ndipo simungathe kusiyana. Koma patapita kanthawi, peel igwera, siinu munthu wolakwika yemwe mwamukonzera kuti mumange ubale wotalikirapo. Koma zinthu zonsezi ndikuti malingaliro achikondi sanakhalepo pakati panu, panali chidwi chimodzi. Ndiye kodi mungasiyanitse bwanji malingaliro awiriwa kuti amvetsetse, ndiye kuti ndi woyenera kuwononga nthawi yomwe simudzakhala ndi nkhani yayitali? Tinayesa kudziwa.
Mukudalirana wina ndi mnzake
Mukakhala pamsonkhano, ngakhale kwa nthawi yoyamba, zikuwoneka kuti mtima umakhala wokonzeka kudumpha pachifuwa, komanso m'njira yeniyeni. Akatswiri azamisala amakangana kuti kudalirana kwa mnzake kumakulanso, komwe sikungakhale mu ubale wabwino. Ngati simungathe kuyang'ana pa nokha, m'malo mwake pezani msonkhano wanu womaliza m'mutu mwanu, lingalirani ngati mungafunike zokumana nazozi kuti ndizovuta kuyitanitsa chikondi?
Ngati mungathe kuthana ndi mavuto pabedi, sapita kulikonse
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Ndikosavuta kuti mule nawo
Chizindikiro china cha ubale wodalira momwe mulibe chikondi - zokumana nazo ndikudzilimbitsa nokha pomwe mnzanu mulibe. Munthu amene amadzidalira yekha ndipo theka lake lachiwiri sadzatengedwa ndi mafoni ndi mauthenga achiwiri mphindi zisanu zilizonse, poopa kuti pakusowa kwake, chilichonse chitha kuchitika, mpaka kalekale kwa woweta. Kukhazikika kwamuyaya kumatha kutopa ngakhale kwa wokondedwa kwambiri, komanso, monga lamulo, malingaliro awa alibe chilichonse chochita ndi chikondi.
Mumangokhala pabedi
Kukangana kwamkuntho komwe kumayiwalika mosamalitsa, ndikotheka kwa sinema. Lolani kuti mupeze chilankhulo cha ola lotsatira, koma vuto silinapite kulikonse, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mudzabweransonso. Monga lamulo, anthu ali ndi chidwi choonana wina ndi mnzake samabisa mavuto mu maubale. Gwirizanani?
Simungakhale moyo popanda kudyetsa
Zowoneka bwino, kumverera kopitilira muyeso - Satelasi yokhazikika ya ubale uliwonse, koma pa kanthawi koyambirira, pakapita kanthawi, timakumana kale paubwenzi wanu, mwaphunzirana bwino ndi bwenzi lanu. Komabe, mu awiri, komwe kuli pakona ya ngodyayo ndi kukopa kokha, kusatengeka kophuka ndi tsoka lenileni, ndipo mkhalidwe wamalingaliro "sungatchulidwe chikondi.