Zikuwoneka kuti mavuto angabuke ndi kufunafuna banja lino, pakakhala ntchito zambiri komanso malo ochezera, pomwe mamiliyoni osungulumwa amayesa kupeza mnzake? Koma vuto silitha kulikonse: Mudakhala nthawi yokhayo. Kodi chifukwa chake ndi chiyani? Tinayesa kudziwa.
Simudzilemekeza
Kuti mukwaniritse ulemu kuchokera kumbali, choyamba, ndikofunikira kuti muyambe kudzilemekeza. Mu banja mukapanga, mudzalemba malirewo ndikuteteza zomwe mumakonda. Ngati kudzidalira kwanu ndi zero, mumayika pachiyanjano, poizoni, komwe mnzanu adzakhala wopambana. Maganizo anu abwino adzatenga monga kupatsa, chifukwa chake malingaliro anu sadzawerengera pomwe simukufuna kudziteteza.
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Ndinu ogwirizana kwambiri
Ngati mwazolowera kugawaniza dziko lapansi ndi zoyera, yembekezerani mnzanuyo adzasangalala nawe, simuyenera. Monga lamulo, mkazi, ngati munthu, pali njira inayake ya munthu amene akuyenera kukupangitsani kukhala osangalala, koma zenizeni ndikuti chisangalalo chenicheni chimatha kupereka ndi munthu yemwe ali pafupi ndi inu, koma mumatero osazindikira kuti mbali yachiwiri. Yesani mosamala kuti muphunzire malo omwe muli: Musakhale "kalonga" kuchokera m'maloto anu pamenepo, koma osakhala opanda chidwi ndi inu, munthu woyenera.
Mumavala munthu
Ngati mavuto amabwera mwa awiri, monga lamulo, vinyo amagona pa onse, koma zimakhala zovuta kuti tizindikire kulakwitsa kwawo, ndichifukwa chake kukakamizidwa kwa mnzake kumayamba kukonda momwe mungafunire. Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti sitingathe kuwongolera ndikuwongolera munthu wamkulu, pokhapokha si choncho. Zotsatira za kukakamizidwa kwamuyaya kumakhala kap.
Mumangoyang'ana nokha
M'malankhu ogwirizana kuti palibe malo omwe ali ndi vuto, omwe ambiri amaiwala. Chizolowezi chomvetsera zokhumba zake zokha, kunyalanyaza malingaliro ndi zosowa za theka lachiwiri - njira yachindunji yopita ku Bomlem komanso usiku. Phunzirani kulabadira munthu yemwe amakhala nthawi yayitali kwambiri.