Ndili wotsimikiza kwambiri kuti kukongola kumachokera mkati. Chifukwa chake, muyenera kusamalira dziko lanu. Choyamba, chimakhudza malingaliro athu. Kuzindikira kwathu kumatanthauza miyoyo yathu. Kukongola kwenikweni kumakhala ndi chochita ndi kutsekedwa, mipando pazakudya, kumeta miyendo, kupaka utoto ndi kupusa kwina komwe tikuyendetsa kulibe vuto.
Kukongola ndi zomwe mumaganiza za inu nokha, za dziko kuzungulira banja lanu. Pali mawu ogwira mtima: "Ndife zomwe timadya", zomwe timati chakudya chathu chimapanga thupi lathu. Malingaliro athu ndi chakudya chakuzindikira kwathu, amadyetsedwanso ndikutipanga pamene akuwona ena. Ngati munthu walamulidwa ndi "malingaliro okoma", Amadzikonda yekha, dziko lapansi, likuchita zomwe amakonda, zikomo chifukwa cha zomwe ali nazo, ndiye kuti anthu amawona kuti akuwoneka mosiyana. Amawala mkati mwa chisangalalo komanso kukomera mtima. Koma ngati mtsikanayo amangodzitsutsa nthawi zonse, chinthu chosakhutira ndi munthu wokhumudwitsidwa kapena woipa, wina amamukondera, nawonso amamuchitira iye pamalo anzeru. Maganizo onse olakwika amafunika kupha. Ndipo kukongola kwanu sikukhala kunja, komanso kuchokera mkati.
Nditha kunena izi ngati wopambana wa miss Russia Laster chaka chatha. Ndinali ndi atsikana okongola modabwitsa, koma zosinthana zomwe ndidawona momwe amadzinkhulira okha, kuti ali ndi ma shares, sadziwa momwe angakhalire, ndikudzikayikira. Zabwino kuti ndimakondwera ndi njirayi, zidandithandiza kupambana, osati kuti ndine wokongola kwambiri kuposa ena kapena ndili ndi mwendo watali. Nditanditsatira, nthawi zambiri ndinali kulembedwa m'boma ndikufunsa zoyenera kuchita kuti tipeze mpikisano: Zingakhale bwanji kavalidwe kamene kali kavalidwe, komwe ndi bwino kuwonetsa pa mpikisano. Nthawi zonse ndimayankha mafunso awa kuti ngakhale mtundu wa kavalidwe kamene kamasankha chilichonse: anthu amawona moyo wanu poyamba mukadzakoma, kenako kukongola kwanu kumawala mkatimo.