Posachedwa, mumamva kuchokera kumbali zonse: "Ine ndiri ndi mavuto", "akukhala ndi kafukufuku" mnzake "ndi zina.
Kulikonse komwe dothi lidayamba nkhondo, likadali vuto lomwe likufunika kuthetsedwa, ndipo ndibwino kupewa. Zoyenera - kufika pazinthu ngati izi ndikuthetsa vuto kuti maphwando onse awiri akhuta - kupeza zodziyimira. Ndikuuzeni momwe mungachitire.
Malingaliro
Kodi mumakonda mukakulilirani, musamvere, kusokoneza ndikulimbane ndi mzere wanu? Ndikuganiza kuti mnzanu amasangalala ndi izi. Musaganize kuti ndinu amphamvu, anzeru, molondola. Kuletsa mtima ndikusokoneza mikangano mozama, ndipo vesati yanu siopusa kwambiri.
Kulira kwa mkanganowu sikuthetsedwa
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Kodi panali vuto?
Ngati mungayang'ane mkanganowo modekha, zitha kutembenukira kuti vutoli silofunika "mazira atsalira". Zimachitika kuti munthuyo amadzitchinjiriza.
"Wachedwa, samandikonda, samafunikira ubale wathu, ndiye kuti, ayi, ndikonza." Ndipo zonsezi zimagwera pamutu pa mwamuna wake, kukakamira magalimoto chifukwa cha ngozi.
Iye adabwera, adakhumudwitsidwa
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Iyenso adapanga, yekhayo adadzikhumudwitsidwa, iye mwini adakhumudwitsidwa, adakonza zochititsa manyazi. Gwirizanani, pankhaniyi, mawu akuti za "kuchuluka kwa kuchuluka kwa maprive" akuwonekera. Ganizirani zochepa, khalani odekha komanso olimbikitsa.
Nthawi Yokambirana
Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukukumbukira kuti pali "kadzidzi" ndi "nkhata"? Kwa oyamba kumene ndikwabwino kuti musakwere ndi zokambirana zazikulu m'mawa - pitani pansi pa dzanja lotentha. Monga lamulo, "kadzidzi" woyamba wa tsikulo akusunthira kwa nthawi yayitali, kudzutsa, kuti aliyense adziyerekeze ndipo ndi oyipa. Ndi wachiwiri, alibe ntchito kuti ayankhule kwambiri usiku. Alibe mphamvu yoganiza ndi kuthetsa china chake.
Kucheza
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Nthawi yokwanira yolankhula ndi ola ndi theka mutatha kudya nkhomaliro. Othandizira onse ndi okoma mtima. Ndi pakati pa tsiku logwira ntchito, pomwe "Owls" ali kale ali wokondwa, ndipo "Larks" sanatope.
Chabwino, ngati inu mungowona kuti munthu wakhumudwitsidwa ndi china chake, ndiye kuti mumukwere ndi zokambirana pankhaniyi - iyi ndi mwayi wa 100% kuti mulowe mu mikangano, ndipo musowa?
Kodi chifukwa chake ndi chiyani?
Timagwiritsidwa ntchito kumvetsetsa mikangano yotsiriza, koma mwina ndikofunikira kusanthula zomwe wake wayambira? Popeza ndapeza, nthawi ina mukangofika kuti musachite izi, kunenepa.
Mutu udapereka ntchito, ndipo mukuganiza kuti simuyenera kuchita izi? Nthawi ina yotsatira kulembetsa maudindo anu pantchito ndikugwirizana: Ndisindikiza zolemba zake: Ndidzasindikiza zolemba, koma palibe nkhani ya mwana wanu wamkazi.
Mikangano ikhoza kuchedweke patsogolo
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Nzeru za munthu zimangowerenga: Musanapite kukasambira kolunjika, kuvomerezana m'mphepete mwa nyanja, kenako osamva mikangano.
Siyani zakale m'mbuyomu
Kukwiya kale, zimachitika, kumbukirani njira yosayenera, ndipo timawapereka kwa interloor. Zachiyani? Zakale sizisinthidwanso. Ndikofunikira kukhululuka ndikuyiwala, osati kuti musamveke ngati mkanda mkangano. Kaya cholakwa chakale chidzabweretsa mavuto mtsogolo - Sitingathe kulosera, ndiye kuti palibe chifukwa chodandaula ndi izi.
Khalani pano ndipo tsopano
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Yambani kukhala pano ndipo tsopano, phunzirani kusangalala ndi mphindi, onanidziko lapansi molimba mtima, kenako mikangano yambiri idzakufikirani.