Ma ambiri ambiri sakumana ndi chaka choyamba cha banja. Chiwerengero cha mabanja amakula mosavuta, ndipo zaka zingapo motsatira banjali nthawi zambiri zimasiyanitsa kuposa mabungwe atsopano omwe amakhalapo. Kodi chifukwa chake ndi chiyani? Zinthuzo zakhazikitsidwa, koma m'malo oyamba ndi malo opanda thanzi a banja lokha.
Nthawi zambiri maukwati nthawi zambiri amathetsa vuto lililonse lomwe lilipo. Ambiri amakhulupiriradi kuti pambuyo kulembetsa kulembetsa, maubale adzaikidwa kapena kungosintha mozizwitsa. Monga lamulo, zonse zimangokhala zoyipa zokha.
Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kugwirira ntchito paubwenzi wanu kuyambira masiku oyamba. Osapanga zochitika zomwe zimayambitsa vuto kwa wokondedwa, onetsani ulemu. Kupatula apo, ndizolemekeza ndi ubale wa anthu, mosasamala za mawonekedwe awo ndi nthawi. Onse mgululi komanso pakati pa anthu awiri.
Chifukwa chake, chinthu chachikulu chomwe mkazi ayenera kuphunzira ndi kulemekeza mwamuna wake. Ngakhale ndi malingaliro amphamvu, palibe chitsimikizo kuti m'banjamo mumalemekezedwa. Sikovuta kuwunika momwe mumakhalira. Onani funso, kodi mumachita china chake kuchokera Zinthu zolembedwa:
- Ganizirani mwamuna wa mutu wabanja;
- Yamikirani malingaliro a bambo wanu;
- khulupirirani zisankho za wokwatirana naye;
- Osayesa kupeza zizindikiro za kufooka m'mawu ake;
- penyani chisamaliro chake banja.
Monga lamulo, ukatha ukwati, vutoli limangokulitsa
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M'malo mwake, ngati simuli okonzeka kuvomereza kuti mwamuna wanu ndiye mutu wa banja lopangidwa kumene, amatanthauza chinthu chimodzi chokha. Simukumulemekeza. Mudzafufuza nthawi zonse m'mawu ake kuti zitsimikizire ndi mantha anu. Ndi kutanthauzira chilichonse choyipa.
Ndipo tsopano lingalirani za kukhala ndi munthu amene akusakana tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo akukuyembekezerani zoipa zokha? Moyo ukuyembekezera kulephera - ayi pazomwe aliyense wa ife akufuna. Kuchokera pamenepa, ngakhale ndi chikhumbo chonse, ndizosatheka kumanga ubale wabwino.
Choyamba muyenera Mvetsetsa ndi kutenga malamulo odziwika bwino:
- Si munthu yekhayo padziko lapansi.
- Pali anthu omwe ali mkati mmenemo ndi malingaliro awo ndi malingaliro awo.
- Mwasankha munthuyu ngati satalambiri wa moyo.
- Sichabwino kuwunikira mayankho anu.
Chisoni ndizothandiza kwambiri pamoyo. Ambiri achisoni komanso kuthekera kodziyika tokha m'malo mwa wina kapena kulibe kapena ali mwana. Ngati mukufuna kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino, yesani kukulitsa khalidweli.
Yeserani kamodzi kuti mukhulupirire munthu amene wayandikira
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Mukazindikira kuti munthu wanu alinso ndi malingaliro, malingaliro ndi zikhumbo ndi zokhumba, zidzakhala zosavuta kukhala ndi iye. Kenako, ndikofunikira kuchotsa chikhumbo chowongolera chilichonse kuyambiranso komanso malingaliro kuti malingaliro anu ndi owona. Mwina amuna anu amaganiza za momwe mungathere mavuto, osati kukayikira mawu ndi zochita zina. Yesani kamodzi kuti mukhulupirire munthu amene wayandikira. Zolakwika pakudalira kuthekera kwake kusunga sitima yanu yolumikizira.
Yesetsani zambiri kuti mumvere osankhidwa anu. Koma osati kuyesa kupeza china chake choyipa, onani zabwino zomwe pakukakamizani kuti musankhe munthu ndikumamanga moyo wanu. Ngati mukukayikira amuna anu tsopano, amatanthauza chinthu chimodzi chokha - mukamakayikira mwa inu nokha komanso mwangozi yanga yopanga zisankho.
Chikondi sichinthu chomwe mungaphunzire. Nthawi zonse amakhala kuyambira masiku oyamba, kapena amabwera ndi nthawi. Ndi zokumana nazo zophatikizika. Ndipo ndiye amene amatilola kuti tipulumuke mkuntho weniweni ndi kuwonekera.