Mafunso omwe sangafunsidwe mwachikondi ndi munthu

Inde, mawu omveka amafunikira muubwenzi, popanda chifukwa kumakhala kovuta kukhazikitsa chiyanjano cha pakati pa okwatirana. Komabe, azimayi nthawi zambiri amakhala kutali kwambiri, kuyesera kuti adziwe munthu amene akufuna za iye, komanso kufunsa mafunso omwe angamuchititse manyazi mnzawo, ndipo zimavuta kuyankha. Tatenga mafunso otchuka kwambiri omwe amuna sangathe kupirira.

#one. "Ndili wokongola?"

Funso lomwe limapangitsa kuti anthu azidabwa. Ingoganizirani kuti mukungopuma limodzi, mumacheza ndekha, ndipo mwadzidzidzi: "Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndine wokongola?" Zachidziwikire, bambo yemwe mulimonse muli nayo kuyankha mogwirizana, koma nthawi yomweyo zidzakhala zachilendo, poganiza za zomwe mukufuna. Ngati mukufuna kuthandizidwa mukakhala opanda nkhawa, ndibwino kufunsa.

# 2. "Kodi ukukonzekera kundisintha?"

Yankho liti limawerengera kuti apeze mkazi? "Inde, koma osaganiza ngati" kapena "mwina"? Ngati pa gawo ili la ubale mulibe mavuto, koma mumaona kuti kulimba mtima kumagwa, sikufunika kutentha motere. Palibe china kupatula mawonekedwe osayenera ndikulola kuti musapeze, chifukwa simuyankha moona mtima, zomwe ndizomveka.

Osapanganso zowonjezera.

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# 3. "Kodi ndinu okhutira ndi kugonana kwathu?"

Akazi sakhala ocheperako amuna, ndizosangalatsa kudziwa momwe muliri omasuka mu awiri omwe ali ndi chiwerewere. Ndiponso kumverera kwamtundu wa nsanje sikupuma kuti: "Kodi munthu wina ndi wabwino kuposa ine?" Koma zikufunika kuganiza: Ngati muli ndi nthawi yochulukirapo limodzi komanso kwa inu, palibe mnzanu amene alibe mnzanu wa kumereka komanso wosungulumwa. Nanga bwanji mukudzilenga nokha?

#. "Kodi pali aliyense wakhala wabwino kuposa ine?"

Zabwino kwambiri, munthu adzadziona, bwanji mukufunikira chidziwitso ichi komanso zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi inu, komanso zovuta kwambiri, mudzayankhe moona mtima. Aliyense wa inu adachita kale, osati kuti kale mnzanu sanakumanepo ndi zomverera zofananira, ndipo mwina amawala kuposa inu. Mukutsimikiza kuti mukufuna kudziwa za izi, ndikudziyamikirabe? Tikuzikayikira.