- Rose, ndisanapite ku ofesi ya registry, kodi ndi oviendera ati omwe ayenera kudziwa wina ndi mnzake?
- Banja ndi ntchito yayikulu, pomwe nthawi zonse pamakhala zovuta. Ndipo izi ndizabwinobwino. Chifukwa maubale amapangidwa pamikangano, chifukwa chomwe anthu okwatirana nawonso amaphunzirana bwino. Nthawi zonse ndimalimbikitsa akwati kuti azikumana ndi makolo a mkwatibwi kuti atchenje kuona momwe abambo angaphunzirepo amatanthauza apongozi awo. Onani momwe mkazi wovala bwino, ngakhale ali ndi zovala za ubweya, ngati mwamuna wake amasangalala ndi mphatso zokondedwa. Kuti muwone Mwanayo akulankhulana ndi makolo ake. Kenako nkukanani. Ngati Mkwatibwi wamtsogolo amawona kuti apongozi a apongozi a ubweya, zikutanthauza kuti ubweya umapachikika mu nduna yake. Ngati apongozi ake amamvetsera mkazi wake, ndiye kuti mtsikanayo sadzadandaula. Ngati mutu wabanja uli ndi dzanja ndipo ali ndi galimoto yanyumba, zikutanthauza kuti mwa banja lake padzakhala zofanana. Uyu ndi axiom. Ponena za upangiri wa Mkwati. Pali mwambi wotchuka: Mukufuna kudziwa momwe mkazi wanu angawonekere pambuyo pa zaka 10-20 zaka, kuyang'ana apo ayi. Izi zikugwiranso ntchito paubwenzi. Ngati mayi ndi mwana wamkazi amakhala ndi moyo kukhala moyo, thandizanani ndi kuganizira abwenzi apamtima abwino, adzalemekezanso munthu. Ndipo apongozi apongozi amapeza chilankhulo chimodzi ndi apongozi amtsogolo ndipo adzachirikiza pa chilichonse. Ngati mayi ndi mwana wamkazi amakhala ngati mphaka ndi galu, pamenepo apongozi ake sadzaima pamalopa a mpongozi wake. Izi zatsimikiziridwa kale. Ndi zomwe muyenera kumvera musanapite ku ofesi ya registry.
- Malinga ndi chiwembu cha m'dziko lonselo, kanema wa dorminive "wosungulumwa" womwe Natalia Gundarereva adasewera, amaphunzitsa akwati a akwati ndi tsiku ndi tsiku. Kodi muyenera kuphunzitsa atsikana?
- Ndimalimbikitsa kukumbukira chowonadi chimodzi chosavuta chokumbukira: mkazi kwa munthu ndi chinthu chosangalatsa. Tikukhala mu gulu la amuna. Ndipo demokalase m'banjamo sidzakhalapo. Malingana ngati munthu akufuna mkazi, ndiye mfumukazi. Adzamukonda, amasamalira, kusamalira, kusuntha, kufuna ana kwa iye, ndi zina zambiri akangogonana, amafunika kuchitapo kanthu. Nthawi yomweyo, palibe amene amalanda mosiyana, kuwonjezera pa kukopa kwa kugonana, mkazi amakakamizidwa kuphika, kutsuka, kutonthoza ndi mlengalenga m'nyumba. Zogwirizana ndi zaulere. Mwamuna saganizira ngakhale izi. Koma ngati mkaziyo sachita izi, adzapeza wina.
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- Ana aakazi amapereka malangizo omwewa?
- Ndimalengeza miyambo ndikukhalamo. Motero, ana nawonso, makamaka mwana wamkazi. Ndikhulupirira kuti kuyera kwa chiyero ndicho chinthu chamtengo wapatali kwambiri chomwe chilipo ndi msungwana. Ndipo muyenera kukambirana za izi. Ndipo ndi lingaliro ili lakwatirana. Chifukwa Chiyani Vomeke Loyera Loyera? Zimayimira kusalakwa ndi kuyera kwa Mkwatibwi. Mata ndi ofanana. M'masiku akale pansi pa mutu, nsalu yoyerayo idayikidwa. Ndipo apongozi ake adayang'ana, ali mpongozi kapena ayi. Ndikwabwino kukwatiwa wosatsukira, mpatseni chiyero chake kwa wokwatirana ndi kukhazikitsa usiku wa ukwati woyamba m'malo okongola.
- Koma akatswiri amisala, m'malo mwake, akulimbikitsidwa ukwati ukwati kuti ukhale limodzi ...
- Moyo udzaika chilichonse pamalo ake. Ndingangonena chinthu chimodzi: Agogo athu akale sanali, ngakhale sanamve za psychology. Ndipo zowonadi izi zomwe ndikunena zimayesedwa ndi nthawi. Ndipo panalibe osudzulana. Ndipo mfundo yoti akatswiri azamaphunziro tsopano aperekedwa, palibe chabwino kwa mkazi amanyamula. Dziweruzireni nokha: Mwamuna ali ndi wokondedwa pamlingo wa dzanja lachitatu, ndipo, nthawi yomweyo alibe udindo. Mkulu, kumanzere ndipo palibe chomwe chiyenera. Ndipo iye? Pa ufa wosweka. Ubwana ndi mtengo womwe umadutsa mwachangu. Ndipo pomwe makumi atatu, amabwera kwa ine, ngati nsomba zagolide: "Rosa Raovonna, ndikufuna kuti ndikhale wolemera, wokalamba, wokongola, wopambana." Ndipo uli ndi zaka zingati? "Tsopano 30." Zabwino, khanda. Vasya ndi a Autoboza ya Autobaza ndiwonso wosankha. Kodi ndi mlengalenga wachuma ndi achinyamata uti amene tingalankhule?
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- Ndipo inu simukwatira? Monga shoemaker popanda boot, yomwe ilibe nthawi ya moyo wanu?
- Nthawi yanga ikwana moyo wanga. Funso lina ndi zomwe mukutanthauza ndi izi. Mu m'badwo wanga, moyo wamunthu si munthu. Uwu ndi ntchito yanga, zosangalatsa, kumanga nyumba, ana, abwenzi, kudikirira adzukulu. Ine sindine shoekaker popanda boot. Munandikumbutsa za filimuyo "yosungulumwa". Kumeneko Sawah, atangokwatirana, nthawi yomweyo anasiya ntchitoyo. Ndipo sindikuchoka. Ndidachita kwambiri kotero kuti anthu amandilemekeza, kuphatikizaponso zochita zanga. Inde, moyo wanga sizabwino. Ndimalakwitsa komanso kulankhula za iwo moona mtima, kuti munthu wina wandichitikire. Ndipo pa Akwati ndi Akwati ndi koseketsa. Chilichonse chimakhala ndi nthawi yake. Ndili ndi bambo, koma sindikufuna Iye mu banja langa. Ndipo, komabe, ndili ndi zaka zanga ndizovuta kupeza mnzake yemwe angafune. Amuna akukula mwachangu. Chifukwa chiyani ndimafunikira bambo wokalamba? .. Sindine wolakwa kotero kuti amuna anga adamwalira. Ndimafuna kuti ndikhale naye, ana ndi zidzukulu zophunzitsa. Koma sizinathandize. Kwa nthawi yachiwiri ndinakwatirana, pokhapokha mwana wamwamuna ndi wamkazi akakhwima. Ndipo ndinazindikira kuti sindikufuna. Posankha pakati pa chisangalalo cha akazi komanso chisangalalo cha ana, ntchito ya makolo ndiyofunika kwambiri. Chifukwa chake, sindikufuna kugona ndi zakale, ndipo sindimawakhudza achinyamata. Amakhala ndi moyo wawo: ayenera kusangalatsa, kubereka ana.
- Nanga bwanji kapu yamadzi mu ukalamba, chifukwa cha omwe ambiri ali ndi nkhawa?
- Chifukwa chiyani mukufunikira mwamuna, yemwe ali ndi gawo lokha? Mwamuna ndi cholengedwa chaumulungu chomwe chimafuna chisamaliro ndi nthawi yambiri. Ndipo iye amayeneradi izo. Mkazi monga nsembe yolamulira kwa onse. Ziwerengero zimatsimikizira kuti amuna okwatirana amakhala ndi moyo wautali, ndipo akazi okwatirana amakhala ochepa. Ndipo kuti mupeze kapu yamadzi, muyenera kukwatiwa mutapita nthawi, kubereka ana ambiri kupanga zidzukulu zina. Ndipo wina kuchokera kwa iwo adzabweretsa kapu yamadzi. Ngati sichinagwire ntchito ndi izi - pezani ndalama zambiri, ndiye kuti namwino akutumikira ndendende.