Osati amuna amenewo omwe amasasankha osati monga choncho. Malinga ndi akatswiri, libido wathu ndi kuimba mlandu chilichonse, chomwe chili ngati anyamata oyipa. Libido ndi njira yathu yosangalalira. Amapangidwa kuti akhale ndiubwana, kuphatikizapo mothandizidwa ndi zinthu zakunja, monga maubwenzi ndi makolo. Ngati mwakula mumlengalenga kapena waupangiri, mudakhumudwitsidwa ndi Mawu, ndipo mwina munthuyo sanawone mwa inu, ndiye kuti, mwakukula, uku ndi uku zabwinobwino. Momwe Mungakonzerere?
Olga Romaniv
Siyani kuyanjana. Mukukhumudwa, chinyengo, khalani patali, musafune kumanga ubale, kusintha, kungotulutsa ndalama, kuperekera zolapa - izi zimagwera pamawu akuti "Maubwenzi onse owopsa". Uwu ndi ubale wokondedwa aliyense ali ndi zonse, ndipo mukukumana ndi vuto lililonse: kulira, kuvutika, kudandaula, kudzipenda nsanje komanso kukayikira komanso kukayikira. Koma ubale ndi wokondedwa wanu sikuyenera kubweretsa mavuto, koma chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo. Ngati izi sizili choncho, ndiye kuti ndi nthawi yoti musinthe kena kake, choyamba mwa inu nokha, chifukwa sizili bwino mu ubalewu.
Mawu omwe mukufuna. Mumalota ndikupanga banja ndikuyamba ana, ndipo pazifukwa zina zimakoka, zotere, sizosangalatsa kwa inu osasangalala. Koma simumusiya, khalani ndikudikirira chozizwitsa. Pangani kukambirana pamutu wa mtsogolo ndi kubweretsa zofuna zanu zazikulu mwa mnzanu ngati mukuyankha kuti "tidikire," Tidikirira kuti mnzanu akhale pachibwenzi chachikulu Ndi inu simunakonzeke. Pambuyo pokambirana izi, muli ndi zosankha ziwiri zakukonzanso zochitika: Tengani zomwe mnzanuyo adakuwuzani, ndikukhala ndi iye poyembekezera. Mulimonsemo, muyenera kupanga chisankho.
Fotokozerani kuti simukonda mnzanu. Adalowamo (wotchedwa, adakweza mawu ake, adanama), nthawi yomweyo mudam'patsa zonse, nanena kuti udamvapo kanthu. Osayitanitsa ndikuyitanitsa poyankha, koma lankhulani za inu ndikumufunsa kuti achite izi. Akakumverani, ndiye mwayi kuti ubale wanu wasintha kukhala wabwino.
Kusiya kukhala ndi. Palibenso chifukwa chosinthira, khalani bwino, kuchepetsa thupi, mafuta mwachangu kuphika kapena mawere anu amangokonda kudya ndi chakudya chamadzulo. Chimwemwe ndi chikondi chobwerera simudzachita bwino. Chikondi sichingakhale choyenera - ali kumeneko kapena ayi.
Osawopa kuvomereza kuti si chikondi. Osawopa kukhala nokha komanso kukhalabe okha ngati munthu uyu si wanu ngati amakupangitsani zodandaula zomwe simukumana ndi malingaliro a munthu wina. Mukangozindikira zomwe mukufuna ndikudikirira kuti ubale ndi anthu, ndiye amene angakukondeni chifukwa cha zomwe muli, osati zomwe mungaganize kuti ziwonekere m'moyo wanu. Chifukwa chake khalani nokha, dzilemekezeni nokha komanso malire anu.