Kugwirizana ndi zogonana ndi imodzi mwa mfundo zazikulu kuti mukhale ndi mgwirizano wamphamvu. Koma nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mmodzi mwa abwenzi amangofuna kusamala kwambiri ndi theka lake, pomwe mnzake wachiwiri ali pafupi kwambiri ndi kangapo pa sabata. Zoyenera kuchita ngati simukuganiza zosiya ubale? Tidzauza.
Mwiniwake sayenera kutsutsa
Choyambirira kumvetsetsa bwino pankhaniyi ndi ngati mnzanuyo akukana kuyankhula pafupipafupi, sizitanthauza kuti adagwa mchikondi kapena safuna. Monga lamulo, vutoli limakhala mumiyolo kapena zovuta zamaganizidwe amunthu. Ganizirani za wokondedwa wake ayenera kukhala wovuta, chifukwa amamvetsetsa kuti mumazipatsa zochuluka, ndipo sangapatse. Samalani ndi munthu pafupi nanu.
Onetsani chisamaliro chambiri
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Onetsani chisamaliro chambiri
Monga lamulo, bambo amawonetsa zogonana kwambiri mwa awiri. Ngati mkazi wanu sangachiritse malingaliro anu pafupipafupi monga momwe mungafune, musakhale wokwiya, koma m'malo mwake, tisasamalira kumvetsetsa ndikuwonetsa mosamala pang'ono. Kwa mkazi, palibe chidwi chachikulu monga kuwonetsera kwa chisamaliro ndi chisamaliro cha mnzake, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti kutenga nawo mbali pamavuto ake kumathandizanso kukumana ndi zopinga zonse zomwe zimamupangitsa kuti akukwaniritse.
Sinthani kudera lina m'moyo wanu
Kukakamizidwa kwamuyaya kuchokera kwa wogonana kungabwezenso chilakolako chogonana. Mukufuna? Sitikutsimikiza. Nthawi zambiri mnzanu wogwira ntchito amafunikira nthawi yogwira. Apatseni iye mwayi wotere, osati kudzizunza poyembekezera, pangani kukhala kofunikira kwa inu: kukumana ndi anzanu, pitani pa masewera, kupeza ntchito yosangalatsa.
Palibe Kutsutsa
Ngati mukufuna kugonana kusowa kwathunthu ubale wanu, wotsutsa mnzake pazifukwa zilizonse. Fotokozerani mnzanu kuti ndizovuta kuti muthe kuthana ndi mphamvu yamagetsi yomwe imagwirizanitsidwa ndi kusowa kwa kugonana, motero mumayamba kukwiya msanga. Kuzindikira moona mtima kumakuthandizani kuti mumvetsetse popanda kulakwira.