Kugonana nthawi yomweyo kunakhala zaka zisanu zapitazi: palibe amene sangadabwe nkhani yokhudza mnzakeyo, yemwe mwakumana naye dzulo, koma m'mawa uno ndinali atasokonekera kale. Komabe, ena amakwiya akamaganiza zofananira ndi munthu wosadziwika bwino. Tikuthandizani kuti mupange chisankho choyenera, ndipo tikupereka malangizo kwa iwo omwe akukonzekera chidwi chochepa posachedwa.
Palibe Kugonana Kwambiri
Inde, kugonana ndi munthu watsopano sikutanthauza kulepheretsa msonkhano umodzi wokha, ndipo musagwiritse ntchito njira zopwetekera zowawa kapena zojambula zovuta ndi munthu yemwe mumamuwona koyamba. Palibe chitsimikizo kuti mnzanu watsopanoyo ndi wokonda luso yemwe angatsimikizire chitetezo cha chiwerewere.
Gwiritsani ntchito mapulogalamu
Simumakonda kwambiri misonkhano, koma osati pamisonkhano yapadera? Sikofunika kuchotsa nokha kudzera mwa inu nokha ndikudikirira "kalonga" pa bar counter, gwiritsani ntchito zapadera zomwe ndalama zomveka zokhazokha zidawonekera. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuonetsetsa kuti mukuyembekezera zanu ndi wokondedwa wanu watsopano.
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Yang'anani misonkhano popanda kusamvana
Mkazi yemwe "amagwira" bambo wina ku baryo amawoneka pomwepo omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi omwe angakhale okwatirana. Pumulani, pamapeto pake, ngakhale simukupeza bwenzi madzulo, mukamatha nthawi yamadzulo, makamaka ngati sichoncho, koma ndi bwenzi. Chiwonekere "cholunjika" chimangokopa chopingasa chosafunikira kwa inu ndipo mosakayikira sichikopa munthu wabwino.
Konzani zonse "m'mphepete"
Tiyerekeze kuti mukudziwana ndi munthu wosangalatsa, zimayitanira taxi ndiulendo wopita naye, ndipo zikupezeka kuti mwamunayo sanali yekha, ndipo zolinga zake zimaphatikizaponso zonenepa. Mwadzidzidzi. Mkazi wachidule yemwe ali ndi vuto kunena "Ayi", koma safuna mkazi wina kapena munthu wina pabedi. Onetsani kulimba mtima, ikani mikhalidwe yanu ndikutsutsana kuti simudzakondweretsa kwenikweni.
Kuti apite kwa ndani?
Mu "chisa" mudzaona kuti muli ndi chidaliro, ndipo ngakhale mumayamikiranso ngati chinthu chosavuta. Komabe, kukonzekereratu kuti mnzanu wolimbikira akhoza kugwidwa ndi inu, omwe adzalandiridwe kunyumba. Ngati simukufuna kuti pambuyo pake, pitani kwa iwo, koma m'mawa mumayitanitsa taxi kuti isatsegule adilesi yanu.
Musaiwale za chitetezo
Mwina mfundo yayikulu. Mumamuona munthu koyamba amene amadziwa zomwe zimadziwa bwino "zimadabwitsidwa" adzakusiyani pambuyo pausiku wachikondi. Ngakhale mutagwiritsa ntchito njira zakulera pakamwa, onetsetsani kuti mugule makondomu, monga ma virus ndi matenda sakukumbukira bwino madzulo.