Poyamba, tikumvetsa kusiyana pakati pa kusungulumwa komanso kukhala pawekha. Zachinsinsi ndi chisamaliro chadongosolo poyankhulana. Ndikotheka kuyitanitsa boma lino mwa kusungulumwa - pa zomwe mumapanga zomwe mungayambe kulankhula ndi zakunja. Poganizira zachinsinsi, mutha kuchita chilichonse chomwe mzimu umakhumba: Mutha kuwerenga bukulo, koma mutha kuyenda paulendowu. Monga lamulo, tili payekha timatanganidwa ndi chinthu chosangalatsa.
Kusungulumwa, m'malo mwake, kumadziwika ndi malingaliro osangalatsa: "Palibe amene ali ndi ine", "Ine ndine m'modzi kwathunthu", ndi zina.
Ndi kusungulumwa chifukwa cha zochitika zachilengedwe. Itha kufotokozedwa ndi kuchoka kwa ana okhwima kuchokera kubanja - palibe chomwe chingachitike, posakhalitsa zichitika. Kukakamizidwa kapena kusungulumwa kumachitika mukataya wokondedwa wanu.
Ndipo poyamba, ndipo mwachiwiri pali "zolankhulira". Pomwe panali anthu ena, tsopano osakhulupirika, ndi kudzaza izi zimatengera zokwanira zanu.
Kuchokera kusungulumwa, zachidziwikire, palibe amene amadwala inshuwaransi. Komabe, pali magulu ena a nzika omwe akugwera mgulu lotchedwa Chiopsezo.
Choyamba, awa ndi anthu omwe ali ndi "mtima wotsekedwa" - omwe alibe vuto lililonse. Yambani kusamalira anthu ena, asonyezeni mwachifundo ndi kutenga nawo mbali. Mudzasiya kudzilimbitsa nokha ndikusamalira zovuta zanu makumi atatu ndi zitatu. Nthawi zonse pamakhala wina wokulirapo kwambiri kuposa inu tsopano.
Gulu lachiwiri loopsa ndi anthu omwe sanapeze kuyitanidwa kwawo. Amakhala moyo wa munthu wina. Werengani za kufunika kodzifufuza nokha patsamba langa.
Chifukwa chake, fotokozerani mwachidule: ngati mukuopa kukhala amodzi mwa ine ndekha, zikutanthauza kuti, mkati, munthu amene sakukukondani konse. Lolani kuti ziwonekere kwa inu ngati chizindikiro chakuyambirira kwa ntchito yamkati.
Nthawi zina kusungulumwa ndi mwayi wokha womwe ukudziwana naye yekha, kutsukidwa kuchokera ku mitundu yonse ya masks. Ndinu china choposa mayi, mlongo, mwana wamkazi kapena mutu wa magawano.
Sangalalani ndi kusungulumwa, ndiye kuti ,. Mutembenuzireni chinsinsi, khalani okwanira komanso ogwirizana!
Ndipo kuneneratu kwa nyenyezi mlungu ndi mlungu kungakuthandizeni kuphunzira za sabata yapano.
Meyi 2. Yesani lero kuti musatanthauze kusakhutira, zinthu zilizonse zomwe zingakhudzidwe - mutha kukulitsa vutoli koposa. Chitani iwo omwe amadziwa bwino anthu ena momwe mungathere kuthandiza anthu ena.
Meyi 3. Musagonjetsere chidwi choyambirira, musapereke mayankho mwachangu, musamapangitse zongoganiza bwino - zakuthwa komanso zosankha m'malingaliro ndi zochitika zomwe zingakusokonezeni lero.
Meyi 4. Ndizomveka kuti mukapempha yatsopano, mwakhululukidwa ndi yakale. Samalirani lero ndi zizolowezi zakale ndi zikhulupiriro zomwe zimalepheretsa kupita patsogolo.
5 Meyi. Ndi magwiridwe antchito a ntchitoyi sizinali zophweka. Ngati muli patchuthi - kupuma kwambiri, ngati muli pantchito, ndiye yesani chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kusamutsa sabata yamawa.
6 Meyi ya Meyi. Nthawi yoti ilimbikitsidwe lero kuti azilankhulana ndi ana kapena achichepere. Akatswiri anu amakangana ndi zosangalatsa zanu, zotsatira zake zimakhala zabwino.
Meyi 7. Sabata ndiye tsiku logwirizanitsa kwambiri sabata ino. Pitani kukacheza bwino, lankhulanani, kukambirana, kufunsa upangiri.
Zhanna Wei, mbuye wa nyenyezi zaku China ndi Feng Shui