Akazi ambiri okwatirana amavomereza kuti sawotcha ndi chidwi chogonana ndi amuna ovomerezeka. Ndi onse, ndi aliyense. Uku ndikulongosola kwa izi: Masiku ano, azimayi ali ndi ntchito zambiri, chifukwa, kupsinjika kowonjezereka. Koma ichi sichifukwa chokhacho, munthu samangokhala ndi chidaliro pakukopa kwake, makamaka pambuyo pobadwa mwana, pomwe chithunzi cha azimayi ambiri chimasintha kuti chisakhale chabwinoko. Atsikana achichepere omwe sanaphunzirepo "chabati" pa moyo wogwirizana, osakhulupirira kuti mavuto apamtima amenewa amapangidwa ndi azimayi achikulire omwe, mwina, amakumana ndi mavuto pankhaniyi. Komabe, zonse zimasintha pakapita nthawi mutakwatirana komanso zochulukirapo - pambuyo kubadwa kwa mwana.
Inde, malo ochezera ndi maudindo ena, koma izi sizitanthauza kuti kugonana kulibe malo. Akatswiri pamawu amodzi amatsutsana kuti kugonana ndikothandiza komanso kofunikira kuti munthu akhalepo kwa munthu, ndi gawo limodzi la ubale wa akulu awiri. Tikuuzeni pazifukwa zisanu zomwe muyenera kuchita tsiku lililonse:
Ndiwe woyamba wa mkazi aliyense kwa mwamuna wake
Mwana akapezeka m'banjamo, ubongo wa mayiyo umatha kuchokera kwa mwamuna wake pabanja la banja latsopano, lomwe ndi lachilengedwe. Koma izi zitha kufooketsa chithunzichi cha kukongola kwa chiwerewere, monga momwe munthu amagwiritsidwira ntchito kukuonani. Tsopano mukungochita zomwe amasewera ndi mwana, kusintha diaper, pitani kukayenda mu suti yamasewera kapena bowor yabwino kwambiri. Yesani nthawi zambiri kuti mupsompsone, pambuyo pake pang'ono mudzazindikira kuti simungokhala ndi mkazi wa m'nyumba mozungulira, zomwe zimangochita zomwe amakonzekera, kuchotsa, imakweza mwana wake - woyamba - mkazi. Pemphani chidwi pankhaniyi. Kugonana kumakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi chidwi ndi chikazi.
Ndiwe woyamba wa mkazi aliyense kwa mwamuna wake
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Ngati mumasamalira amuna anu monga bambo, azikhala ngati munthu
Muloleni amve chikondi chanu. Ndikhulupirireni, ayamba kuyamikira kwambiri, pafupifupi kuvala m'manja. Ndipo koposa zonse, zidzafunira. Simuyenera kuyesa kuphika chakudya chamadzulo ndi mphamvu zomaliza, zitha kulamulidwa. Yang'anani ndikukumana nazo kuchokera kuntchito mosangalatsa. Gulani zovala zamkati, ndikumuukira nthawi zambiri. Pakapita kanthawi, mudzayamba kudabwa kuti bwanji mulibe zogonana kwanthawi yayitali.
Mudzabwezera chisangalalo cholumikizirana
Khazikitsani maola angapo madzulo ndikuwalipira wina ndi mnzake. Amuna anu akadali munthu wachikondi yemwe mudamkondapo ndipo adamkwatira. Kupatula apo, tsopano palibe chomwe chasintha, mungomupatsa mpata wokubwezerani nthawi yomwe nonse mulibe mavuto amnyumba, koma ndigonana imodzi yokha.
Ndiwe woyamba wa mkazi aliyense kwa mwamuna wake
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Gwiritsani ntchito kugonana ngati njira yopsinjika
Ngati muli ndi mwana, kuyerekezera kuganiza kuti ndinu omizidwa pamavuto, m'mawa. Zachidziwikire, pali njira zambiri, zolimbitsa thupi, kuteteza nkhawa, koma tikukukakamizani kuti muchotse ndalama ndikuyesera kugwiritsa ntchito amuna anu m'malo mwa project.
Ndi moyo wogonana udzakhala wosavuta
Ngati pali zogonana za tsiku ndi tsiku, mudzakhala chete kuti muchite nyengo yogulitsa, ndikosavuta kudumpha magawo mu sinema, ndipo simuyenera kuchita nawo zochitika zadziko.
Mudzabwezera chisangalalo cholumikizirana
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Kupatula apo, kugonana ndi koyenera kusinthidwa ndi zosangalatsa zonse. Izi ndizomwe muyenera. Mulole amuna anu akhale osavuta kukhala kuchipinda chogona kuchipinda, omwe anali atadziwa kuchokera ku mbali yosiyana. Simuyenera kubweza chilichonse ku ubale wanu.