Ubale siophweka - simukudziwa. Komabe, komwe kumakumana ndi mavuto m'moyo ndipo akuyesera kuti awathetse, ena amadzipangitsa okha kuti adzipatse okha komanso amabwera kudzatsutsana osagwirizana. Ndidakumbukira mawu angapo a atsikana omwe sawathandizanso kukhazikitsa kufanana kwa mnzake.
"Nthawi zonse umasowa kugwira ntchito, ndipo palibe nthawi ya ine!"
Atsikana amafuna zinthu ziwiri nthawi yomweyo - kuti mwamunayo azitha ndalama kwa iwo ndikukhala pansi ngati galu wokhulupirika. Moyo wa munthu wachikulire yekha si nthano chabe konse, komwe ndalama zimagwera kumutu kuchokera kumwamba. Ngati wokondedwa wanu ali ndi bizinesi kapena imagwira ntchito yokwanira kuti mukwaniritse moyo woyenera, amafunika kumizidwa m'magawo pafupifupi tsiku lonse. Mkazi wanzeru amamvetsetsa izi, chifukwa nthawi yonse yogwira ntchito ndi yotanganidwa, ndipo satumiza nsanamira zana mwa mthenga kwa wokondedwa wake. Lemekezani nthawi ya munthu wina - madzulo mudzakhala ndi mwayi wokambirana tsiku latha.
Khalani othandizirana wina ndi mnzake, osati adani
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"Ngati mupita kwa anzanu pompano, ndichoka, koma ndibwera!"
Misonkhano yokhazikika ndi abwenzi ndi kumwa - ayi pazomwe mumayembekezera kwa mnzake yemwe mukufuna kukhala moyo wanu. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, vutoli sikuti: Atsikana samasiya okondedwa a bwanayo osati mowa chifukwa cha mowa, koma chifukwa cha paranoia wawo. Kenako zikuwonekera kwa iwo kuti pagulu la amuna mwadzidzidzi mwadzidzidzi, abwenzi osadziwika bwino adzaonekere, omwe iye adzasintha yekha. Abwera ndi abwenziwo adawadzudzula ndikumukopa kuti abwerere ku moyo wa Bachelor. Kumbukirani: wokondedwa wanu ndi munthu wamkulu wokwanira, osati Ram, yemwe mungamutsogole, osati mwana yemwe angakhulupirire. Osayerekeza machitidwe a abwenzi ndi omwe amadziwana za munthu wanu m'makhalidwe ake, chifukwa ndi umunthu wake ndi iwo ndi mawonekedwe ake.
"Kapena umasintha, kapena ndikupeza munthu wabwino!"
Pambuyo pa mawu otere, ubalewo udzabwera mathero. Ndi zabodza, simudzapangitsa chidwi cha munthu kuti asinthe, koma ndikungodzitsutsa. Kulumikizana wina muubwenzi monga munthu woona mtima, muyenera kutenga zonse zabwino ndi zomwe mnzake. Ndi mapangano, mutha kutanthauza kusintha kuti musinthe zizolowezi, koma simungalephere kukonza zikhalidwe za munthu wamkulu. Zikatero, ndibwino kubereka ndikupeza malo oyenera kuposa kumenyera cholinga chomwe sichikhalapo ndikupangitsana wina ndi mnzake.
"Koma wakale anali wakhama pabedi ..."
Poyerekeza wokondedwa wake ndi wakale, mumangosokoneza ma slaces kwa iye ndikupanga lingaliro la zomwe sizinachitike m'mabanja akale. Nthawi iliyonse mukafuna kunena za zomwe mumakonda moyo wapamtima ndi munthu wakale, kuluma chilankhulo panthawi ya malangizo a munthu wina. Nenani bwino kuti: "Mukudziwa, ndikadakhala zabwino ngati mukuvomera kuyesa chatsopano," mawu awa amatanthauza lingaliro losankha munthu, osatinso chitonzo ku maluso ake. Monga njira ina, mutha kugula chidole chogonana kuti chitheke ndikuwonetsa mnzake, kapena kumuwona makanema achikulire pakadali pano omwe mungafune kubwereza.
Nzeru zanu zimathandizira kuti chidwi chichitike
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"M'moyo Wanu Sindili Koyamba - Sindikonda"
Kodi simudzabweranso choyamba m'moyo wa mnzanu - munadabwa? Pa malo oyamba kwa iye, iye ayenera kukhala, ndiye yekhayo mchifundo, malo pakati pa banja, kudziwonetsa nokha ndipo mwagawidwa. Ngati bambo akukutsimikizirani kuti ndinu tanthauzo la moyo wake, ndiye kuti sanakwaniritse chilichonse chofunikira kwambiri mtsogolo (ndipo sizotheka kuchita). Yamikirani amuna omwe adzipereka ndikuyang'ana zolinga zawo, ndipo osakonda omwe angakuimbireni ma serennade pansi pazenera ndipo izi. Ndikwabwino kuchitapo kanthu kuposa kubala ndi mawu, kutsatiridwa ndi chilichonse. M'moyo wanga, inunso muyenera kukhala pamalo oyamba - chikondi ndi kuyamikira nokha kuti mukwaniritse munthu yemweyo.