Mkango wina Tolstoy adazindikira kuti "mabanja onse osangalala ali ofanana, banja lililonse losasangalala silikuda nkhawa silisangalala mwa njira yawo." Ndipo nthawi zina zimapezeka kuti mabanja olemera, mabanja ali ndi "mafupa awo omwe ali m'chipinda", omwe amakhala pagulu. Kodi zinsinsi zoyipa kwambiri zimayesa kubisala pagulu? Ndipo choti chichitike ngati chinsinsi chikawonekera?
Kugonana kapena pedophilia. Zodalirika kuti muphunzire za zomwe banja lanu lili mu banja lanu, ndizosasangalatsa. Nthawi zambiri za zomwe zikuchitika pansi padenga limodzi ndi iwo, azimayi amazindikira nthawi yayitali. Ndipo afunseni funso, momwe zingatheke kuti sazindikira zomwe zidachitikira mwana wake. Koma sikuti nthawi zonse: Wina samadziwa za zinthu zenizeni zakunyumba zake, ndi winawake, monga nthiwatiwa, mwaluso amabisa mutu wake mumchenga. Kodi azimayi awa akuwoloka chiyani, omwe amalola kukhala naye pansi pa denga lake limodzi, kuti akhumudwitse ana ake sadziwika. Chinthu chimodzi ndi chomveka bwino: Mwana chifukwa cha zonsezi zimalandira kuvulala kwakukulu, komwe angachotse popanda thandizo la katswiri wazamisala. Ndipo sizokayikitsa kuti winawake, kupatula wamisala, adzanena za zomwe wazunza.
Malemba. M'dziko lathu, kuwonongeka kwa Hut sikuvomerezedwa. Chifukwa chake, ngati mkazi akamachitidwa zachiwawa nthawi zonse kuchokera kwa mwamuna wake kapena wokhoza, zomwe zimafotokozedwa osati mawu olankhula, komanso ndikumenya, nthawi zambiri amangokhala chete. Nthawi zambiri, ngakhale azimayiwa samauza amayi awo ndi atsikana omwe ali pafupi kwambiri chifukwa cha manyazi omwe amaseka tsiku ndi tsiku. Amataika ndi opanda chitetezo pamaso pa mkwiyo. Ndipo ali, monga lamulo, mu ubale wogwirizana, ndipo ngakhale chidwi cha mabungwe aboma osawapatsa: chifukwa gulu ili la azimayi, kupereka gawo la okhulupilika, tsiku lake atatenga kale. Athandizeni kuti achoke mu izi akhoza kugwira ntchito yolumikizira loya ndi katswiri wazamisala.
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Kuwerengera mwamisala. Za abale omwe adapereka chithandizo chachikulu chamisala ndipo chimazindikira kwambiri, mwina sangayankhule m'banjamo. Anthu amaphunzira za zinthu ngati izi mwangozi, ngakhale palibe chomwe chimachita manyazi mu izi. Ubongo ndi chiwalo chomwecho cha thupi la munthu, komanso china chilichonse, kotero chimatha kulephera. Munthu angafunike thandizo loyenerera lamisala, chifukwa palibe malangizo kwa atsikana ndi zolemba pa intaneti adzabwezeretsedwa pamalopo.
Kutsimikiza. Kuti munthu wina wogwirizana ndi abale anu abweretsedwe m'ndende, nawonso ndi mwayi. Nthawi ina - ndipo mwadzidzidzi imapezeka kuti agonda anu adayesedwa. Za inu mukudziwa. Anapita kundende pankhondo: Anali wachinyamata ndipo anali wachinyamata ndipo amagwira ntchito pachibelire. Chilango chinali chokhwima, nthawi yankhondo, ndipo anali atagona nthawi zonse, chifukwa anali atakali mwana! Nthawi ina inkachita mantha mochedwa ndikutumiza malingana ndi malamulo a nthawi yayitali kuti mutumikire. Iye anali atakhala m'chipinda cha m'chipindacho, anamupangitsa kuti amuvomereze iye, mwa njira, kuti anene, anamupulumutsa tsiku lina. Mwanjira ina, kumapeto kwa zaka 60, pambuyo pake adabwera kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito, ndipo anayambanso kumenyedwa pakhomo. Ndidawopseza mpeni, ndimafuna kubisala ndipo, mwina, kupha. Ndidamuwona acmlare sanachite chilichonse, ndikusankha kuti anali yekha "wake." Agogo achiwiriwo adadzipatula yekha m'nthawi ya nkhondo, adaphatikizidwa m'malingaliro ena ndikulandira nthawi imeneyi. Tsopano titha kuyitanitsa zachinyengo izi ndi bizinesi yaying'ono - mudzaganizira za kugulitsa nsalu. Koma patatha zaka 2-3 nkhondo itatha nkhondo itatha, palibe chilichonse mdziko, ndipo "Bizinesi." Nthawi ina. Mawu ake anali chinsinsi, ophimbidwa ndi mwana wake wamkazi, pomwe iye anachedwa kukhululukidwa. Alongo ake okha ndi omwe amadziwika ndi nkhaniyi, omwe amasunga mpaka kumapeto ndipo sanalankhule aliyense zaka zambiri, ngakhale atamwalira agogo ake. Mwinanso, ano si chinsinsi chowopsa chotere, koma adamusunga mosamala m'malingaliro ndi m'mitima yawo.
Kulera. Tsopano makolo ambiri omwe akuyembekezera kuti mwana asamubise kuti asabise mfundo yoti siabadwa. Ali ndi ufulu wokwanira. Komabe, malamulo athu amateteza chinsinsi choletsedwa, motero palibe wina, kupatula makolo, sangathe kudziwitsa mwana zinthu zotere. Pamenepa, pali tanthauzo lina: Sikuti ana onse amatha kudziwa zambiri zomwe amayi awo adalandira ufulu wa makolo kapena kungosemphana naye mwakufuna kwawo kuchipatala. Ngakhale kukhala wamkulu, nthawi zina munthu samatha kudzichepetsa: kufunafuna makolo ake ndipo pali milandu, amapeza. Osati nthawi zonse mkazi amene anasiya mwana wake chifukwa chobereka amafunitsitsa kukhala ndi iye atakula. Ndipo iyi ndi zokhumudwitsa zina zomwe muyenera kukumana ndi anthu otere. Mwina zingakhale bwino osadziwa za kulera.