Ngakhale mu banja lamphamvu kwambiri, pamakhala malingaliro oti mmodzi wa zibwenzi adasiya kumva chimodzimodzi monga kale, kumayambiriro kwa maubale. Funso limabuka - Kodi ndizotheka kukhalabe zofunika kuti munthu adziwe zonse za inu? Tikukuuzani njira zingapo.
Mukuyang'ana bwanji bambo wanu
Nthawi zambiri mayiyo amangoyang'ana momwe mnzake amakhudzidwira. Amuna akumva bwino. Ganizirani momwe mumayang'ana mnzanu wa muukwati? Kodi maso ako akuwotcha? Kodi angathe kuwerengedwa mwa iwo? Kumbukirani momwe zimakhalira pachiyambipo pomwe simungathe kusiyane wina ndi mnzake. Yesani kuukitsa zomwe mukumva.
Musaiwale kukopana
Zachidziwikire, njira yosavuta yokongoletsera ndi yokongola mu bar kuposa moyo wofanana, womwe umayenda mnyumba yamasewera. Komabe, musathamangire kuti mukhumudwe. Siyani cholembera cha munthu pa desiki yake, tengani zongopeka, lolani kuti "lotentha" likhale njira imodzi yonyengerera chidwi ndi awiri anu.
Khalani kunja
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Kuyesa
Mukakhala limodzi kwanthawi yayitali, munthu amakhala wolimba mtima ndipo wabwino angakupatseni mwayi wowona. Monga lamulo, malingaliro oterowo amakumana ndi mwachangu kuchokera kwa mkazi, osatinso kukhala ndi chiyembekezo nthawi zonse. Osathamangira kukakana ngati mukusowa zowotcha, yang'anani njira iliyonse yowunikira chibwenzicho, ndipo chifukwa cha zoyesazi zimangofunika.
Khalani nokha munthawi iliyonse
Vuto lomwe limachitika pafupipafupi kwa akazi okwatiwa ndi kutayika kwa chidwi. Amuna amakondedwa ndi akazi omwe akuwotcha bizinesi yawo kapena zosangalatsa zawo, amadzimva kuti ndi mphamvu. Koma, monga lamulo, chilichonse chimasintha, ndikofunikira kuti mkazi akhale banja. Yesani kupeza zomwe muli nazo pakati pa zosangalatsa zanu ndi zinthu zapakhomo, chinthu choyipa kwambiri ndikutembenukira mthunziwo.