Anthu omwe amasankha moyo mwadala popanda ana amatsutsidwa kwambiri pagulu. Kaya chilengedwe chomumvetsetsa, nthawi ndi nthawi, afunseni mafunso ngati awa: "Chabwino, atakhala kale!" etc. Sikuti mwana aliyense wa ana angafotokozere malingaliro awo omwe nthawi zina amayendetsa anthu oterewa. Ngati pali munthu wopanda mwana m'malo mwanu, sikofunikira kumuwonetsa, chifukwa chake sakufuna kukhala molingana ndi malingaliro anu, ndipo ngati akukuzunzani inu panokha, tikuuzani momwe mungayankhire mafunso osasamala ayi muyeso wa anzanu ozindikira.
"Sunakumane ndi munthu wako."
Chimodzi mwazinthu zotchuka kwambiri kuchokera kwa munthu yemwe akuyesera "kukutsimikizirani" inu. Ambiri, izi ndizowona kwa akazi, zimakhala zovuta kumvetsetsa ana ena omwe sakhala lingaliro la ana, mwa iwo ali ndi vuto la mawuwo mwachifundo chotero. Nthawi yomweyo, tikuona kuti kubwereza zoterezi - osati yankho labwino kwambiri. Kumbukirani kuti amuna amayesedwa m'malo oyamba a munthu yemwe azikhala bwino, ndipo akuyesera kale kuganizira mayi a ana awo amtsogolo mwa mkazi wawo. Ponena za malangizo ochokera kumbali, osalungamitsa - mukudziwa momwe zingakhalire bwino kwa inu.
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"Zimachititsa manyazi kukhala mosangalala!"
Koma sichimaletsedwanso kulikonse. Simudzalowa ufulu wojambula ndi ufulu wokondera, musawapweteketse aliyense, ndiye chifukwa chiyani munthu wanu ali ndi ufulu wotsutsa? Mwamphamvu, koma osachita zachipongwe, fotokozerani kwa munthu amene simumvera chitonzo ku adilesi yanu. Mapeto ake, ndinu munthu wamkulu.
"Mulungu adapatsa bunny - amapereka udzu"
Mawuwo amagawidwa ndi memesi. Apanso, mumamvetsetsa za luso lanu lachuma komanso nkhawa, ngati simungathe kupereka wina, kupatula nokha, simuyenera kukhala ndi udindo. Kuphatikiza apo, kukana koyambitsa ana kumatha kulumikizidwa kwathunthu ku kusakhazikika kwachuma, chifukwa kupembedza kumapangitsa kuti azisankha bwino komanso kusankhidwa bwino nthawi zambiri samasewera maudindo nthawi zonse posankha.
"Kodi uchita chiyani mukakalamba wopanda ana?"
Mwanayo sanakhale chitsimikizo cha ukalamba wachikulire. Nthawi zambiri ana akakana makolo akakhala olemetsa kwa iwo kapena mabanja awo. Ngati mukukhala mu mzinda waukulu kwambiri, muli ndi mwayi wonse kuti musafunike kukalamba - ntchito zachitukuko zimagwira ntchito moyenera. Mutha kuyambitsa mwana pokhapokha ngati mukufuna kupatsa chikondi kwa munthu wina, koma osayembekezera kulandira phindu mtsogolo.