- Wapamtima wina
"Ndikapeza chachiwiri - monga ine, ndikadamuuza kunyumba." Mwa mnzakeyo, tikufuna kuwona chiwonetsero chawo, ngakhale sitikuzindikira. Timapeza anthu omwe amatikonda kwambiri kwa ife ndi dziko lonse. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ngati china chake sichikuyenera kukhala ndi munthu wapamtima, zingakhale bwino kudzimvera nokha. Kusintha kwabwinoko, ndiye kuti padzakhala anthu oyenera kuzungulira inu.
- Tiyeni tipeze zomwe mukufuna kupeza
"Pali chilakondereza, chidzayankha," ndi nzeru za anthu akuti. Apa zonse ndizosavuta: kuchitira munthu, monga momwe ndingafunire kuti akuchitireni. Ndikhulupirireni, simuyenera kudikirira chidwi ndi kusamalira amuna anu, ngati mwaziwona nthawi yonseyi.
Aliyense amene akufuna kumukonda, amamusamalira, anali owolowa manja komanso ofatsa naye. Mukamapereka kwambiri, mumabwezeretsanso. Kuwonetsera nsanje, kudzutsa mnzanga, kuwongolera, mudzalandiranso zomwezo.
- Osapweteka
Zimachitika kuti pepani yomwe mwakhala yosasangalatsa. Mumatulutsa nthunzi ndikuyiwalika, ndipo mzimu wa mnzakeyo unakhalabe bala. Motalika bwanji? Zonse zimatengera mlandu wake. Nthawi zina mawu amatha kukhumudwitsidwa kwathunthu.
Musadumphe pa matamando ndi kuyamikiridwa, chithandizo ndi kuvomerezedwa. Lankhulani wokondedwa momwe mumayankhira ndikumukhulupirira. Osawopa kunena mawu atatu a zamatsenga: "Ndimakukondani."
- Chikondi ndi ntchito
Maubwenzi sakhala osalala komanso okhazikika. Chikondi chabwino komanso moyo wabanja wopanda mitanda umakhala m'mabuku achikazi okha. M'malo mwake, chikondi ndi ntchito ya tsiku ndi tsiku, pamwamba pa dziko lake. Muyenera kuphunzira kupewa ndi kuvomereza, chete mukafuna, iwalani za ego.
- Darnite Hungging
Munthu kuyambira ali aang'ono amafunikira zomverera zachinyengo. M'manja mwa mayi, timakhala otetezedwa ku dzikoli. Kukula, timafunikiranso chitetezo, kuvomerezedwa, kutonthoza - ndiko kulumikizana kwa okondedwa athu.
Asayansi adazindikira kuti pakukhudza mwachikondi, kuchuluka kwa mahomoni opsinjika kumachepa, dongosolo lamanjenje limapuma, dongosolo la mthupi limatsika, mkhalidwe wa mthupi umakhala bwino. Nthawi zambiri amakumbatira munthu wokondedwa kwambiri, popanda cholinga, gwiritsitsani manja. Chifukwa chake mudzakhala pafupi, ndipo ubale pakati panu ndi wodalirika komanso woona mtima.