Atsikana ambiri, akukonzekera ukwati, akuimira chinthu chomwe chingakhalepo. Kupatula apo, mu nthano zonse, kalonga ndi mfumukazi yakwatiwa akwatira mosangalala mpaka kumapeto kwa masiku awo. Koma moyo weniweni ndi wina. Simunganene kuti mukuyembekezera kutsimikiza kwathunthu pakuyembekezera kwanu, m'malo mwake, mufunika mwamunayo kuti muzolowerene wina ndi mnzake, zomwe ndizomveka kwa banja laling'ono.
Ngati uyu ndi mnzake woyamba yemwe mumakhalira limodzi, pa gawo loyambira lomwe mungadabwitse kudabwitsani, ndi zinthu zina zomwe simugwirizana. Ngati ndalama zoyambirira zikhale za inu, tsopano muyenera kugawa bajeti. Kuphatikiza apo, munthu adzawonekera m'nyumba mwako ndi malingaliro ake, ndipo ayeneranso kuyenera kulingaliridwa. Zonsezi sizophweka, koma pokhapokha pa gawo lotchedwa "kupukuta", mukapita kanthawi mudzasinthana wina ndi mnzake, ndipo mavuto ambiri adzachotsedwa paokha.
Chofunikira kwambiri ndikusunga ukwati m'zaka zoyambirira, chifukwa iyi ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri pomwe yesero ndi yabwino kusiya chilichonse, sichoncho. Zopinga zina zitha, koma zitha kugonjetsedwa ndi zoyesayesa. Tidzanena za zolakwitsa zomwe zingapewetsedwe ngati mukudziwa zinsinsi zazing'ono.
Ngati mkangano waukulu ukuyamba, bwenzi si malo a patebulo la banja
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Palibenso chifukwa chokangana ndi munthu chifukwa chofuna ndalama
Achinyamata anzeru samakakambirane zinthu zakuthupi asanabadwe. Ndipo pachabe. Mbali yachuma kumoyo limodzi ndi imodzi yofunika kwambiri, chifukwa muyenera kumanga moyo wolumikizana. Muyenera kufunsa pasadakhale kuti mwamuna wanu wamtsogolo ali ndi malingaliro ati amtsogolo pa ndalama. Kupatula apo, ngati mukugwiritsidwa ntchito pokhala ndi chidwi panu, muyenera kukambirana kagawidwe ka ndalama.
Osamauza mnzanu
Zachidziwikire, sikofunikira kufotokozera zinsinsi zanu zonse - zitha kuwononga banja lanu, pokhapokha ngati chinsinsi chanu chiri cholakwika chotere. Nthawi zina, mukayamba kusankha zochita: Kugula kwa mipando, kukonzekera tchuthi, makamaka kutchula za mwana wanu, - chifukwa chake muyenera kuchenjeza amuna anu, chifukwa tsopano ndinu banja limodzi. Mukapanga zolakwika, zomwe mukuchita manyazi, koma palibe "wolakwa" mmenemu, ngakhalenso bwenzi. Kupatula apo, pamapeto pake amadziwabe chilichonse.
Limbitsani anzanu pakulera mafunso a banja
Mutha kukhala ndi bwenzi lapamtima, lomwe inu nthawi zonse mumamvetsera nthawi zonse, koma tsopano muli ndi munthu wapamtima yemwe ali pamwamba paubwenzi wanu. Ngati mkangano waukulu ukuyamba, bwenzi silikhala malo kumbuyo kwa tebulo. Choyamba, sizikudziwa zonse za ubale wanu, ndipo malangizo ake sangakhale ndi cholinga. Kachiwiri, pali amayi otere omwe akuyesera kuti awononge moyo wa munthu wina, wobweretsa mavuto ndi kuwononga banja la mnzake. Sitikulimbikitsa kuzimiririka ku maubale ochezeka, ndizofunikira kwambiri, mosasamala banja lanu, ingogawana magawo a moyo kotero kuti amangotsatira momwe zimakhalira, koma sanasinthe konse.
Ngati uyu ndi mnzanu woyamba yemwe mumakhala limodzi, pa gawo loyambira lomwe mungadabwitse
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Lembani munthu
Popeza tsopano muli banja limodzi, ndiye kuti muyenera kukhala funso wamba. Mwachilengedwe, aliyense wa inu ali ndi zokonda zawo komanso zosangalatsa zawo, theka lanu ayenera kuwalemekeza. Ngati mungayesetse kukonza munthu, kenako kuthana ndi maubale anu pamwambowu, ndipo palibe pa kutha kwa banja. Yesetsani kupeza, tinene kuti, mnzanuyo amakonda mpira, ndipo simungathe kupirira, ndikusowa m'malire a malo ogulitsira. Simuyenera kumuimba mlandu m'malo olakwika, yesani kupita kumasewera ndi Iye, ndikhulupirireni, adzayamikira izi komanso nthawi ina ikapita kukagula nanu.
Kuti musunge ubale wabwino ndi okondedwa, simuyenera kulumbira
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Mverani upangiri wa abale
Ngakhale musanasinthe mphete, abale mbali zonse ziwirizi zimakhudzidwa ndi mapulani anu ndikuyesera kusintha. Mwina mukumva mafunso ngati awa: "Mudzabereka liti?", "Komwe mungapite kutchuthi?", "Mukamagula nyumba?" Ndipo nthawi zambiri sikuti ndi upangiri chabe, koma kukhazikitsidwa kwa Mulungu. Kuti musunge ubale wabwino ndi okondedwa ndi okondedwa, simuyenera kulumbira, mungondiuza pang'ono pang'ono kuti mumve malingaliro awo, koma mudzachita mukamaganiza ndi mwamuna wanga. Zili zonse zomwe zinali zabwino za abale, muyenera kukhala moyo m'moyo wanu.