Kholo lililonse limayesetsa kuteteza mwana wawo ululu, zokhumudwitsa ndi zolakwa. Komabe, akatswiri amisala amati, oletsedwa kwa ana zinthu zina, sitimakhala ndi madalitso awo, koma m'malo mwake, timawaletsa kuchita chitukuko ndikuwapangitsa kukhala osagwirizana. Inde, zoperewera zovomerezeka ziyenera kukhala, koma mulole mwana wanu pang'ono, ndipo adzakuyamikirani mtsogolo chifukwa cha ubwana wake wachimwemwe.
- Khalani ochuluka kwambiri
Ana ali ndi gawo lodabwitsa kufunsa funso losayembekezeka panthawi yosayenera. Osasiya mwana wanu. Amadziwa dziko lapansi, ndipo akuganiza chilichonse, ngakhale zomwe mukuganiza zosafunika.
Phunzirani naye
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Zachidziwikire, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuyeretsa nsomba ndikulongosola za mabowo akuda m'malo, ndipo ngakhale mutakhala kuti sangakhale ndi zakuthambo kusukulu. Koma uyu ndi gawo lalikulu la kholo. Khalani limodzi ndi mwana ndikuyang'ana mayankho a mafunso ake mu buku la Encyclopedia. Mumuwerengere zambiri, idzakulitsa malire okha, komanso anu. Kuphatikiza apo, njira yolumikizana yolumikizirana yotere imathandizira kuti akhazikike kwambiri ndi mwana, yemwe angapitirize kwa zaka zambiri. Kukhala wachinyamata, ana anu safunanso kupeza mayankho ochokera kwa abwenzi m'bwalo, koma adzakupemphani thandizo kwa inu.
- Kulira
Munthu wachichepere alibe zokumana nazo, zokhumudwitsa ndi Chagrin kuposa munthu wamkulu. Ingoganizirani zakukhosi kwanu, sakudziwa momwe angabisire. Nthawi yomweyo, timakonda kumva kuti: "chachikulu, ndikubangula ngati mtsikana." Zotsatira zake, mwana wanu wolimba mtima amadzisilira yekha ndipo adzapirira, ngakhale atakhumudwitsidwa, chifukwa ndizochita manyazi.
Tengani mazira anu ndi kukhazikika
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Onani ndi mwana zomwe zidachitika, muthandizireni kupulumuka tsoka la ana lino, khazikani mtima pansi. Kulira sikuchita manyazi nthawi zina ngakhale akulu.
- Pangika
Chimwemwe cha Ana ndi nthawi yomweyo komanso mokweza kwambiri kuti mutha kuchita. Zachidziwikire, ngati mwana wanu akusangalala, akuthamanga pamagalimoto a Metro, sakonda aliyense, koma kwinakwake papaki - bwanji? Muloleni iye afuule, akuyimba, kuseka - ali ndi ubwana wosankha, ndipo ali ndi ufulu.
Kuseka limodzi ndi mwana
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- Khalani ndi malo anu
Mwana si katundu wanu, koma munthu wosiyanitsidwa, zomwe makolo ambiri amaiwalika. Ali ndi ufulu kwa malingaliro ake, angakane chilichonse ndi kuchita zomwe akufuna. Wokalambayo, nthawi yomwe akufuna kukhala yekha, akhoza kukhala ndi zinsinsi zina kwa inu. Lemekezani malo ake, motero mudzagonjetsa chidaliro cha mwana.
Mwana yemwe angasankhe abwenzi ake
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- Cholakwa
Munthu wanu wamng'ono akungophunzira kukhala ndi moyo, osamukhumudwitsa, kuyesera kumuchitira kanthu. Zachidziwikire, mudzaphimba zotupa mwachangu ndikulimba, koma pali achinyamata omwe sanaphunzirepo kuchita izi zaka 12 mpaka 14. Mwana wathu pochita zolakwika kapena cholakwa chosachita, mutha kungomenya chikhumbo chake chofuna kuchita china chake. Tikufuna kuti ana athu aziphunzira zolakwa za anthu ena, koma tsoka, popanda kuziyika paokha, akhoza kutaya kwambiri m'moyo.
Lolani mwanayo akulakwitsa
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