Mothandizidwa ndi mavoti, simungangopanga chithunzi, komanso kuti mukwaniritse kusintha kwamoyo. SGT Kuyendetsa mawu, mumatha kuwonekera m'maso mwa munthu zomwe mungafune kukhala.
Nthawi yomweyo, ambiri aife sitimakhala osachita manyazi chifukwa choopa mantha sangathe kulimbana ndi chisangalalo, chifukwa chake yesetsani kuti musakope chidwi. Zotsatira zake, nthawi zambiri munthu wotere amaphonya mwayi wabwino m'moyo wake komanso ntchito yake. Kuphatikiza apo, anthu ochepa okha amafuna kulumikizana ndi munthu yemwe amakonda kung'ung'udza. Osawopa kufotokoza, musakhale ndi wokamba nkhani, koma zonse zili m'manja mwanu, muyenera kungofuna.
Kodi mawu akuti mawu athu amatengera chiyani?
Mbali iyi imakhudzidwa ndi zinthu zambiri - kuchokera ku zasintha kwa chilengedwe chathu. Komabe, mu mphamvu yanu kuti muchepetse nthawi yathu, yolimbana ndi kuwongolera, kuvomerezana, chifukwa cha mutu wa kampaniyo kapena, mwachitsanzo, mutu wa dipatimentiyi ndikofunikira kuti athetse mawu awo kuti azitsogolera anthu. Ngati mungatenge utsogoleri wa utsogoleri, chinthu chimodzi mwazinthu kuti chikhale tcheru, momwe mumayankhulira bwino.
Osawopa kufotokoza malingaliro anga
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Mawu ndi moyo wamunthu: Kodi pali kulumikizana?
Misba yakuya yamphongo imanena za mphamvu ya munthu, ikudziwa kuti ndikufuna kumvera, gawo lothandiza la ubongo wathu sichingavomereze izi. Pamlingo wozindikira, mayiyo akuwona kuti munthu wotereyu amatha kukhala ndi ana athanzi, ndipo chifukwa chake amuna omwe mwazindikira mawu awo otsika ndi otchuka kwambiri ndi anyamata kapena atsikana.
Nthawi yomweyo, ndizosatheka kusaganizira kuzungulira kwachikazi: monga akatswiri amisala adziwira, m'masiku osiyanasiyana omwe amayenda mwa akazi, mwachitsanzo, nthawi ya mankhwala osiyanasiyana, mkazi amasangalala ndi amuna omwe ali nayo Liwu lotsika, ndipo patatha sabata limodzi pambuyo pa kholaut imatha kukopa amuna okhazikika omwe amawonetsa chidwi naye komanso kukhala ndi choko chofewa.
Amayi ndi chiyani?
Malo ofooka nthawi zambiri amakhala odziwika bwino kuposa amuna, omwenso chifukwa chake zachilengedwe - amuna mwachilengedwe. Mawu otambalala, momwe angafunire kuwateteza, omwe amafunikira kutero, Ntchito za amunawo mogwirizana ndi theka lachiwiri. Komabe, mmwamba, m'njira ina, mawu a ana, amatha kusokonezedwa kwambiri polimbikitsa makwerero, chifukwa nkovuta kuganiza za abwana omwe alibe mawu ake. Zachidziwikire, ngati simudzuwa kuntchito, nthawi zonse siili m'mawu nthawi zonse, ndipo, ngati mungagwiritse ntchito kutchuthi, komwe kumakhala kudali kundende kumaperekedwa, pangani mawu owomberedwa, kuti asang'ambe. Zovuta komanso motero zimawona kuti ndi mphamvu chabe, komanso zimalimbikitsanso antchito awo, kuti ndinu munthu amene mukufuna kupita.
Ponena za maubwenzi anu, ngakhale chisokonezo chotere, monga mawu achikazi komanso ofooka, sangathe kukopa chidwi cha munthu ngati akukukonderani, chifukwa chake sioyenera kuda nkhawa kwambiri Kupanga kwanu sikuli m'chinenedwe, monga, tiyeni tinene kuti, wochita wokondedwa wanu - munthu amene amakukondani sanganene kuti simunganene kuti ndinu okwera mtengo kwa iye.
Kodi ndizoyenera kugwirira ntchito mawu anu, ngati sinakhutire ndi kupasuka ndi nthawi?
Inde, ndizovuta kusintha zomwe zimaperekedwa mwachilengedwe, koma ndizotheka ngati mungayendetse chikhumbo champhamvu. Tsopano mutha kupeza maphunziro ambiri luso lolankhula, kuphatikizapo maumboni otere omwe adaperekedwa pakuchita maphunziro azomwe amasateke - pamenepo mudzapeza mavologini okha, komanso kuchotsa matope omwe amakulepheretsani kutenga gawo loyamba komanso akatswiri. Usachite mantha ndikudzisintha, udzaona momwe zinthu zisinthidwe!