Kuledzera kwa akazi m'dziko lathu silofunika kwambiri ndipo koyenera kumenya alamu, koma ichi ndi matenda omwe tiyenera kuyankhula, popeza nthawi zambiri imakhala mitundu yobisika. Yuri Pavlovich Savolap, yemwe ndi wa Narcologist, dokotala wa sayansi ya zamankhwala, pulofesa wa dipatimenti ya psychoatry ndi psychology mankhwala. I. Chithehenova adauza mayi wodziwika kuposa momwe uchidakwa wachikazi umasiyana ndi amuna ndi zina, ndi kampani inayo.
- Yuri Pavlovich, tiyeni choyamba kudziwa mawuwo, kodi uchidakwa, chifukwa kukhala chidakwa chiyenera kukhala chofunikira kwambiri? Kodi pali lingaliro lotere?
- Palibe nthawi yotere yamankhwala. Koma mukaloweza, ndikananena kuti poyerekeza ndi kudali kwa mowa umawonetsa kukhalapo kwa odwala omwe ali ndi vuto la zoletsedwa mu gensus, ngati pali ambiri omwe ali ndi vuto lawo. Ndizofunikira kuyamba kumwa, ngakhale zazing'ono zazing'ono, zosokoneza bongo kwambiri komanso zogwiritsidwa ntchito zitha kuchitika zopanda malire. Ngati munthu ali ndi achibale ambiri akumwa, chifunde cha kukula kwa uchidakwa wawo ukhoza kukhala pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana - choyamba, nkhawa kwambiri. "Mwamwambo" woledzera woledzera womwe umatsatiridwa ndi kupangidwa kwa kukhazikitsidwa kwa zodalirika, kudziimba mlandu, kuchepetsedwa kudzidalira. Chitsanzo cha kukula kwa uchidakwa pamaziko a mitsempha ndikuopa ndege. Kuti muthane nazo, munthu amamwa pa eyapoti kapena kale padenga pamaso pa kunyamuka, ndipo patatha zaka zingapo sizingathenso kukhala ndi mowa.
Kumbali inayi, moyo wa munthu wokhala ndi mbiri yopanda uchidakwa yambiri ingakhale yotukuka kwambiri, koma yolakwika pa iyo idzakhala ndi malo ozungulira ". Zimakhala zovuta kukhulupirira, koma maphwando "amagwirira ntchito" nthawi zina amakhala amphamvu kwambiri chifukwa cha kuledzera.
- Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa uchidakwa wamkazi kwa amuna?
- Chinsinsi chake ndichakuti uchidambo mwa azimayi nthawi zambiri umayamba pambuyo pake, koma mwachangu amapita. Kumwa akazi kwambiri nthawi zambiri amamwa kuvutika maganizo, nkhawa komanso matenda amisala. Kumwa mowa mwauchidakwa pakati pa akazi kumakhala kochulukirapo kumachitika chifukwa cha mavuto amisala kuposa abambo. Akazi pambuyo pake amuna amayamba kuledzera, koma nthawi yomweyo amapempha thandizo. Zikuwoneka kuti, izi zitha kufotokozedwa chifukwa chakuti azimayi amakhala ndi udindo. Koma mwa uchidakwa wamkazi, mosiyana ndi amuna, pali gawo - zovuta pakuwongolera kugwiritsa ntchito. Mwamunayo ndiwosavuta kusiya, ndipo mayiyo, amene amalepheretsa galasi la vinyo, samayima komanso atatha mabotolo awiri kapena atatu. Amamwa kwambiri kuposa kukonzekera. Mwa njira, azimayi akuletseka kuposa za anthu, ndipo ndizovuta kwambiri kuti asiye.
- ndipo ndani amatsitsa mwachangu - bambo kapena mkazi? Ndipo chifukwa chiyani mkaziyo ndi ovuta kusiya kumwa kuposa munthu?
- Funso lovuta. Akazi amapangidwa mwachangu ndi kuwonongeka kwa ubongo - komwe-yotchedwa Entrocliclopathy. Koma nthawi yomweyo, lingaliro la uchidakwa kwambiri ndipo, makamaka, limafotokoza za kuwonongeka kwambiri mwa azimayi kumafotokozedwa ndi kusalidwa kwa chikhalidwe. "Kusala" kutanthauziridwa kuchokera ku Greek - "cholembera,". Timakonda kudzudzula mkazi amene amamwa chifukwa cha matenda ake, amalimbikitsa kwambiri zilembo zonyansa. Izi ndi zabwino kwambiri ndipo zimalemba chimodzi mwa akatswiri otsogola pankhani ya uchidakwa wa azimayi, pulofesa Alexey YoGOREVE EG. Petersburg. M'malo mwake, nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kusiya kumwa, chifukwa kumwa mwa amayi nthawi zambiri kumakhudzana ndi kukhumudwa kapena kupsinjika kwakukulu. Nthawi zambiri mzimayi amakumana ndi kusungulumwa, woweta, wosafunikira, amapezeka kuti amatanthauza kapu yokhala ndi vinyo. Wogwidwa ndi chizolowezi chowononga amakhala bizinesi, yomwe nyumba yake ilibe kanthu ndipo amakhala osungulumwa kumeneko. Amazolowera ntchito yolemetsa ndi mantha "amatenga nkhawa yamphongo", polozera botolo.
- Kodi ndizotheka kuthana ndi njira yovomerezeka ndi bwana kapena bwana?
-- Wogonjera ku chiwongolaka mosavuta, ndi othawathawa, koma osazindikira abwana - zosatheka. Ndi kugwira ntchito ndi munthu wotere - tsiku la gehena.
Kulimbana ndi munthu wakumwa ndikulimbana ndi wodwala. Pepani, koma ndikumakangana ngati dokotala, osati monga loya wotsutsa kapena wotsutsa kuti alidi. Chitani zomwe munthu amamwa mowa zimafanana ndikumuthamangitsa chifukwa cha rheumatism. Wodwalayo amafunikira kuti apereke chithandizo chamankhwala. Zachidziwikire, ngati Iye ati, ngati sakwaniritsa ntchito yake ndipo amapanga malo opanda thanzi mu timu, ndiye kuti ndikofunikira kuyambitsa njira yothetsera ubale wogwirizira ndi malamulo ogwirira ntchito.
- Nthawi zambiri ndimawona zotsatsa zomwe mutha kuzigwiritsa ntchito zoledzeretsa mpaka kalekale. Kodi Njira Zophatikizira lero? Kodi mwawonekera njira zatsopano zamakono? Kodi ndi zinthu ziti zomwe zimachita bwino?
- Njira zokokera zimathandizira odwala omwe ali. Koma nthawi yomweyo ndikukhulupirira kuti kuli kofunikira kuwakana. Njirazi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito m'maiko osakwatiwa okha. Kudziletsa ku mowa molingana ndi mantha ndikosemphana ndi malingaliro amakono pazomwe zimachitika. Ndingasamalire njira zatsopano zothandizira kuledzera. Zikudziwika, chifukwa chake, kukhala ndi kugwira bwino kwa mwadzidzidzi zasayansi kwa matenda aliwonse sikulengezedwa, ndipo njira izi sizochitika kwambiri.
Kumwa mankhwalawa kumayendera bwino m'maiko omwe ali ndi mwayi wopeza chithandizo choyenera. Ntchito yofunika kwambiri kudziko lathu lapansi ndi kukana kwa nkhani yowerengera odwala omwe ali ndi vuto la mowa. Palibe phindu ndi njira yolerera yazachiyanjano, koma anthu ambiri omwe amamwa mowa amafunika kuwafunafuna chipatala okhaokha chifukwa chazotsatira za chikhalidwe - kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndipo zonse zimalumikizidwa ndi izi. Akaunti amafunsidwa makamaka kwa mayi, zitha kumvedwa: pomwe oyandikana nawo adzaphunzira kuti akuganizira, mkaziyo amayamba kusankhidwa. Ndi zolemetsa zotere ndizosatheka kukhala ndi moyo modekha.
- ndipo amachepetsa bwanji kumwa mowa? Kupatula apo, psyche ikawonongekabe.
- Tsoka ilo, uchidakwa singathe kuthanzidwa. Akatswiri ambiri m'maiko osiyanasiyana padziko lapansi adazindikira. Anthu ambiri amadalira mowa sangathe kusiya kumwa kwathunthu komanso kwamuyaya. Ngati anthu awa, chifukwa cha mankhwalawa amayamba kumwa zochepa, zochepa komanso zotsatila zochepa zomwe zikuyenda bwino. Kuchepetsa kumwa mowa mosavuta pomwe sizingatheke kumaliza - njira yothandiza yochepetsera kufa m'dziko lathu. Ngati lero gulu limamvetsetsa kuti mungofunika kuchepetsa kuchuluka kwa choledzera, mutha kukhala ndi moyo wabwino ndikugwira ntchito, ndipo palibe chifukwa cha kuwonongedwa kwa psyche ya mawu, mwamwayi, siyilowa. Mawu osavuta, ngati palibe chofuna kusiya mowa, koma pali chikhumbo chomenyera - chepetsani mlingo!