Pofunafuna maloto a munthu, azimayi nthawi zambiri amagwera mu "network" ya amuna omwe safuna chibwenzi chachikulu. Amuna oterewa amafotokoza momwe amachitirira polephera kuyang'ana pa mayi wina, akuti adawakakamiza. Komabe, akatswiri azamaganizo sangavomereze izi. Koma kodi mkazi angamvetse bwanji kuti munthu amene sioyenera kuwononga nthawi pamaso pake, ndipo ndani angamusiye, akangofika?
Nthawi zonse mumamva za akazi ena
Lovelace ndizovuta kuletsa pomwe awona mtsikana wokongola. Komanso, sadzatsutsidwa, m'malo mwake, sadzatha kusilira, ndipo nthawi zambiri amuna otere amakonda kupanga zoyamikiridwa. Zachidziwikire, munthu aliyense amakopa zokongola zomwe zimayamba kukhala m'malo mwa mawonekedwe awo, koma ambiri aiwo amatha kukhala pamaso pa mnzake, ngati bambo wanu sakusamalira zomwe mwachita nazo, inu Apa ndi woimira "mtundu wa Casanov".
Cholinga chake ndikukukokerani pabedi mwachangu
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Simudziwa chilichonse chokhudza iye
Mwamuna amene sakonzekera ubale wautali sadzakusiyani m'moyo wake. Zambiri pomwe kupeza mudzatsegulidwa ndi kama wake. Nthawi zambiri, mwamunayo amamuuza dzina lake ndi patelefoni iliyonse: Ikusowa kudikirira pakhomo kuti mumvetsetse bwino ubalewo, ndiye kuti ndizosavuta kuperewera kwa chithunzithunzi chikamapita pakati panu.
Amayesetsa kusintha "kwamphamvu" mwachangu
Mwamuna aliyense amene ali wofunika malingaliro anu akadzakuvekerani ndipo adzawopa kupanga chithunzi choyipa. Koma osati ngati mumamukonda ngati mbuye kwa miyezi ingapo. Monga lamulo, Sovess amalumikizana kale tsiku loyamba: Akuyesetsa kukukanani kwa iye, kumpsompsona, kumpsompsona, kumaliza zifukwa zokwanira kumaliza madzulo "m'malo osangalatsa." Cholinga cha makonda ndi kukwaniritsa ubale uliwonse mtengo wonse, ndipo zomwe mukuganiza pa izi - sizikumukhudza.
Adzakukometsa
Ngakhale kuti munthu wotereyu sasamala zomwe mukuganiza pankhani ya izi, nthawi yomweyo ikakhala yogwira ntchito m'moyo wanu. Osati mwanzeru, vomerezani. Poyamba, zingaoneke ngati nkhawa, chifukwa chake mumakhala wachisoni kwambiri, ndikuyesera kuti museke ndikukweza chisangalalo, ndipo chosangalatsa - chimagwira ntchito mokomera kwake. Mkazi akumva ngati munthu, amasamalira malingaliro ake. Kapoloyu amatheka. Popeza talandira malo anu, zidzakhala zosavuta kwa iye kuchepetsa ubwenzi wanu potsogozedwa.
Nthawi zambiri amasowa
Mwamuna yemwe sangasankhe posankha mkazi nthawi zambiri amasowa mu gawo lanu. Mutha kukhala limodzi masiku angapo kapena masabata angapo, ndiye kuti zimasowa mwadzidzidzi ndipo sizikulengezedwa kwakanthawi. Munatha kubwera ndi chochitika chodabwitsa cha zochitika, koma amalengeza ndipo nthawi yomweyo amalengeza ndipo amachitika, ngati kuti palibe chomwe chidachitika. Ganizirani ngati mukufuna munthu yemwe amayang'ana nthawi ndi nthawi, ndipo sakupita ndi inu kwa nthawi yayitali?