Ndikudabwa kuti chifukwa chiyani munthu sakwaniritsa momwe alili? Ndipo zilibe kanthu konse, ndi gawo liti la chikhalidwe, monga momwe anathanirana ndi zomwe anakwaniritsa - adzawonekabe kuti akuwoneka kuti izi sikokwanira. Umbombo? Kulephera kukhala zenizeni ndikuyamikirana ndi chiyani?
Sindikumvetsa kuti ndimafunitsitsa kusintha kena kake ndikuyesetsa kuchita china chake - kodi ndi bwino kapena ndi zamkhutu? Kumbali ina, mukukula, loto la china chachikulu, kusintha - mwakutanthauzira, kodi ndikofunikiradi kuyenda mtsogolo popanda chilungamo? Zili ngati kudya mkate womwe wakhala ukufuna kale, koma nthawi yomweyo osasangalala nawo, koma kuganizira zomwe zagulitsidwa m'sitolo. Kodi izi ndi ziti?
Ndikofunikira kuyamikira zomwe tili nazo, osati kukhala za ichi. Zikuwoneka kuti chowonadi choyambirira, chomwe chakhala chikudziwika kwa aliyense, koma chifukwa chake zimakhala zovuta kuzigwiritsa ntchito m'moyo? Mwachitsanzo, miyezi ingapo yapitayo ndidalakalaka kupeza ntchito yatsopano, ndipo lero zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti izi sikokwanira - muyenera kuyang'anabe. Ayi, sindine wogwira ntchito, ndiye kuti cholinga chikakwaniritsidwa, ndiye kuti ndikufuna kupita patsogolo. Ndipo m'masiku ano ndiolandiridwa, zikhumbozo zimalimbikitsidwa ndi anthu. Koma sindingamvetsetse ngati tiika zinthu zofunika kwambiri?
Vladislav Makipchuk amalankhula ngati kuli koyenera kukhala ndi moyo kosatha
Chithunzi chojambulidwa ndi wolemba
Tsiku lina, munthu wofunika kwambiri adanena kuti pamalo opumira, mtsikanayo ayenera kuyesetsa kupanga banja ndipo amatonthoza momuzungulira. "Nanga bwanji za kudzifufuza?" - nthawi yomweyo ndinawalira ndi ine, chifukwa lero mkazi wasinthira mnyumbayo. Ndipo pokhapokha ngati ine ndisanathe kwa ine (ndikuganiza zikuwoneka) tanthauzo la mawuwo adanena. Mwinanso wokondedwa ndi mbali - izi ndi zomwe zimakakamizidwa kumapeto kwa chikondwererochi? Kupatula apo, zimakhala bwino nthawi zonse mukamagawana zomwe simumachita zokha.
Dziko lamakono silipatsa munthu kuti apumule, amamusamalira ndipo wachinyengo amawononga ofooka komanso osadetsedwa. Tikuphunzirapo kanthu Koma ngati simuphunzira kusangalala ndi zopambana zanu, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito moyo wanga wonse kufunafuna "masiku abwino", chifukwa nthawi zonse pamakhala wina wokongola kwambiri, wolemera, wanzeru. Kuyesetsa Kukwaniritsa Zinthu Zatsopano - Ndizabwino, koma kodi moyo uno ndi chiyani momwe mukusinthira cholinga chosatheka? Mwina iyi ndi matenda china m'badwo wanga.
Sindikulimbikitsa kukana zolinga ndikugona pa sofa. Ndimangoganiza za malire, chifukwa ndadzisokoneza ndipo sindimvetsetsa zomwe ndamusowa. Nthawi zonse zimawoneka kwa ine kuti ndimakhala zenizeni, osatinso, chifukwa ndimakonda moyo wanga, mphindi zilizonse sizinachitike. Koma nthawi zina ndimazindikira kuti ndimakhala kuti ndimakopeka ndi mpikisano wokhala ndi ine ndekha ndikusiya kusangalala tsiku ndi tsiku. Sindimalephera kusangalala ndi moyo, koma kungochita zomwe zimatitsogolera zomwe zimayambitsa zomwe ndakhala nazo. Zikuwoneka kuti: Ndipamene ndimakwaniritsa izi, ndiye kuti zonse zidzasintha. Koma ayi, tsiku la x likubwera - ndipo palibe chomwe chimasintha. Kodi inunso muli nawo? Kupatula apo, kwatsimikiziridwa kuti njira ndiyofunika kwambiri kuposa cholinga chachikulu. Mapeto athu, moyo wathu wonse sunapambane kumapeto kwa iye, koma njira yopita kwa iye. Ndipo ndinataya mtima, m'makangano a masiku ano taphunzira kusangalala ndi mavuto.
"Sindidzathawa nokha," ndili wotsimikiza Vladislav Makiptuk
Chithunzi chojambulidwa ndi wolemba
Kodi pali malangizo othandiza okuthandizani, kuthana ndi zomwe mwakumana nazo zomwe mungakwanitse kuchita, ndikuphunzira momwe angazigwiritsire ntchito? Kupatula apo, tili mu ukapolo wa zikhumbo, sitingagwiritse ntchito zochita zathu. Mwina kufunafuna china chake chachikulu ndi chiganizo cha munthu kapena china chake. Ngati mungayime ndi kutulutsa mphindi, mutha kupeza kuti moyo suli wolemera komanso wosamveka. Mwina chikhumbo "Ndikufuna, inenso sindikudziwa kuti zolinga zomwe zakwaniritsidwa sizimabweretsa chikhutiro choyembekezeka, ndipo pamabwera zokhumudwitsa zopusa. Koma munthu yekhayo amadalira momwe amasangalatsidwa ndi zomwe amachita. Izi zimachokera mndandanda wagalasi lomwe wina amamuwona theka la kumaliza, ndipo wina ali wopanda kanthu. Chifukwa chake ndi zomwe adakwaniritsa: Wina amawafotokozera mwachidule chizindikiro, ndipo ena amasangalala ndi zolakwa. Ndipo zikuwoneka kwa ine, anthu ochokera ku gulu lachiwiri ndi losangalala kwambiri, ngakhale kuti mwina sangachite bwino. Koma kodi ndizofunika kupambana kumeneku kwa kusowa kwa zinthu zauzimu?
Kuyenda ndi moyo, kotero nthawi zonse kumakhala kukulira, koma mwina mukufunikirabe kusiya nthawi ndi nthawi kuti mudziwe zomwe mukuchita. Mwinanso, ndiye kuti mgwirizano wamkati umasungidwa, ndipo simukupita ku chinyama choledzera.
Mwinanso, ndili ndi zaka makumi atatu, ndidzakangana m'njira ina, koma ndikufuna kukhulupirira kuti akhumba ndikusokonezeka sichofunika kuyenda popanda kuyang'ana mmbuyo. Kuchokera pa ine ndekha simudzapha, sichoncho?