"Mu chimango cha maubwenzi achichepere, amuna nthawi zambiri amapereka chidziwitso chokhudzana ndi kubereka (ndiye kuti, kuchuluka kwa kugonana kwa wokondedwa wawo, pomwe azimayi amatha kukonda kuti akonzekere kukondana (ndiye kuti) , zothandizira) m'malo osunthika, "Phunziro la 2017 lidzachita zosemphana ndi kugonana pambuyo pa mikangano yachikondi pambuyo pa mikangano yachikondi. Akatswiri azamankhwala amafotokoza kuti kugonana kwa conciliatory kumapangitsa kuti okwatirana azikhala okonzekanso okondedwa ndi okondedwa, koma njirayi siyingayike athanzi. Amafotokoza chifukwa chake malo awo amasiyana ndi malingaliro a anthu ambiri.
Kuonera
Panthawi yokangana m'magazi anu, mulingo wa mahomoni a adrenaline, wopangidwa poyankha zakunja ndi kufuna kwanu kutsimikizira. Anthu omwe amawona zachiwerewere mogwirizana ndi njira imodzi ya umodzi pambuyo polimbana, molakwika. Psychology Lero Magazini imakhulupirira kuti mlandu wabwino nthawi zonse panthawiyi umaphwanya malire mu maubale - mukatha kubwerera ku moyo wanthawi zonse zomwe zingakuwonekere kwa inu. Akatswiri azamankhwala amayerekezera chikhumbo cha kugonana kwa concatiatory ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo - munthu amapeza mankhwalawa, osati zoletsa zoletsa, komanso momwe zimakhalira. Kwa anthu ena, zimatha kukhala vuto lalikulu, chifukwa adzayamba kuyang'ana chifukwa chodzibweretsera nthawi yobwereza kwakanthawi.
Ponyani malingaliro osayenera musanayambe kugonana
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Kutulutsa kwa malingaliro osalimbikitsa
Mu psychology pali mawu oti "kusamutsa", ndikufotokozera mfundo ya ubongo mukakangana ndi mnzanu. Zovuta zoyipa zimasamutsidwa kuchokera kumverera kukwiya pankhani ya chisangalalo - ndiye chifukwa chake muyenera kuchita mantha ndi wokondedwa wanu. Mu 2010, ndi anthu otani tikakumana ndi zikuluzikulu? Mahomoni, mtima wamtima ndi asymmetricacal a ubongo »amafotokozera zakukhosi kwa mkwiyo ndi kuvuta kwake - kumawonjezera kukakamizidwa kwa kugunda kwa mtima, ndi zinthu zomwe zikuchokerako, ndipo pomaliza njira zomwe ali nazo M'malo mwake ndi zabwino - kuthwa zakuthwa kwa adrenaline kumamverera chisangalalo. Komabe, vutoli, chifukwa cha mkangano womwe sunachitike sikuti amasankha - ichi ndiye cholakwika chachikulu. Choyamba muyenera kukhazika mtima ndikulankhula funso losokoneza, pambuyo pake, mukamapepesa ndipo mukudziwa chilichonse, ndikofunikira kuyankhula za Chinyengo.
Kusamvana pakati pa okwatirana
Ngati mukukangana, kenako kusokoneza ndi kuwonongeka kwa zikhumbo zimayamba kugonana, pakhoza kusamvetsetsa pakati panu, zomwe zidzasamvetsetse ngakhale mikangano yayikulu kwambiri. Pakadali pano, wina amayang'ana kumapeto kwa kusamvana, winayo adzathetsa kugonana kumeneko ndikungopuma pang'ono pokambirana nkhaniyi, ndipo adzafuna kubwerera kwa iye pambuyo pake. Nthawi zambiri, malo oyamba ndi achilendo kwa amuna, ndipo wachiwiri - azimayi. Nthawi zambiri atsikana amakhala kwambiri ndipo amakumana ndi anthu okondedwa omwe amakondedwa, amadziunjikira m'mutu mwake kwa masiku angapo.
kugonana sikungathetse vutoli, koma kokha kumangowonjezera
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Zizindikiro zozunza
Imodzi mwa magawo omwe akatswiri amisala amafunika kulumikizana pakati pa wankhanza nyumba ndi wozunzidwayo - "homemoon". Chimatsatira olengeza, omwe m'mabanja abwinobwino amakhalabe pokhapokha muzokambirana za nkhaniyo pamitundu yokwezeka, komanso yolakwika imaphatikizidwa ndi chipongwe, zoopsa komanso ngakhale nkhondo. Wozunzayo ndi woyambitsa kugonana mokhazikika kuti azibisa nkhope yake yeniyeni ndi "kusintha kulakwa" pamaso pa wolulidwayo kuti uzikhala wolamulidwa. Ngati muubwenzi wanu, palibe mkangano womwe umagonana, kulumikizana ndi katswiri wazamilausi, kungoganiza za katswiri wazamilau komanso kuganiza mozama, palibe zizindikiro zina zosonyeza kuphwanya psyche kwa okondedwa.