Osati pafupipafupi, koma kulakwitsa makolo ang'ono - kupemphetsa maudindo akuleredwa ndi mwana, mwachitsanzo, amalola chilichonse, ndipo zonsezo, zonga zopindika pazabwino ndikuyika Malamulo amoyo m'nyumba. Nthawi zambiri zinthu zimayenda bwino kwambiri ngati makolo ali ndi mavuto amisala: wina akuwonetsa mkwiyo, ndipo wachiwiri amateteza mwanayo kwa iye, kukhala ngwazi yake. Amafotokoza chifukwa chake muyenera kusiya njira yotere - pali zifukwa zina.
Zopunthwitsa mu mabanja
Mwina munaona nthabwala m'magulu a makolo, komwe mwana amafunsa chilolezo cha amayi kuti ayende ndi abwenzi, amakana kukana ndipo amatembenuka kwa abambo, podziwa kuti inde adzanena kuti "inde." Simukakamizidwa ndi mnzanu kuti musiyire zinthu zosiyanasiyana zophunzitsira zopunthwitsa zopunthwitsa zopunthwitsa. Cammy Camm, ana Hol Holland, ana Hol Holland, ana a Baly, anati: "Ana a Tammy Can Hol Holland, The Halkwar, ana a Hol Bolland, anatero Vamyland, ana a Balland ndi ana a Bom. Kupereka mayankho osiyanasiyana ku pempho la mwana, muphunzira kuti lidzakhala chikwatu ndikuphunzira kusamala ndi munthu woyenera - sizingamukhudze tsogolo lake, chifukwa chopepuka chidzatha - kutali ndi mikhalidwe yabwino.
Kambiranani mapulani anu kuti muuzidwe ndi mnzake
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Kukhazikika ndi Kutonthoza
Pulofesa wina wa dipatimenti ya psychology ya Yunivesite ya Hoftra J. Frea amati malamulo omwe athandizidwa mnyumbamo omwe ali ndi vuto la iye komanso makolo. Chinthu china ndi pamene kholo lililonse lili ndi malamulo ake - pankhaniyi, mwana watayika ndipo amamva kusokonezeka chifukwa cha kusamvetsetsana, monganso. Choyipa chachikulu, ngati muwapatsa zambiri zotsutsana ndi zotsutsana ndi maongo. Posachedwa, koma motere, mwanayo amasankha kholo lokondedwa - Adzadzifunsa ndani amene adzamufunse. "Izi zimasokoneza mwanayo, chifukwa nthawi zambiri amadzimva kuti akusankha kuti agwirizane ndi imodzi mwa maphwando amodzi, ndipo asyporapist Van Holkwar.
Kulengedwa kwa Zoyimira Zoyipa komanso Zabwino
Ku Russia, chiphunzitsochi sichili chotchuka kwambiri, koma mu dziko la Azungu, ana amayesa kuphunzitsa popanda maubwenzi ndi masinthidwe okhudzana ndi pansi. Ngati m'modzi mwa makolo atenga gawo la Angela, zimakwiyitsa mwana, pomwe lingaliro lake la "mdierekezi" poyang'ana kholo lina limathandizira kuti kholo likhale lolakwika za jenda. Izi zimawonekera pamwala wachinyamata pomwe wachinyamatayo akukumana ndi anthu ena achikondi kapena amalonda. Chifukwa chake anyamatawa, amayi ake omwe awakalipira nthawi zonse, samakhulupirira atsikana, ndipo m'malo mwake, kwa atsikana omwe ali ndi makolo okhwima. Kwa ana, ndikofunikira kukhala ndi thanzi labwino, lotseguka lotseguka ndi makolo onse komanso ndi zitsanzo zina zotsatsa, ngakhale atakhala ndi amuna.
Mwanayo sayenera kukhala "chiweto" pakati pa makolo
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Mikangano yosatha pakati pa abwenzi
Kufunika kokhala woyang'anira - homuweki, kukwaniritsidwa kwa ntchito zapakhomo ndi ntchito zina - kungakakamize kholo limodzi kukhala ndi mkwiyo wina. Aliyense amafuna kuti ana ake azimukonda komanso kumuyamika, koma kukhala mphunzitsi ndikutsatira malamulo omwe ndi ofunikira kwambiri pakukula ndi kukula kwa mwana - ntchito ya makolo onse. "Makolo ayenera kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake. Maphunziro a ana amaphatikizidwa ndi zovuta, ndipo aliyense ali ndi kakhalidwe awo ka maphunziro, "akutero a Van Holkwar. Chifukwa chake, mutha kukhala ndi malamulo otsutsana nanu, ngati simukiza nthawi kuti mukambirane ndikupanga dongosolo limodzi.