Okondedwa asungwana, sindingakudyetseni ndi zonunkhira, ndikunena kuti pali njira ina (kapena njira yochitira), kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanthawi yakuperekedwa kwa anyamata kapena atsikana. Osati! Fomu iyi, mwatsoka, kulibe, apo ayi zingakhale zokwanira kuphunzira ndipo kutseka funso ndi woweta. Koma sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala ndikudikirira kuti, "Kodi" kukutengerani ", mosiyana ndi atsikana ena omwe akumana kale ndi izi, kapena ayi.
Inde, palibe njira yotereyi, kufunsira komwe mungakuteteze mtima kuti musinthe, koma pali njira ina yomwe ingachepetse izi zotuluka muvutoli, tikambirana nanu lero. Chifukwa chake, pitani.
Choyamba komanso chofunikira kwambiri, zomwe zimatsata, izi ndi zomwe munthu sachita kwa mayi amene ali wokongola kwambiri, wanzeru kapena wocheperako (kwa iye samagwira ntchito yofunika). Amachoka pamtunda kuti akukumana nanu pafupi ndi inu. Inde, inde, sizoyenera kuti zidabwitsidwe, ndi chowonadi choyera. Munthu amachoka mwa mkazi wina, akusiyani, kumbukirani mphindi iyi. Kuchokera apa pali zotsatira zonse.
Munthu sagwira mnzake, koma ochokera ku Boma kuti akukumana ndi inu pafupi ndi inu
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Chonde dziwani kuti sindikuyankhula za amuna omwe sanabwere ndikusintha atsikana ngati magolovesi. " Zikakhala choncho, mumadalira kale, ndipo zomwe zingachitike, ndipo zomwe zingachitike mwanjira iliyonse, motero ndikofunikira kuti mupange chisankho chabwino pamoyo wanu. Chifukwa chake, atsikana, ngati munthu wanu ali munthu wanzeru komanso wankhanza, ndiye kuti mutha kukopa mawonekedwe omwe akukumana nanu.
Tiyeni tichitepo ndi momwe tingachitire izi:
1. Maonekedwe abwino. Tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti abambo ali ndi mawonekedwe ambiri. Choyamba, amayang'ana pa "chithunzi", mawonekedwe a mkazi ndipo kenako - pamtundu wake wamkati. Chifukwa chake chikhalidwe chakonzedwa. Atsikana ambiri amaganiza kuti chibwenzi chawo chikalowa pamlingo wapamwamba, mutha kupumula ndikuyenda popanda tsitsi, nthawi ndi nthawi ndikuyiwala zinthu, chifukwa timakondana kale. Atsikana okongola, inde, simusiya kukonda, koma chimachitika ndi chiyani pamenepa? Chilichonse ndichosavuta, mwamuna wanu amatha kuyang'ana azimayi ena mwakachetechete kuposa inu), kapena musakhale ndi chidwi ndi inu monga mkazi, ndipo simudzakondwera. Chifukwa chake, ngati ndikofunikira kuti mukhale wofunikira nthawi zonse kwa mwamuna wanu, yesani kukhala momveka bwino ndipo musadzipangitse kukhala oyang'ana, kubisala ndi ana, kugwirira ntchito ina.
Yesani kusunga zachikondi mu maubale
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2. Chikazi. Atsikana, yankho lanu nonse mafunso awa: Kateni muli ndi zochitika ngati munthu wanu atakupatsirani matumba anu ndi zinthu zanu, ndipo mudakana, ndikumupatsa kuti amvetse zomwe tikupirira? Kodi mwatenga nyundo mu khola lanu lokhala ndi msomali? Kodi mudawululirapo za chibayo chakumakhitchini kapena bafa? Ndipo tsopano lingalirani bwino ndikundiuza pamene mudachita zonsezi, kodi mumamva ngati osalimba komanso ofatsa? Inde sichoncho! Koma izi ndizofunikira kwambiri, kukhala paubwenzi ndi bambo, kuti muwonetse ukazi wanu, zofewa, kufooka kuti munthu amene mumakonda wokondedwa ndi inu. Osawonetsetsa kuti ndiwe mzimayi wamphamvu ndipo mutha kuwukitsa 10-20 makilogalamu mwa chala chimodzi. Ndikwabwino kuwonetsa kuti ndinu odekha, cholengedwa chofooka chomwe chikufunika mphamvu ya amuna. Tiyeni timvetsetse mnyamata wanu kuti popanda iye simudzalimbana ndi ntchito iliyonse pomwe mphamvu ya abambo imafunikira, kenako bambo wanu adzaona mtsikana wofatsa yemwe akufuna kukonda ndi kuteteza.
3. Kudziletsa. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika, atsikanawo amayamba kukondana ndi mnyamata wawo ndikuyamba kupambana, kuyiwala pawokha ngati munthu wosiyana. Osatero. Ngati munthu m'modzi ali m'chibwenzi, ndipo yachiwiri ili pomwepo, posakhalitsa ndiyomwe idzatulutsidwa ndi moyo womwe wakonzedwa. Chifukwa chake, kuti musakhale ndi izi, chita umunthu wanu wamkati, mudzaze. Mwamuna wanu ayenera kuti amadabwa nanu. Yambani kuwerenga mabuku othandiza, pitani kumisonkhano, seminare, yophunzitsira, kusaina yoga, kuvina kapena masewera olimbitsa thupi. Mwanjira ina, pangani kuti zitheke ndikupanga mawonekedwe osangalatsa ochokera kwa inu.
Dzipangeni nokha
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4. Kukhazikitsidwa. Ngati poyamba mutayamba kuyanjana ndi mnyamata wanu kuti "asinthe" mtsogolo, ndiye kulakwitsa kwakukulu. "Kuphwanya" munthu ngati umunthu wanu, kudzapambana. Mumuchitikire kuti apite kwa omwe ndimamukonda monga momwe aliri --nso inde. Ndipangitseni kumva chisoni kuti adakwatila - inde. Koma khalani zabwino - izi ndi chinthu chopeka. Chifukwa chake, munthu ayenera kutenga momwe aliri, kapena kuti asakhale ndi Iye. Palibe wina. Ngati mwasankha njira yoyamba, mumayiwala kuyerekezera mnyamata wanu ndi wina aliyense. Siyani "kudula" pamwambo uliwonse (pezani ntchito yabwinobwino, ndikuponyera zinyalala, simungathe chilichonse, ndi zina zambiri). M'malo mwake, onetsani munthu wanu pamene mukumukonda ndipo tili okonzeka kuchirikiza munthawi iliyonse. "Chithandizo" - izi sizitanthauza kuti ntchito pa itatu ikhale ndi banja lonse pomwe ali ndi nthawi yovuta. Mukukumbukira chinthu chachiwiri, chomwe tidakambirana pamwambapa - "Achimeni"? Chifukwa chake, "kuthandizira" kumatanthauza kukhala pafupi ndi munthu wanu, ndikukhulupirira kuti, kukhala osalimba komanso modekha, komwe akufuna kuti "mapiri athe kufalikira", kuthana ndi zopinga zonse.
5. Malo anu. Pali gawo la azimayi omwe amayang'anira gawo lililonse la amuna awo (SMS, amayimba, kuwunika, etc.). Khalidweli limakhala chizindikiro chodzidalira ndi kusakhulupirira kwake. Posachedwa, bambo wanu amatopa ndi makina anu ndipo akufuna kupuma mopumirako kwinakwake ndi mtsikana wodzikonda (wosakhalitsa kapena kwanthawi zonse. Kuti izi zisachitike, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti munthu aliyense azikhala ndi malo. Ubwenzi uliwonse wolimba umakhala wokhulupirira. Chifukwa chake, simuyenera kukayikira wokondedwa wanu mu chinthu, m'malo mwake, muloleni amvetse zomwe mumakonda ndi kumukhulupirira.
Chitonthozo mnyumbamo ndichofunikira
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6. Chitonthozo mnyumba. Mwamuna aliyense amafuna kuti abwere kumeneko, komwe mkazi wachikondi akumuyembekezera, m'nyumba yotentha, ndi chakudya chamadzulo chofunda. Kodi chimachitika ndi chiani? Mnyamata akubwera kunyumba, patsogolo pa iye amakhala mkazi wozunzidwa, wosakwiya, nyumba yonse yabalalika, chakudya chamadzulo sichidzaphulika. Atopa amakhala pansi, ndipo panthawiyi padaliponso mavuto ambiri ochokera m'maina a mkazi wake. Kodi munthu amachitika chiyani pamutu pakadali pano? Nthawi zonse akazizikira kufuna kubwera kunyumba, ndipo nthawi zonse amayamba kufunafuna zifukwa zokhala ndi ntchito. Tsoka ilo, ndikudziwa mabanja ambiri otere, ndipo ndizachisoni kwambiri. I, akazi, kuyenera kukhala anzeru pang'ono, yesaninso kukambirana za mavutowo patebulo lamadzulo. Kumanani ndi munthu wanu ndikumwetulira pankhope panu, nenani za chinthu chosangalatsa. Mukhale kwa iye chifukwa chosangalalira, dzuwa lomwe lili pachithunzichi ndikuti munthu wanu akufuna kubwerera kwawo komwe amakhala bwino komanso omasuka.
7. Kuyandikira. Atsikana, anthu ogonana okwatirana amatenga mbali yofunika kwambiri. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zokopa kwa bambo wanu, musadzikane mu zovala zokongola, chitani zonse kuti mudziyang'anire pagalasi ndipo mwaona msungwana wosangalatsa mkati mwake. Sindikulankhula za miyezo iliyonse ya kukongola, komwe muyenera kukhala 90-60-90, wokhala ndi tsitsi lalitali kwambiri, ndi ma eyelas angwiro ndi nsidze. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti mwadzikonda. Kenako pafupi ndi munthu wanu mudzakhala wolimba mtima ndikumasulidwa. Adzamva bwino ndipo adzazindikira.
Awa ndi mphindi zazikulu, powona zomwe mungakulitse ubale wanu kuchokera ku zomwe mumakonda kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wanu. Ndikukhulupirira kuti nkhani yanga inali yothandiza kwa inu. Sangalalani!