Pokhudzana ndi kulibe mtsogoleri komanso akapolo, mwina nthawi yomwe simudzakhala omasuka kukhala ndi munthu yemwe samakuonani monga wofanana kapena wotsika. Kuti mukhale odziyimira pawokha komanso nthawi yomweyo, aliyense ayenera kupanga mawonekedwe ake padziko lapansi - si nthawi zonse kumakhala nthawi yaunyamata. Akuluakulu ambiri amakhala ndi malingaliro awo pazinthu zofunika kwambiri ndipo alibe chidwi ndi zomwe mnzake akuganiza za izi. Akuganiza kuti muthane ndi vutoli, kusintha mwanjira yachikhalidwe.
Lankhulani za zinthu zofunika
Mukudziwa mbiri ya wokondedwa wanu - momwe adakulira, adaphunzira kusukulu ndi kuyunivesite, zomwe sizinapulumuke komanso zopambana zomwe zidapulumuka? Anthu ambiri ali ndi zolankhula zokwanira za zovuta zapakhomo ndikukambirana mapulani a tsikulo kuti ayake Mafunso "polumikizirana" ndi kulumikizana. Tidalemba nkhani yomwe ili ndi mndandanda wazazinthu zofunika kuti mukambirana nkhani - pezani pano ndikuwayankha ndi mnzake kuti amvetsetse anthu ofanana kapena osiyana. Dziwani izi ndikugwira magombe ndiofunikira osachepera kuti muyang'ane wokondedwa wanu ndikumvetsetsa kuti ndikofunikira kwa iye m'moyo komanso ngati zolinga zake ndi zomwe mwagwirizana nazo.
zindikirani wina ndi mnzake pazokambirana
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Gwirani ntchito ndi kudzidalira
Kodi mikangano imathetsa bwanji anthu omwe ali ndi psyche yathanzi? Samabweretsa kwambiri, kudzilola kufuula aliyense, komanso kupereka mwakachetechete kunena za zomwe akuvutitsa. Kodi anthu amachita chiyani ndi mavuto oonekeratu? Akuyesera kubweretsa mkangano, kuthetsa nkhawa chifukwa cha kulira, kufalitsa zinthu, kuwopseza ndi zinthu zina zomwe zimawonetsa chipwirikiti chawo. Kudziwunika ndi chinthu chofunikira: munthu wathanzi akuwoneka kuti "ndimalemekeza malire anga, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ndimakulemekezani ndi malire anu." Mukakhutira ndi moyo wanga, kwa anthu ena mwakonzedwa bwino, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti amawalandira ndikumvetsetsa kuti akhoza kukhala osiyana ndi inu.
Osatseka zozungulira zanu
Mukakhala ndi anzanu omwe mungakhale nawo, masomphenya adziko lapansi adzayamba kukhala. Mumvetsetsa kuti tonsefe ndife osiyana - aliyense ali ndi mbiri yawo ndipo moyo amapezeka, kuti tipereke izi, ndikuyang'ana munthu, nthawi zina ndizosatheka. Mchitidwe wolumikizana ndi anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana, zaka zachiwerewere, zigawo, zofanana ndi zina zimakuthandizani kusiya zoyembekezera. Mukumvetsa kuti anthu onse ali ndi ufulu kufooka, zolakwitsa ndi zolakwa, ndipo nthawi yomweyo ali ndi ufulu wolakwitsa ndikukumana nazo popanda kutenga nawo mbali popanda kutenga nawo mbali popanda kutenga nawo mbali popanda kutenga nawo mbali popanda kutenga nawo mbali popanda kutenga nawo mbali popanda kutenga nawo mbali. Kuphunzira za mbiri ya ena, kumakhala kosavuta kumvetsetsa wokondedwayo ndikudzifotokozera nokha kuposa zomwe amachita.
khalani patali nthawi zina zothandiza
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Samalani moyo wanu
Kugwa mchikondi ndi munthu, motero ndikufuna zitseko mwa iye mizu ndikumangirira, koma osathamangira kukachita. M'dziko lathu tsopano akusunthira lingaliro lathanzi kuti okwatirana sayenera kusokoneza malo ena - phunzirani izi. Aliyense wa inu ayenera kukhala ndi makalasi awo, ndikofunikira ku ofesi inayake mu nyumbayo ndi mwayi wopita kutchuthi pawokha kapena ndi abwenzi. Kukhala patali, mutha kuyang'ana ubale kuchokera kumbali ndikuwunika kuti mukukumana ndi munthu. Kuphatikiza apo, zosangalatsa zosiyanasiyana komanso madera olimbitsa zinthu zimakupatsani mwayi wopeza chidziwitso chomwe chitha kusinthidwa wina ndi mnzake osati kutopa. Osati pa VV Otsutsa TV Tranints Tina Kandelaki akuti "munthu waman amapereka chidziwitso" - mawu abwino kwambiri.