Akatswiri azamisala amalangiza kuti asadziyanjane ndi mnzawo - ali ndi malingaliro awo, muli ndi zawo. Komabe, zochitika za banja zimawonetsa kuti mabanja ambiri ali ovuta kuwasiyanitsane ndi wina ndi mnzake, osakhumudwitsidwa mwachitsanzo, mwachitsanzo, pamene mwamuna kapena mkazi akabwera chifukwa chongonena zoyipa ndikuyamba kunena zonena zopanda pake. Kuyesa kusokoneza kolakwika nthawi ndi nthawi sikwachilendo, koma nthawi zina munthu amene mumamukonda akhoza kusuntha nkhope - ndikofunikira kuti musalembe kutopa, koma kuti mumuthandize kuthana ndi vutoli ndi chidwi chake chovomereza ndikuchithetsa.
"Kodi waona abwana anu? Olemera, masewera - ndani sangakonde chikondi? "
Nsanje yambiri idawononga mgwirizano umodzi. Choyambitsa chachikulu cha vutoli ndi kudziyesa kotsika kwa munthu, kapena zomwe mwakumana nazo pakupanga maubale. Ngakhale mnzakeyo atakuwuzani za kuperekedwa kwa okondedwa okondedwa, simuyeneranong'oneza bondo ndikudyetsa nkhawa. Zomwe sizimachitika kwa anthu, koma mavuto ayenera kuyanjana: Mutha kuphunziranso kudaliranso komanso kusiya kuwongolera chifukwa chotonthoza ambiri. Ngakhale bambo sakuyesa kukugwirani mlandu, kusakhutira kwake ndi iyenso kumanenanso zambiri ndipo kumafuna kugwira ntchito modzidalira.
Nsanje kwa amuna ozungulira si chisonyezo cha chikondi, koma psyche matenda
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"Onani izi - mantha zomwe zikuchitika!"
Kutha kuona zinthuzo ndikuchilandirani pano, ndikuwona malamulo onse olimbikitsidwa, ndikofunikira kusunga thanzi. Mliri wapano womwe umawonetsa momwe anthu angati amadalira zinthu zosalimbikitsa ndikudyetsa. Musakane kuti media imatenthedwa ndi omvera kuti azipereka chidwi cha omvera, kupereka lipoti la "nkhani yachangu" ndi "mayankho omaliza a asayansi", koma palibe zomwe zili pamutuwu ngati izi - yankho la chidwi cha anthu. Ndi chinthu chimodzi ngati vutoli likukhudzana nanu, motero mukukakamizidwa kudziwa za nkhaniyi ndikuyankhira. Koma kuwerenga nkhani m'magulu onse ndikuwopseza mnzanu mukamagwira ntchito kunyumba ndikuyitanitsa chakudya - nawonso.
"Ndili ndi zaka 30, ndi nthawi yovomereza kuti ndine wotayika"
Sitingafunse funso la chifukwa chomwe mwasankha munthu yemwe amadziona kuti ali m'malo opanda kanthu - ndiye vuto lanu la gawo la "osusira" omwe muyenera kusankha muofesi ya adotolo. Komabe, mawu oterewa, monga pamwambapa, nthawi zambiri amapezeka mu chikhalidwe cha Russia, komwe, malinga ndi anthu, mwina mwakhala mukugwira ntchito kwa ma tonal. Phunzirani pa chitsanzo cha Europe, pomwe ambiri amangotanthauzidwa ndi ntchitoyi ndikuyamba ntchito. Akatswiri azamankhwala azikuuzani okondedwa anu kuti simukufuna kudziyerekeza ndi ena onse, koma ndikofunikira kudziyesa nokha pazolinga zanga.
Mavuto ambiri amachokera ku ubwana wa mwamuna, koma nthawi zina amawachotsa pa zikwangwani
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"Sindinakonde Makolo Anga"
Pali zowona zake zomwe zimatsimikizira kusasamala kwa makolo kulera mwana - nkhanza zapabanja, kusintha kwa zosowa zoyambirira, kusintha udindo wa kholo lomwe lili ndi agogo ndi otero. Koma nthawi zambiri, anthu amadandaula za akulu popanda chifukwa, kuyesera kumasulira nkhawa zawo za tsoka losatheka. Ena amatsutsa makolo kuti sanawagwiritse ntchito kuti akaphunzire, pomwepo amakhoza kupita ku yunivesite kwaulere. China chake zikuwoneka kuti abale ndi alongo achichepere amakonda kwambiri - izi sizowona. Maphunziro a katswiri wazamisalayo amafotokozera munthu momwe angalipirire, kuti azindikire udindo pamoyo wake ndikukhululukira akulu ngati amalola zolakwa.