Ndili ndi ana asanu: ana amuna 15 ndi zaka 12, mwana wamkazi wazaka 10 ndi mapasa, mwana wamwamuna ndi wamkazi, yemwe ndi zaka 4. Mnzanga wa moyo wa Julia alinso ndi ana aakazi awiri (zaka 16), motero kwa awiri tili ndi ana asanu ndi awiri. Ndipo kusiyana pakati pa m'badwo wa iwo ndikofunikira.
Kwa zaka zambiri, dziko la dziko lapansi likusintha, malingaliro ake ndi zosowa zake. Ndipo zidzawonekere kuti mukuleredwa. Njira yakufika kwa woyamba ndipo wachichepere sangakhale wofanana, chifukwa munthu amafunikira ufulu, mwayi wofotokoza bwino, upangiri wofunika, kuteteza, thandizo, thandizo, thandizo, ndi chitetezo.
Ndipo mwana aliyense, ngakhale ali ndi zaka, ali ndi mawonekedwe ake a chikhalidwe, chomwe sichiyenera kufotokozedwanso. Wina wodziyimira payekha kuyambira ali mwana, ndipo wina ngakhale zaka 20 ndikofunikira kuvomerezedwa. Inde, maphunziro ali ndi chitsogozo chake, ndipo popita nthawi chilichonse chimasintha. Koma muyenera kumvetsetsa: Mwana aliyense amakhala payekha, komanso ntchito ya makolo ndikusankha kiyi yanu, kulumikizana ndi maphunziro.
Langizo: Pakuphunzitsidwa bwino, njira yolinganirana ndi zosowa za mwana aliyense ndizofunikira.
Michael Yak imadzutsa awiri ndi mkazi wake ana ake asanu ndi awiri
Njira Zokwezera M'banja Lalikulu
Ngakhale ndandanda yopsinjika, ndimafotokoza bwino nthawi yolankhulirana ndi ana. Tikukhala m'mizinda yosiyanasiyana, motero ndimawulukira kwa iwo sabata iliyonse. Ndipo inenso ndimagwiritsa ntchito tchuthi chanu ndi banja lanu. Osati kokha ndi ana onse pamodzi, komanso payokha. Mwachitsanzo, chaka chatha, tinapita kukafika ku Kiev, New York ndi Orlando ndi mwana wamwamuna wamkulu, adasewera m'mapaki a Florida a Florida. Chaka chino timakonzekera ulendo wofanana ndi mwana wamwamuna wachiwiri, Stepan, ndipo palimodzi sankhani komwe angapite. Koma izi si chifukwa choti ndimakonda ana okalamba - m'banja lathu, sikuti amavomerezedwa kuti agawire munthu kwa ana. Komabe, akudziwa kuti ndimakondwera kuwapatsa nthawi osati aliyense payekha, koma aliyense payekhapayekha. Njira yayikulu yoleredwera m'banja lalikulu ndi chikondi cholimba.
Inde, ana ochulukirapo, amakayikira kwambiri pakati pa iwo. Chifukwa chake, tili ndi zikhalidwe - zochitika zolumikizana pamene banja lonse likugwirizana. Awa ndi okwanira Sabata, kampeni ya sinema kapena kuyamwa. Kumapeto kwa sabata, nthawi zambiri timasankha kuyenda paki, mahatchi kapena mahatchi, kupita kokayenda.
Koma chisamaliro sichiyenera kukhala chakumapeto kwa sabata - ndikofunikira kuti Atate amatenga mbali patsiku la tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndinkawathamangitsa mu Kingrnarten, adayendera Matrennikov ndi mpikisano ndipo ngakhale adatenga nawo mbali pazojambula. Kusukulu ya pulaimale, sindinali bambo okha okhako omwe sanaphonyere pamsonkhano uliwonse. Ngakhale zili choncho kuposa lamulo - nthawi zambiri amabwera abambo kubwera kusukulu yovala zopweteka, zomwe iwo munjira iliyonse angapewe. Koma ndikofunikira - kudziwa zomwe ana anu amakhala, kodi ali ndi zovuta komanso zovuta pophunzira kapena kuyankhulana. Ndi zabwino kwambiri kudziwa za zomwe akwanitsa kuchita ndi kupambana kwawo!
Langizo: Kuphatikiza pa nthawi yocheza ndi ana onse pamodzi, muyenera kupeza mwayi wokhala ndi mwana aliyense yekha. Ana ayenera kudziwa tanthauzo lawo m'moyo wanu, ndipo njira yabwino kwambiri yosonyezera ndikumvetsetsa kuti ndinu okonzeka kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu.
Kugawana Makolo: Momwe Mungathandizire Ana Apulumuka Pabongo
M'moyo wanga panali zochitika zovuta - mkazi wanga ndi mkazi wanga (omwe kale anali) adasankha. Sanakhale wopanda mikangano, kukhumudwitsa ndi kumakwiyitsa, ndipo ana athu anakumana ndi zowawa kwambiri. Komabe, tinatha kunyalanyaza pa nthawi, ndikulimbana ndi malingaliro osalimbikitsa ndikukhazikitsa kulumikizana kwabwino. Chifukwa chakuti anayang'ana kwambiri chinthu chachikulu: Atasiya kukhala mwamuna ndi mkazi, tinakhalabe bambo ndi amayi. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti tidzakhala anthu achikhalidwe kwamuyaya.
Tsopano ana anga kuchokera kwa omwe kale anali mkazi wakale ndi waposachedwa amafotokozedwa bwino - monga mwana, anyamatawa ndi osavuta kupeza chilankhulo choposa achikulire. Palibe udani kapena kukangana pakati pawo, ichi ndi koyankhulana kwa anthu. Amamvetsetsa kuti tonsefe ndife nzika, ndipo ndizodabwitsa kuti pa tchuthi titha kulumikizana ndi tebulo wamba, kucheza ndi zinthu zosangalatsa, kuti tisangalale ndi mavuto ena. Ndipo tonse timabweretsanso zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa komanso zolumala.
Langizo: Ngakhale utatha chisudzulo, makolo ayenera kuyesa kukhazikitsa kulankhulana mwachikondi komanso mwamtendere. Chibwenzi chokhazikika pakati pa amayi ndi abambo adformate komanso chidaliro mwa ana. Masamba owala kwambiri, ndipo zimathandiza kupewa kuvulala kwa ana.
Unyamata ndi Kudzikumbukira: Kodi ndizotheka kukhala wopambana pachilichonse
Zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti sizotheka, komanso zofunika - ndi inu, ndi ana anu. Choyamba, mbali ya nkhaniyo ndi yofunika, chifukwa banja lalikulu ndi udindo waukulu. Ana ayenera kukhala ndi ndalama zolimba kuti aphunzire bwino ndikuyamba m'moyo. Ndipo chifukwa cha izi mufuna kugwira ntchito kwambiri komanso kugwira ntchito bwino. Kachiwiri, chidaliro chakuti moyo ukalamba umaperekedwa kwa inu chidzawakhudza ana. Amawalimbikitsa chikhulupiriro mwa inu komanso mwamphamvu, ndipo mwa mwayi wawo.
Koma koposa zonse - zimapereka malingaliro ndi zokumana nazo zapadera. Sindinakhalepo ndi chisangalalo chotere pamene ana anga akundikumbatira. Izi zimawonetsedwa mu nyimbo, ndipo pazaka 40 zachikale, oyenda ndi bambo akulu ndi bambo akulu a Michael Yak adakhala woimba. Nyimbo zanga zimakonda omvera, ndipo ndine wokondwa kuti zokumana nazo zomwe ndakumana nazo m'malemba anga ndizomveka komanso pafupi kwambiri ndi anthu ambiri.
Langizo: Ndikofunikira kukhazikitsa zomwe mungathe, chifukwa anawo atenga chitsanzo ndi inu. Ziribe kanthu momwe zilili zovuta kusunga malire, yesetsani kuti musachoke kuntchito, komanso musasungunuke mwa ana. Afunika kuchita bwino, amene anachitika, omwe adzakhala chithunzi chabwino.