Posachedwa ndidabwera kwa ine zilembo zochepa ndi mafunso omwewo komanso pafupifupi maloto omwewo.
Makalatawa ochokera kwa akazi achichepere okwatirana, ndi ana aang'ono, okhutira ndi mawonekedwe awo, ndipo koposa zonse - kukonda amuna awo. Koma malotowo amawululidwa ndi zikhumbo zachinsinsi. Choyamba, choyambirira, kuchokera kwa iwo eni.
Ndipo izi ndi zomwe maloto:
"Kuyambira usiku uno ndinayeretsa makalata. Kuyambira posachedwa ndinakwatirana, ndinasankha kuti ndikhale ndi zambiri kuti ndisungire makalata ndi omwe amakonda kale komanso mafani. Madzulo, ndidachotsa chilichonse kuyambira makalata, ndipo usiku ndimalota kuti ndimagonana ndi ena mwa "wakale", ndipo ndili ndi mwamuna! "Ndidzuka Ndi malingaliro oyipa ndi malingaliro omwe ine sindingaganize kuti ndimakhala ndi izi ngati sanali maloto, koma yawll. "
Ndipo loto la mkazi wina: "M'maloto, ndikumanenso ndi wokondedwa wanga wakale. Ndipo ngakhale lingaliro loti ndinali wokwatiwa ndipo ndikufuna kukhalabe mwamuna wokhulupirika, sindinandiletse. Ndimakondwera ndi zomwe kale ndinali kumva kuti sindimamva pachiyambi ndi mwamuna wanga. Ndimadzuka ndili ndi vuto lathunthu, popeza sindinakumbukire zakale zanga zaka zambiri, ndipo sindinalingalire zokumana naye pambuyo poti gawo lopweteka. "
Zachidziwikire, imaimbidwa mlandu mosavuta kusintha amayi mobisa kuti asinthe amuna awo, ndipo lingaliro lamisala ndilotalika ndi amuna awo, malingaliro onena za amuna ena akuthyola maloto.
Koma si zonse zomwe zili zodziwikiratu, ngakhale kuti njira imeneyi ikhoza kukhala yokhulupirika.
Pa ukwati, maubwenzi awiriwa amakumana ndi magawo osiyanasiyana. Nthawi ya buku lozama, euphoria, zachikondi, monga lamulo, chimatha ukwati usanachitike. Panthawi ya nkhondo yoyamba, awiriwa akukumana ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana, chikondi, zochulukirapo. Nthawi zambiri amakumbukira kuti kugonana ndi chitsutso chachikulu.
Moyo wolumikizana usanamera wa ana umatchedwa gawo la seaband. Kuphatikiza pa chisangalalo kuchokera kwa olumikizana, pakadali pano omwe banjali aphunzira kuyanjana, amapanga miyambo yolumikizana, malamulo, miyambo ya moyo wabanja. Ngati zomwe adakumana nazo m'mbuyomu m'mabanja a makolo kapena omwe kale anali nawo zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana, ndiye kuti gawo ili lingachitike mwankhanza, ndi chibwibwi, ndi zowonera zomwe zili mnyumba yanyumba. Kenako mkuntho wamphamvu wodziwa kwambiri ndi chikondi umasunthira kumbuyo. Okwatirana amawonetsa kwa wina ndi mnzake osati mtundu wawo wabwino kwambiri, komanso kuwonetsa njira zawo zankhondo ndi njira zothetsera mikangano. Izi zikamaliza, awiriwo amatulutsa maziko ophatikizika ndi malamulo, nthawi zambiri 3 sitayamba. Ino ndi nthawi ya thiads - ndiye kuti, mawonekedwe a oyamba kubadwa. Kulera kumawonjezedwanso ndi mgwirizano wawo, kumatenga nthawi zonse zomwe anali nazo pamaso panu. Chikondi ndi kukhudzidwa ndi zokumbukira zambiri zokha.
Koma kulakalaka mayiko amenewa, kufunitsitsa kuwulula chimphepo. Palibe nthawi yolota, koma pali njira yopulumutsira - iyi ndi loto. Dziwani zambiri mosamala zimasankha chinthu chomwe ntchito zonse zolakwika, maloto osavomerezeka komanso malingaliro athu, chifukwa ngwazi zathu ndizowala, zamphamvu zowala.
M'malo mwake, amalimbikitsa kuti m'moyo wawo watsiku ndi tsiku, wodetsa nkhawa za ana, moyo wolumikizana, kulibe malo osanthula, kulibe malo omvereranso mayi wina yemwe akufuna. Chifukwa chake, chikondwerero chonse chimabuka kugona. Ndikotheka kuti ngwazi zathu zazindikira za amuna awo omwe ali pachiwopsezo amapita kumbali, chifukwa m'maloto ndi kuwona omwe anali wokondedwa wawo, ali pachibwenzi pomwepo (koma palibe chilichonse kupatula iye).
Maloto athu amangoperekedwa kuti abweretse kukhudzidwa mu maukwati omwe ali nawo paukwati. Sapita kulikonse, pokhapokha ngati kaya amatumizidwa m'makona amdima a mzimu. Kuphatikiza apo, ayenera kufufuzidwa pamene akugwirizana ndi amuna awo: ngakhale sakumba kuti asunge malingaliro ndi kusilira - osati momwe adakonzera? Kafukufuku amenewa adzawapatsa mwayi wobwereza mtsinje watsopano womwe umalumikizana ndi anthu awo apamtima.
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin