Ngati ndimakonda kunena nkhani zambiri, lero ndikufuna kunena za kuzindikira kwanga pantchito. Sabata yatha ndidachita chofufuzira cha chipinda cha mtsikana wokhala ndi mawonekedwe ovuta kwambiri. Inali yosakanikirana yoyang'anizana - yodziwika bwino yokhala ndi nsanjika, mizere ya nkhope - molunjika komanso momveka bwino, utoto - kuzizira koyera. Chithunzi chake chinali ntchito yofananira komanso yosangalatsa kwambiri, ndidanenanso za izi ndikuthokoza kuti anditembenukira kwa ine. Ndidayesa kufotokozera kusagwirizana kwake ndi zovuta zomwe zimachitika m'mawu opanga, pomwe ndikusiya mawonekedwe omveka, ndikuwonetsa kusokonekera kwa ana ndikuthandizira kuwala komanso nthawi yomweyo mithunzi. Maola angapo pambuyo pa msonkhano wokhala ndi chifaniziro cha L. Adalembera ine kuti akumva zomwe ndimamuuza, ndikutsimikiza kuti izi zimatsindika kwambiri chilengedwe chake - chomwe ndi chake Mphamvu.
Chifukwa chake, adasokoneza zovala, tidapeza kuti ngati akumvetsetsa kuti ndikofunikira kusankha, ndiye kuti zida zonse nthawi zonse zimayesedwa kukokera. Amavala nsapato zolemera, zokongoletsera zazikulu, kusenda ma rims zikuluzikulu zamagalasi, mawu, adachita chilichonse kuti awonjezere kulemera kwawo. Inde, tsopano zonse ndizofanaza kuyankhana ndi zolaula, komanso zachilengedwe ndizoyenera kwa aliyense. L. Kuchokera kwa amayi awa omwe akuwonetsedwa oyera, zovala zokongola, zokongoletsera zomwezo, chilichonse chikuyenera kusankhidwa ndi kukoma kwakukulu.
Popeza ntchito yanga imangotanthauza kusintha kwakunja, komanso psycho-malingaliro, ndidamufunsa funsoli - zomwe amachita, ndikudzitenga zokambirana. Yankho lakelo linali lowonekeratu kuchokera kumbali ndikutha kwathunthu kwa L. iye anati: "Nthawi zonse ndakhala ndikungokhala kumene, sindimatha kukhazikika pomwepo, ndimatha kuthyoka pakati pausiku muulendo wovuta, ndipo tsopano ndili Banja - Mwamuna, mwana wamkazi, sindingakwanitse ndekha. Chifukwa chake ndimayesetsa kupitiriza "padziko lapansi", musauluka. Ndipo tsopano ndinazindikira kuti kutopa kwanga kosalekeza kunachitika chifukwa chakuti sindinalole kuti ine ndisamayembekezerena, zomwe zimachitika kwambiri, komanso mwana akhoza kuvulazidwa. "
Chifukwa chake, adasokoneza zovala, tidatha kuthetsa funso la kutopa kwathunthu. Chinthu chachikulu pakali pano ndi nthawi komanso ndendende funso loperekedwa. Chifukwa chiyani mukufunikira izi? Kodi mumafunira chiyani?
Ndiye kodi kuzindikira ndi chiyani?
Ndikudzimvera ndekha ndikutsatira matupi anu, mawonekedwe, ndi zosowa zanu - motero mutha kupanga gawo la ntchito, kuti mukhale ndi moyo wonse. Ndipo zovala mu Ili ndi chida chachikulu, icho, ngati pepala lactanium, limawonetsa kuti ndi gawo liti komanso njira yomwe ilipo.
Mverani nokha, malingaliro anu sanama.
Mwa njira, pempho langa posankha zovala zilizonse zimamveka mosiyana - kumva kukhala kosavuta kukhala kosavuta. Mwachilengedwe, munjira. Koma kuyesera kuvala madiresi oyenda ndi zidendene, ndinalandira zosemphana. Ndipo pokhapokha mutangophunzira, kuyamba kusankha nsalu zambiri zowoneka, nsapato, masitaelo, kukula kwa miyala ikuluikulu, ndikupsa mtima kwambiri!
Karina Efimova, katswiri pa chilengedwe cha zovala zachikazi