Palibe chinsinsi kuti chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri za ubale womwe umagwirizana ndikudalira. Ndipo zimatengera mmodzi wa halves kuti ayambe kukayikira wokondedwa wake, ngakhale kumverera kovuta sikungakugwireni kwa nthawi yayitali. Akatswiri amisala amakhulupirira kuti abambo ndizovuta kwambiri kupirira malingaliro okayikira kwa wokondedwa wawo, chifukwa chake munthu wansanje wa nsanje amathamanga amathamangira mabino otchuka. Komanso zimachitika zimachitika kuti wokondedwa sadziwa kuti akuchita ndi gulu lachiwiri la nsanje, nthawi zambiri amayamba kuchita zinthu zoipa, koma sizili choncho. Tinaganiza zolingalira zizindikiro zonena za kutaya mtima kwamwambo.
Mnzanu amayamba kuwongolera moyo wanu
NJIRA ZISANKHO LAKUKHUDZA MOYO WAKO ZINSINSI ZOCHULUKA ZONSE ZAKULAMBIRA. Onetsetsani kuti foni yanu, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti komanso matumba amatsimikiziridwa ndi wokondedwa kangapo. Kuphatikiza apo, anthu onse omwe amalowa zoyankhulirana zanu ayenera "kuvomerezedwa ndi theka lachiwiri, ndipo nthawi zambiri mnzanuyo amakhazikitsa malire a kulumikizana kwanu ndi anthu ena. Munthu amayesa kuchita chilichonse kuti omwe ali ndi gulu lanu omwe ali ndi gulu lanu, chifukwa anthu akakhala osakwanira, ndizosavuta kuzilamulira. Odziwa?
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Wokondedwa nthawi zonse amadziwa komwe inu
Njira ina yowongolera, yomwe imawonedwa ndi ansanje, monga amakuganizirani. Zimakhala zoseketsa: Amafuna kuti mumuuze njira yanu ya tsiku lazinthu zonse. Kuphatikiza apo, khalani okonzeka kuyitanitsa mphindi makumi awiri aliwonse, ndipo ngati mungatenge foni, Zovuta ndizosapeweka. Pomvetsetsa kwake, muyenera kukhala kulumikizana.
Kugonana mokwanira pazomwe mumachita
Amatsatira bwino kuchokera patsamba lakale. Ngati mnzake alephera kukufikirani, simudzamufotokozera chifukwa chomwe zidachitika, zomwe zidachitika kale: "Adazindikira kale." Kunyalanyaza "chisamaliro" chotere, kukwiya kwa kusinthidwa kwake kuli ngati kunyoza iyemwini ndikubwera ku mfundo yoti theka lomwe likuimbidwa mlandu ndi woweta. Ngati mutu wake muli "moperewera", palibe chifukwa chomwe chingakuthandizeni, chifukwa vuto la nsanje limangopeka kwambiri.
Mnzake amayang'anira zofunikira
Monga tazindikira kale, njira zazikulu za wansanje - kuwongolera ndi kukakamizidwa. Ndikofunika kuti akudzisizani kuti musayansi mwa kusakhulupirika, mnzakeyo ayamba kunena, ndipo m'malo mwa anthu onse, pakuchotsa munthu yemwe amawaganizira kuti alibe vuto lanu. Zimafunikira kusintha kwa nambala yafoni, kulankhulana ndi bambo mwa mawonekedwe osawoneka, ndipo nthawi zambiri zimachitika osati ndi abwenzi okha, koma ngakhale banja lanu zokha, koma ngakhale banja: Mfusa zomwe zingayesetse kudula anzanu komanso abale apamtima, ngati amawona Kuti sizikukhudzani bwanji momwe angafunire. Pakadali pano, ndikofunikira kuwonetsa kulimba mtima kosatha, kumbukirani, ngati munthu amvetsetsa kuti mumalowerera mosavuta ndi kupukusa zofuna zake. Musaganize kuti munthu azikonza, monga lamulo, sizichitika. Mukangomvetsa kuti ubalewo wasiya kubweretsa chisangalalo kwa wokondedwa wanu, lingalirani ngati mukufuna "zolimbitsa".