Olga Aristova ndi opepuka kwa nyenyezi zopambana komanso wamisala, yemwe akhala akukhala m'maiko awiri kwazaka zambiri: ku Russia ndi ku Italy. Olga amafufuza anthu osiyanasiyana omwe ali ndi vuto lake lofunikira kwambiri. Pakati pa makasitomala ake, anthu wamba omwe akufuna kusintha umunthu wotchuka komanso wotchuka. Ngakhale kuti Olga ndi achichepere mokwanira, mayankho ake ku mafunso ovuta komanso ophunzitsidwa amasiyanitsidwa ndi nzeru, kuzindikira kwakukulu ndikuzindikira.
- Olga, ndizotheka kunena kuti zotsatira za akatswiri ndi moyo wabwino zimatengera kuphunzira kwa khadi yake? Ndipo ngati mukuwona mwayi wocheperako, kodi mumati kasitomala zoona zonse?
"Ndikapanga khadi yamakasitomala, ndikuwona kuthekera kwa munthu aliyense komanso kulankhulana kwanu, ndimawerenga mphamvu zambiri.
Munthu akhoza kunena chilichonse, koma sindikumvera mawu, koma ndikuwerenga tanthauzo lake komanso zinthu zambiri zimawerengera pakati pa mizere. Munthu pamsonkhano womwe ndimalankhula zonse, openda nyenyezi ena sakugwirizana, kuopa kuvulaza kasitomala, koma sikulakwa. Muyenera kupewa zambiri kuti musachite mantha, koma mumveke. Ndinali ndi kasitomala m'modzi yemwe sakanabereka mwana kwa zaka zambiri, chifukwa anali wovuta. Anandipempha kuti ndidziwe za nthawi yabwino chifukwa cha kutenga pakati. Ine ndinayang'ana pamapu ake ndipo ndinawona kuti gulu losafunikira, lomwe linali m'manja mwa mapulaneti awo, idzakhalitsa kwakanthawi. Ndakupangirani kuti mudikire ndi pakati. Koma sanafune kuti andimvere, akuumirira. Pankhaniyi, ndinachenjeza kuti ngati samvera uphungu wanga, mikhalidwe yofananayo imatha kumuchitira. Pakufunsana, ndimakhala ndikugwira ntchito ngati map, ndimaona kuti ndi zinthu zabwino zonse, ndikunena zonse monga ziliri, ndipo ndikhulupirira kuti munthu andimvera.
- Ngati mukuwona kuti pali zinthu zina zomwe sizili zachilendo kwa munthu, koma amafunadi kuzikwaniritsa. Mwachitsanzo, mtsikanayo akufuna kukhala wochita sewero, koma akuwona kuti palibe kudziwikiratu m'mapu. Kodi mumaletsa bwanji chidziwitso?
- Ngati ine ndikufotokoza mapu oyambira akubadwe a zinthu zakuthambo zomwe amachita ndi maloto opanda pake ndipo mtsikanayo sanapatsidwe mlandu, ndiye kuti uku sikutanthauza kuti uku si kuwatsogolera. Ndiyenera kudya kusiyanitsa kuti musalimbikitse kasitomala. Koma pobwerera ndikulimbikitsa kuti: "Mutha kukhala opambana kwambiri ngati, mwachitsanzo, mudzavina kapena kuchita zinthu zina za zolengedwa zina. Ndipo tsopano tiwona zofunika kwambiri komwe mungakwaniritse mwachangu. " Kapena, mwachitsanzo, woimbayo wina adandifunsa za tsiku la nyimbo, ndidawona kuti tsiku lino linali losavomerezeka ndipo adalangiza kuti asunthire ku nambala ina. Koma woimbayo sanamvere ine ndipo anagwiritsa ntchito zomwe zinachitika.
Anakhala nthawi yochulukirapo komanso mphamvu, adapanga konsatiyo ndi mphamvu zotereyi amakhala ndi mphamvu kuti ayambe kuchira. M'tsogolomu, adagwirizana ndi ine kuti lingaliro loti agwiritse ntchito kanemayo linali cholakwika, adafotokozedwa kuti amadandaula ndi nthawi khumi kuti sanamvere khonsolo. Sindikumvera chikumbumtima chifukwa choti ndimalankhula kwa makasitomala anga moona mtima ndikukhala ndi chiyembekezo cha munthu. Kupatula apo, wodwala akabwera kwa adotolo, ndipo adotolo amapeza matenda enaake, kodi akuyenera kumva chisoni? Ayenera kupeza yankho la momwe angachiritsire ku matendawa. Komanso zokambirana zanga. Ndine wozindikira zomwe zimapeza njira, ndipo ziribe kanthu kuti zinthu zili bwanji pa moyo wawomba kaya zimakhudza ntchito, maubale, bizinesi kapena karma.
- Ndi mafunso ati omwe nthawi zambiri amafunsa?
- Mutu wothandiza nthawi zonse umakhala wofunika kwambiri. Anthu akufuna kudziwa mtundu wa mnzake ndi woyenera, momwe angakhazikitsire ubale wogwirizana, womwe mnzake amapatsidwa kwa inu, za chiyembekezo cha ubale.
- Zimachitika zimachitika kuti mayiyo athe kucheza ndi mnzake, ndipo posakhalitsa amakumana ndi zatsopano, koma zofanana ndi zomwe wakale amachita zovuta zomwezi. Chifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika?
- Izi zikuchitika chifukwa sizinagwiritsidwe ntchito pamoyo zambiri, sanaphunzirepo kanthu. Mkazi uyu akuwoneka ngati njira ziwiri, adapulumuka pamaphunziro. Omwe timawakonda nthawi zambiri amawonetsa mawonekedwe athu omwe ali ndi nkhawa komanso omwe timasamala. Mapasa ochokera ku maphunzirowa adathawa, koma pambuyo pake ma squiers onse nthawi zambiri amalangidwa, motero, mophiphiritsa, atsala kuti "chaka chachiwiri", potero amatenganso phunzirolo.
Mu maukwati a karmic mimo muyenera kupereka ngongole mwachangu akangochita, Apeza mnzake wabwino. Chikondi ndi ngongole.
Tikukhala padziko lapansi pano osati mphotho, dziko lapansi ndi sukulu yolemera komwe timachita maphunziro akuluakulu. Mwanjira zina, zingakhale zosavuta, koma apa tikukwanitsa ndikuzisintha.
- Kenako zimapezeka ngati tabwera kudzapereka ngongole, ndiye kuti aliyense azikhala bwino? Koma pali anthu omwe amakhala ndi moyo wachimwemwe.
- Ndikugwirizana ndi inu, pali anthu omwe ali ndi ndalama m'moyo, chabwino, kutchuka, koma tawonani, ali okondwa kwambiri, monga akuwonetsa? Sizikuchitika kuti munthuyo amakhala wodekha komanso wopambana, wopanda kuvutika, wopanda kuzunzika, aliyense ali ndi ntchito yake padziko lapansi.
Sizowona kuti tidabadwa m'banja lina, ndipo sichochitika kuti timapatsa abale athu. Amati makolo sasankhidwa, koma amangosankha. Moyo umakopa Abambo ndi Amayi, ndipo amasankha makolo ake. Nthawi zina awa ndi anthu oyenera komanso okoma mtima, ndipo nthawi zina azilombo enieni. Aliyense ali ndi ntchito zawo za karric. Koma kwinakwake ndikugwirizana ndi inu, muyenera kuyesa kumanga moyo wanga kuti ndikhale ndi moyo momwe mungathere, koma kuti muchite njira yosavuta mothandizidwa ndi chida champhamvu - mamapu opezedwa kwa chida cha nyenyezi.
- Kodi pali mfundo zazikuluzikulu zomwe mumadalira, kugwira ntchito ndi munthu? Ndi ngati makasitomala omwe mumakana?
- Munthu aliyense ali ndi pempho lake, ndimagwira ntchito molingana ndi ntchitozo ndi zopemphazo. Koma asanayambe kugwira ntchito ndi munthu, ndimayang'ana lonjezo loyambirira: momwe akamacheza nawo, monga momwe amagwirizanitsa, ndipo ngati sakugwirizana ndi ine, amatero. Gwirani ntchito pa Horoscope yanu ndi ntchito yolimba. Ndipo upangiri uliwonse munthu ayenera kumva ndi kuzindikira pa nthawi yake. Ndipo ngati munthu sanakonzekere, sindine mfiti yamatsenga, idzayamba kuyimilira, ndipo mapulaneti onse ofunikira adzayatsa nyumba zoyenera. Sindingathe kuti ndikwaniritse katundu wake. Pali zinthu zosayerekezeka zobadwa chifukwa cha kubadwa, chifukwa timabadwa m'banjali, zimanyamula mavuto onse, makamaka, ngati agogo ake amalizidwa m'moyo wake. Mapulogalamu osokoneza bongo omwe m'mapuwo amawonjezeredwa, kujambulidwa kumalephera kuchokera pano. Pamwamba pa zolakwika zolondola, muyenera kudzilimbitsa nokha, palibe worroogyr kwa inu.
- Ndipo ngati munthu sangathe kusintha kena kake m'moyo wake, mwachitsanzo, samvanso mphamvu, ndiye mungakhale bwanji?
- Ngati munthu safuna kusintha kapena kusintha china m'moyo wake - ichi ndi ulesi chabe wa mzimu. Ngakhale kuti mutenge maphunziro achitatu, achitatu, muyenera kudziyesa nokha. Ndipo ambiri sakonda kupsinjika, chifukwa ndi ntchito. Kwenikweni, anthu ambiri ndi misa yosangokhala yomwe siyikonda kuti ali ndi nkhawa. "Musandigwire, ndidzapita kuntchito kuyambira 99 mpaka isanu ndi umodzi, ndikupeza zopekera zanga zisanu ndipo sindingachite chilichonse."
Ngati munthu ali ndi mphamvu zamagetsi zochepa, ndiye kuti zitha kukwezedwa, kuti zipangidwe, tsopano pali zochitika zambiri, yoga, ndikusinkhasinkha, kutengera china chake choyenera, zomwe zikuyenera kuchitidwa . Ngati munthu akufuna kukwaniritsa kena kake, muyenera kuvuta, koma zambiri zochepa kuti mupange ndipo musachite kalikonse. Pali gulu linalake la makasitomala, ndi anthu otere osati kovuta kugwira ntchito, zimakhala zovuta kukhala nawo.
- Ndipo ngati munthu akadaganizabe za kusintha, pazinthu zina, koma mukuwona kuti palibe zinthu zabwino m'mapu, ndiye chiyani?
- Ngati munthu asankha kusintha china m'moyo wake, pali njira zambiri zosinthira tsoka. Izi si zamatsenga, ndi masamu.
Imodzi mwa njira zothandiza - mutha kupeza tsiku lobadwa mumzinda wina kuti ma solari ofunikira amalipiritsa m'nyumba zabwino. Imatsatira mphamvu ya chaka. Ndipo ndikaona izi kwa ma solari, munthu ayenera kuchoka ku dzikolo, chifukwa kusintha kwa mzindawu ngakhale kontinenti kumasintha kwambiri chikondwererochi, ndiye ndimasankha malo abwino kwambiri. Ndimawoneka ngati angachokere kudziko lina kuti amulonjeza malowa, ndiye kuti ndalama ndi zabwino ndi chiyani, ndimafunsa zomwe akufuna kuti asunthe. Zomwe akufuna kusintha m'moyo wake, zomwe zikuyembekezeredwa pakadali pano - ndalama, thanzi, moyo waumwini. Aliyense ali ndi zilako lako zosiyanasiyana. Ndipo zimagwira ntchito nthawi zonse.
Ndi muyenera kupeza mphamvu komanso kulimba mtima kuti musinthe china chake. Mutha kupita kudziko lina kupita kudziko lina, ndikukula kwa intaneti, kupezeka kwa ubongo ndi kugwira ntchito molimbika kumatha kukhala kulikonse. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuyika ntchitoyo pamaso pa opendalir, yomwe mukufuna kuchokera ku moyo, ndikuwerengera zonse molondola.