Zambiri zalembedwa za chikondi. Iye amaphunzitsidwa ndi anthu akuluakulu ndi opambana, anzeru ndi ma bards. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi ndinabwera nati: "Chifukwa chake. Chikondi ndichinthu komanso chimenecho, ndipo kuti chipachipeze, muyenera kutero. " Inde ndi choncho. Ndimakonda kulankhula pamutuwu. Ndipo sichoncho, chifukwa ndimalandira makalata ambiri komanso kuthokoza nthawi zonse kuchokera kwa anthu omwe timayamikira zochitika zanga kapena kungopanga chikondi chawo. Nthawi zina, adazifufuza kapena adapulumutsidwa.
Kukonda akazi kwa munthu kumakhala kochuluka. Mawu atatu akulu:
imodzi. Thupi lokonda . Kufanana, amatchedwa "chikondi". Iye ndi "chikondi poyamba kuwona." Palibe china kupatula zokopa zogonana. Chikondi chotere chimatha mwachangu. Anzake akhoza kutaya chidwi wina ndi mnzake pamwezi.
2. Chikondi . Ili ndi zinthu zambiri. Chofunikira kwambiri ndi ulemu. Lemekezani munthu makamaka chifukwa cha utsogoleri. Kuphatikiza apo, chikondi cha malingaliro chimakhala ndi mikhalidwe ya anthu, mphamvu. Makhalidwe a akazi ngati amenewo ali othokoza, kuvomereza, kumvetsetsa, kumvetsetsa, kukoma mtima, kupsinjika, nthabwala, nthabwala, nthabwala, kumapangitsa kuti ubongo ukhale ndi malingaliro.
3. Chikondi cha uzimu . Itha kufananizidwa ndi chikondi cha makolo. Nthawi zina pamakhala chikondi pakati pa okwatirana, mosiyana ndi mfundo. Chikondi chotere chimapangidwa kudzera pakugonja kumabwera ndi zovuta zosiyanasiyana. Ngati banjali likakula, amadziwa zinthu zambiri zatsopano, zomwe zakonzedwa kuti zikhale ndi luso, chikondi chauzimu chikukula.
Thupi Losangalatsa - Zomwe Ndimamukonda?
Chikondi cha chikondi - pazomwe ndimakonda?
Kodi Ndimakonda bwanji?
Chikondi chenicheni ndi zonse zitatu zomwe zimatengedwa limodzi. Nkhani yabwino ndikuti zikondi izi zitha kupangidwa. Kupita kwa iwo amene akhala pansi ndi kudikirira kuti amve "." Mwachangu, munthu amachepetsa mwayi wokhala wachikondi chenicheni ndipo amataya ngakhale mphatso yomwe idaperekedwa mwachilengedwe. Thupi limakalamba, ubongo umayipitsa. Zikhulupiriro zowononga zimakhudza kwambiri moyo wake. Madzi, omwe samayenda, kusesa ndikusintha kukhala dambo.
Chikondi cha thupi ndi kumverera kwamphamvu, kugwedezeka mphamvu, kupereka mphamvu kwakanthawi kochepa. Kukonda mzimu ndi mwayi wokonda kwa nthawi yayitali, mosemphana ndi zochitika zonse komanso phindu lake.
Ndipo amene angatengere muubwenzi amakonda mnzake. Kumvetsetsa momwe mungapangire chikondi cha mzimu ndi thupi kumangobadwa m'malingaliro. Ndikofunikira kupanga chisankho chofuna kuyika ndalama. Munthu amene ali ndi moyo wokangalika ndipo amatenga udindo pazomwe zikuchitika, amatha kupanga chikondi chenicheni.
Nthawi zambiri m'mabuku (ngakhale otchulidwa), mutha kukwaniritsa mawu akuti "chikondi chinabwera," "chikondi chidawoneka", "chikondi chinachita kanthu ndi ine." Ayi, ayi. Tonsefe tidapanga m'miyoyo yathu yokhudza chitukuko chathu, ndipo sichofunikira kuti tisunge ndi mtima wofuna chikondi. Uku ndikumverera kwanu. Sindikusamala choti ndinene kuti: "Mphuno yanga yakumanzere ikudzudzulidwa kuti sindinapite kumeneko." Ndikufuna kukupatsani mwayi wopanga malingaliro oganiza, zomwe zingakuthandizeni kupeza chikondi chenicheni.
Pavel Rakov
Thupi, mzimu ndi malingaliro ...
Tsopano mwatsatanetsatane. Kodi Thupi Ndi Chiyani? Uku ndi kukopa kwa kugonana . Imadutsa masiku 40. Chilichonse. Mfundo. Izi ndi nsonga, ndiye zochepa komanso zochepa. Chifukwa chake chilengedwe chamoyo chikhala chotsimikizika. Ngati kukopeka kowala kwakaleko ndi kwa nthawi, mwamunayo adzafa! Ndipo inunso. Kupatula apo, ndikofunikira kukumbukira zomwe zikuchitika pakanthawi ngati izi: mumakhala operewera, osayiwaliratu za inu, atatopa, mwatopa, mwatopa. Ndiye kuti, thupi limagwira ntchito. Monga inu nthawi zonse pamasewera olimbitsa thupi.
Simungachite motere. Chifukwa chake mutha kuphika mafilimu. Chifukwa chake, thupi limayamba kuthawa. Mwanjira iliyonse kuchoka paubwenzi. Izi ndichinthu chotemberera: Mukapita kuchipinda cha Steam, choyamba sichikhala chotentha kwambiri, ndiye kuti mphindi ikafika pamene mukutentha ndipo ndibwino kwambiri, kenako nrenovo. Ngati simukuthawa pamenepo, zikhala zoyipa. Chimodzimodzi ndi thupi la chikondi.
Chikondi poyamba sichinthu choyambirira kuposa chogonana. Ndipo mkazi sangalole izi mpaka izi mpaka kudzilemekeza. Chifukwa chake, muyenera kuyesetsa kuti mumvetsetse zinthu zina kuti mupangenso chikondi cha mtima.
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Kukondana ndi Kulemekeza . Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kupereka zifukwa za ulemu. Ziyenera kukhala m'mbuyomu musanapite ndi bambo wina kukagona, chifukwa m'masiku 40 musanadutse, ndipo ulemu udzatsala.
Komanso, nthawi zambiri anthu okwatirana, amalemekeza kuti mafunde atsopano okopa, zili ngati kusinthana m'mafunga ndi mafunde ochepa. Amadziwika kuti chakudya chimakhudza malingaliro athu. Chifukwa chake, mu zakudya, onetsetsani kuti mukuphatikiza masamba ndi zipatso zatsopano. Kuchokera pa chakudya choyenera komanso chathanzi chomwe ndikufuna kugawana chikondi. Ngati mumadya tchipisi, mudzakhala achisoni! Kuchokera pa zakudya zoyipa nthawi zonse zimakhala zachisoni ndipo mwina Frozo! Imatsimikiziridwa: iwo amene amakonda chakudya chosokoneza amakumana ndi vuto komanso kusungulumwa.
Chakudya chopatsa thanzi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yodziwitsira chidwi ndi moyo. Mumadyetsa bwino, kuchokera pa izi mukuyendetsa, simukhala kunyumba, mukufuna kukondana, ndipo mumakonda inu!
Ndikofunikira kuphatikiza malingaliro oyenera, ndi zakudya zoyenera. Ingoganizirani kuti phazi lamanzere ndi chakudya, kumanja - malingaliro. Ngati mumalumpha nthawi zonse pa imodzi, mudzatopa ndipo simudzalephera. Ndipo ngati mupitanso modekha pamiyendo iwiri: chakudya, malingaliro, chakudya, malingaliro, zonse zili bwino ndi inu, mogwirizana komanso mogwirizana.
Kukoma kwanu kumadalira machitidwe anu. Maswiti, moona mtima ndi moona mtima asamalira amuna anu, ndipo mudzadabwa: kufunikira kotsekemera ndi ufa kudzatha pakokha!
Munthu akakhala pachakudya, minofu yake imachepetsa thupi. M'malo mongopukutira mafuta, minofu kuwola, ndipo mumataya minofu. Ngati mukufuna kuchepetsa thupi, muyenera kusintha moyo, zakudya ndi malingaliro.
Mabere a akazi mwa amuna sakhala oyamba. Ichi ndi mtundu wa akazi. Mkazi akamva zozizwitsa, munthu amafalikira kwa kumverera kumene. Pofuna kusuntha chidwi chanu pa zovuta zanu, ndikofunikira kuti mukhale ndi mphamvu zauzimu. Mwachidule, kuti apitilizenso amuna, mkazi aliyense ayenera kukulitsa mphamvu ya Mzimu. Kubwera ku izi, ndikofunikira kukulitsa kumvetsetsa. Malingaliro okha malingaliro afika apa. Poyamba kumvetsetsa, zomwe zikufunika kuchitika, ndipo, poika Mzimu, kubwera ku ungwiro ndi ungwiro. Kodi mukumvetsetsa momwe zinthu zonsezi zimalumikizirana?
Bulu wanu ndi wofunikira kwambiri! Ichi ndi thanzi lachikazi. Izi ndi chinthu cholimbikitsa kwa ife, amuna! Chizindikiro cha mtima ndi bulu wosweka! Nkhope imakopa, bere limakopa, koma amuna, malinga ndi ziwerengero, amasangalala kwambiri ndi bulu wake wa Akazi awo. Dzipendenitsani galasi litatu ndipo, ndikuyang'ana pa iye musanatuluke mnyumbamo, onetsetsani kuti mwayang'ana kumbuyo kwanu. Ngati mukuyimirira kutsogolo kwa chisankho: Valani china chake chamafashoni kapena kuwonetsa chithumwa chanu chakumadzulo, osaganizira. Kugehena! M'malo mwake, kumbuyo, pamwamba pa miyendo simukhala ndi kukoma, koma nkhope yeniyeni, ndipo m'badwo wa munthuyu umazindikira kuti akufuna kukhala nayo.
Mukumvetsetsa bwino kuti mavuto omwe ali ndi chithunzi, kuphatikizapo kumbuyo, ndi vuto losasinthika m'mutu. Kodi mungapangitse bwanji kuti kudzera mu malingaliro athu zikhale pafupi ndi ungwiro? Mutha kuwerenga za buku langa "Komwe muyenera kuchita nawo bwino", zomwe zingakuthandizeni kukhala wokongola kwambiri komanso wosangalatsa.
BAKO LOSAVUTA "BUKU LOSAVUTA 1 # NEShur"
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Mzimu wachikondi ... Ubale pakati pa wophunzira ndi mphunzitsi. Mwamuna akamaphunzitsa mkazi yemwe amagawana zinthu, komanso mosemphanitsa. Ngati simugonjetse zovuta mu banja, chikondi chauzimu sichibadwira, palibe chomwe chimangoyang'ana. Zikhala kunja, chikondi cha mzimu chiyenera kukhala choyenera. Ndipo ndizabwino kudziwa njira yopanga chikondi zauzimu.
Mutafika kwa opangidwa, adatenga munthu woyenera (monga ena akufuna), omwe safunikira thandizo, omwe amathetsa mafunso onse omwe ali ndi bizinesi yake yauzimu? Palibe zovuta! Ndipo ngati simugwirabe ntchito, ndiye kuti palibe ulemu. Ndiye bwanji? Kugonana kokha. Ngati mungachite bwino kwambiri, ndiye kuti inde, kufikira wansembe ndi mabere sadzawonongedwa, mudzakhala khadi yake yabizinesi. Kenako adzapeza wina.
Ngakhale mutakhala zaka zingati muukwati, chikondi cha mzimu uyenera kukhazikitsidwa, kuthana ndi mavuto, kukhululukirana ndi kukhululukirana ndi kukulitsa kukula kwake. Tili ndi zomwe timachita zimakwiyitsa anthu kuti azichita chilichonse kapena ayi.
Onani mphamvu zomwe muli nazo pa amuna! Ganizirani. Mukukangana ndi bambo. Ndani amataya? Munthu. Ngati mungakweze dzanja lanu pa munthu, izi ndizabwinobwino, ndipo kungokhala chete ena athu ndi bulauni. Ndipo ngati munthu anakurutsani dzanja lanu? Ngati bambo akungokulitsidwa nthawi zonse?
"Mkango sufunika kukula - chilichonse m'nkhalango ndikudziwa kuti iye ndi Mkango," nawu mawu a maphunziro anga aamuna. Kukongoletsa ", ndi chilolezo chonena kuti, munthu amataya muyeso wake pamaso pa akazi. Kuyesa kutsimikizira china chake ndi mkazi wanga, amasinthana ndi iye pa mapewa osalimba. Ulemu mu awiriwa akugwa. Kukonda malingaliro kumatha.
Ndipo ngati muli pa munthu wofuula? Mwamuna samangokumverani, ubongo wathu wakonzedwa. Mwina zimazindikira zambiri pa pafupipafupi, ndipo sakukonza mbiri yayikulu. Kodi mukumvetsa kusiyana kwake? Ingosamala, osalankhula za kufooka kwakuthupi ndi mawonekedwe a mawonekedwe. Zomverera! Kulumbira kuti muphunzire . Mokwiya kwambiri, ndiwe wokongola, wowala kwambiri komanso wodekha. Poterepa, palinso ukadaulo, ndipo mumaganiza kuti ndi ndani komanso ndani angaphunzire.
Muli ndi mphamvu pa ife. Mukayamba kumuyambitsa munthu pazinthu zotsika kwambiri, amadziimba mlandu. Ngakhale atakuwonongeni, ngakhale atakhala osavuta kwa iye, adzadziimba mlandu. Amadziwika kuti kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa kumakopa chilango.
Kodi ndizothandiza kwa banja kuti mwamuna wanu azimangidwa kapena kulangidwa ndi ndalama yayikulu? Simungakhale gawo la Clairvoyant kuti muyang'ane mtsogolo kapena zakale, ingoyang'anani pa inu, momwe mumalumikizira munthu. Chifukwa chake, m'maphunziro anga, omwe ambiri atenga nawo mbali akudandaula ndikamauza zonse za moyo wawo, kulankhula nawo pa mphindi imodzi kapena ziwiri. Mukuwona, monga m'magazi atatu a magazi, mutha kuwunika thanzi la chiwalo chonsecho, komanso pazomwe mungafotokozere za moyo wake.