Ngati mumayezera mfundo zonse, ndiye kuti palibe chofunikira kuposa banja. Koma, mwa lingaliro langa, fanizoli pano silolondola kwathunthu. Zoyenera, munthu amayenera kukwaniritsa winayo. Kungolota komwe kumangotengera nthawi ndi zoyesayesa zosiyanasiyana kumasiyana malinga ndi zinthu zomwe zilipo. Kwa ine ndekha, ndidatsimikiza molondola kuti banjali, kulera mwana wamkazi pang'ono pa moyo wanga, ndikofunikira kwambiri.
Kutengera izi, ndimakonzekera ntchito yanga yaukadaulo, ngakhale, zoona, nthawi zina zimakhala zophweka. Makamaka, pamene zokambirana zakwaniritsidwa, zimatenga nthawi yambiri ndi khama nthawi. Ndinachitika kuti ndisiye ngakhale gawo lina akamakhala ndi mwayi wokhala ndi nyumba yayitali chifukwa chaulendo. Kwa ine, chisangalalo cha banja chiri choyamba, maubale ogwirizana, omwe palibe chikondi chokha, komanso ulemu, kumvetsetsana ndi kumvetsetsa. Ndipo, zoona, ndikofunikira kuti ndisunge mgwirizano uku ndi kuchulukana. Sizachilichonse kuti nthawi yazaka mazana ambiri ndiolozera akaziwo makamaka azimayi omwe amawaganizira omwe akuwasunga.
Malamulo asanu:
1. Nthawi zonse kuyambira madzulo ndimakonzekera tsiku lotsatira osati zinthu zokhazokha, komanso zovala, tsitsi. Zimasunga nthawi yayikulu ndipo imakupatsani mwayi kuti muwononge bwino.
2. Sindikutenga china chake ngati sindikumvetsetsa momwe ndingachitire. Izi zimagwira ntchito chabe kwa akatswiri akatswiri, komanso moyo watsiku ndi tsiku. Malingaliro anga, zimathandizanso kuti musawononge nthawi yowonongeratu kuti muchite bwino kuti muchite bwino pazomwe mulibe zomwe mulibe. Nthawi zonse kutsogoleredwa ndi lamulo: Choyamba pendani bwino zonse, kenako pitilizani.
3. Ndikuganiza kuti kutopa si chifukwa chophika choyipa ndipo, makamaka, kumawoneka choyipa. Chimodzi mwazinthu zazikulu zomwe zimandithandiza kuti ndisaiwale kuti cholinga chofunika chimapatsidwa mapewa a kugonana kulikonse - pokhapokha ngati pali mkazi. Kutsatira lamulo ili kumapewa mavuto ambiri m'moyo wanu.
4. Timateteza malingaliro anu pokhapokha ngati ndili ndi mikangano yokwanira. Lamuloli lilinso loyenera magawo onse amoyo ndipo limathandiza kupewa kumveketsa bwino kwambiri kwa anzawo ndi anthu onse apafupi. Musaiwale kuti kufunitsitsa kumenyera chigonjetso pakukambana ndi mphamvu zomwe zingathe kuti chikhale cholengedwa komanso kukhala ndi mwayi waukulu.
5. Sindikusiya kukula. Palibe chotopetsa kuposa mkazi yemweyo nthawi zonse. Akatswiri azamisala samatopa kubwereza kufunika kwake, koma nthawi zonse amapita patsogolo - kudziwa zambiri, mwayi, kupeza luso latsopano ndikupeza luso latsopano. Kuyenda kutsogolo ndikofunikira kwa munthu wopambana.
Kuphatikiza apo, ndimakumbukira kuti:
- Njira yabwino kwambiri yoleredwa ndi chitsanzo chanu;
- Musananene, ndibwino kuganiza kangapo;
- Palibe chifukwa cholonjezani zomwe simudzachita;
- Osafulumira pamalingaliro, musakhale nazo zonsezo;
- Kupambana kumabwera kwa amene saopa ntchito;
"Kumwetulira kumapangitsa chidwi kwa ena, ndipo mawu abwino amakhala ndi chikondi.
- Mkazi woyenera komanso wodekha komanso wokhazikika amakhala patsogolo pa zophulika zophulika ndi zosokoneza;
- kusokonezeka m'malingaliro kumakopa chisokonezo m'malingaliro ndikuchita;
- Sili koyenera kugwiritsa ntchito luso lanu, mphamvu ndi nthawi kwa iwo omwe sawafuna kapena sangathe kuyamikira.