Pansi lokongola limapangidwa ndi kusafuna kwake kumaliza pangano kotero - Ichi ndi chizindikiro cha kupewetsa mtima, komanso zolinga zobisika, komanso osakhulupirira theka lawo lachiwiri. Lingaliro limawala m'mutu kuti chikalata chotere chidzawononga okondana ndikuyika mtanda mu chikondi chamuyaya. Izi ndizowona makamaka mwa akazi - "pakati pa chikondi chathu!".
Ndipo ngati mukuganiza za moyo wabanja zomwe mukuganiza zokhudzana ndi banja labanja lotani? Chifukwa chake imagwira ntchito mokhazikika pa ubale! Inde inde! Amangogwiritsa ntchito okwatirana nawo si zopindulitsa zakuthupi, koma zauzimu. Ndipo mu ntchito iliyonse yofunika? Ndiko kulondola - phindu. Ndipo phindu mu banja ndi chimwemwe ndi kugwirizana kwa uzimu.
Psychology mwa azimayi amayima pamalo oyamba. Kapena m'malo - mawonekedwe a zamaganizidwe. Chifukwa chake, poganiza za mgwirizano wa ukwati, mavuto a dongosolo la malingaliro m'maganizo, pali kumverera kwa zovuta. Madona okongola samamvetsetsa momwe angayankhulire ndi zinthu zoterezi, ndipo ambiri ali ndi nkhawa zambiri, "ndipo tinganene chiyani anthu ozungulira anthu ozungulira." Ndipo azimayi ambiri amakonda kubwereza kuti mgwirizano waukwati ndi njira yachindunji yothera chisudzulo.
Komabe, kugonana kwa akazi ndikofunikira ndipo ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti mapangidwe a chikalatachi ndi kosiyana ndi izi, chizindikiritso cha kudalira mnzanu, komanso kulimba mtima mtsogolo komanso muubwenzi wake wonse ndi zovuta zonse zathetsa kale. Chifukwa chake, mutha kungosangalala ndi moyo, muzipanga maubale ogwirizana kwambiri ndipo lingalirani za mbali yaukwati, chifukwa gawo la zachuma lidathetsedwa! Ndiye kuti, khalani ndi chisangalalo! Kupatula apo, mgwirizano wa ukwati si wophatikizika ndi chikalata chofotokozera chisudzulo cham'tsogolo. Ichi ndi mgwirizano pazinthu zopangira zinthu ndi katundu watsopano wa cell yatsopano ya Society - Banja, za njira yokhudza ndalama. Ndipo dongosolo lililonse pazinthu zonse ndilofunika kwambiri ndipo likufunika. Ndipo ili ndi mphamvu ya chikalatachi! Chifukwa chake, bwanji osakhala ndi moyo wosavuta ndipo nthawi yomweyo amabweretsa dongosolo la banja?
Mgwirizano waukwati ndi kuteteza katundu wanu. Mu mgwirizano wa ukwati padzakhala boma lina la okwatirana ndipo ngati m'modzi mwa okwatirana agwera ngongole, adzayankha ngongolezo kuchokera pagawo lake. Kupatula apo, zimachitika kuti mwamunayo amasowa pambuyo pa chisudzulo, koma amasiya ngongole zake.
Chofunika kwambiri komanso nthawi yolembetsa ngongole. Ngongole zimatenga pafupifupi anthu onse komanso chilichonse mzere kuchokera kwa ogula ngongole. Mfundo yomwe maudindo amagwira ntchito yomwe idapereka ngongole yomwe idapereka ngongole ithetsani vuto lolekanitsa ngongole za ngongole mukatha kusudzulana.
Mukamapanga mgwirizano waukwati, ndizotheka kusankha kuti ndani amene angakhale ngati mphatso. Kupatula apo, mikangano yambiri ndi kusamvana kumayambitsa mphatso, makamaka kwa ukwati. Ndi zokongoletsera zazikazi zodula ndi zinthu zochokera mu ubweya, zomwe adagula muukwati - kodi zifika kwa ndani? Nthawi zambiri, amuna muukwati amapatsa ma celves a miyala yamtengo wapatali, zovala za ubweya, magalimoto komanso panthawi yomwe aliyense akufuna kusiya tsoka lawo la mphatsozo ndikusankha mgwirizano wabanja.
Komanso, chikalatachi chidzathandiza kuthana ndi ndalama za okwatirana - kuti adziwe mtengo wowononga ndikukonzekera kugula kwakukulu. Mukakhala ndi mgwirizano wa ukwati, zidzafotokozedwa kuti ndalama zomwe zipite ku bajeti yonse ya banja, ndipo zomwe zili payekha ("thumba") ndalama.
Ndipo mphindi yotsatira ingakhale yothandiza kwa akazi osagwira ntchito makamaka. Amayi ambiri amadzipereka mwadala kwa banjali ndi pambuyo pa chisudzulo palibe chilichonse. Palibe ntchito, palibe ntchito, palibe ndalama. Kuphatikiza apo, mawu a muukwati amakonda kumvekera kwa ma radiation - "sanagwire ntchito." Mukamapanga mgwirizano wapabanja, chinthu chidzaphatikizidwe, chomwe chidzalepheretsani mnzanuyo kuti alipire ndalamazo, komanso chinthucho ndikukonzekera kuchuluka kwa phindu lakelo.
Mwambiri, mgwirizano wa ukwati ndi kuteteza bwino kwambiri zofuna za kugonana. Chifukwa chake, sikofunikira kuyika mawu oti "mgwirizano wa ukwati si wamakhalidwe", ndikofunikira kuyandikira mapangidwe ake.
Ndikofunika kuganiza za chitsimikiziro cha ziganizo mwamphamvu za mnzake. Ndipo palibe chodalira. Ngati poyamba pamalo oyamba palibe zinthu zakuthupi, ndiye kuti okwatirana achichepere adzasainira chikalatacho.
Pakumaliza ukwati, kuwerengetsa, kokwanira komanso kusangalatsa, kuyenera kukhala. Ndipo ngati achinyamata akumana kukwatira ndi vuto lililonse komanso udindo, ndiye kuti chikalata chofunikira chotere sichimapweteke bwino. Kupatula apo, anthu oyandikana nawo awiri adayamba - okhumudwa komanso okonda - amalimbikitsa. Chikondi chimatha kutha, ndipo zinthu zanyumba zidzakhalabe. Ndipo amaimbabebe ana omwe amafunika 'kuyika mapazi awo. " Ndipo si nthawi zonse mwamuna wakale angathandize. Ndipo mgwirizano wa ukwati udzafunika kuti mkazi wake ndi ana awo.
Ukwati ndi mgwirizano ndipo ngati "kusweka" ndikofunikira kudziwiratu. Ndipo ndimalowa m'magulu ndikuwona zabwino za kapangidwe ka mgwirizano wa ukwati, theka lanu livomereza kuti mawu awo athe.
Akamaliza ukwati asanapezeke kuvomereza pankhaniyi, ndiye kuti muyenera kudziwa ndikukumbukira kuti chikalatachi chitha kuchitika pambuyo paukwati, komanso nthawi iliyonse. Mwina, patapita kanthawi atamaliza ukwatiwo, chidaliro cha okwatirana mogwirizana wosainidwa.