"Kuchitira Mankhwala Osokoneza bongo!"
Alina Makkimovskaya, Officer of Social Service "mlembi" ndi narccodispeanser. 12. Zapaderazi, ntchito yokhayo ku Moscow ikutchedwa "pagulu limodzi". Osasavuta kulowa mu chipatala cha mankhwala, sichigwira ntchito tsiku limodzi. Nayi ntchito ya Alina - kuti muchepetse nthawi ino.
- Chizolowezi chomwe makolo amatenga nthawi yayitali akaona kuti mwana wawo amagwiritsa ntchito: "Timafunikira madokotala ndi akutola!" Amakhulupirira kuti pambuyo pachipatala, munthu aliyense adzakhala bwino. Koma ndi njira zamankhwala zokha ndizosatheka kuthetsa vutoli! Matendawa ndi ovuta, ndipo ndikofunikira kuchiza kokha munthawi yonse ya upangiri, upangiri wa polreamalinatiyalitalitaliwiro, gulu la anthu osokoneza bongo ", gwiritsani ntchito psychotherapist.
- ndipo ndiyenera kuyamba liti?
- Ngati makolo, ndiye kuti muyenera kupeza foni yopanda tanthauzo - tsopano "mizere yotentha" ili limodzi. Tiyerekeze kuti mwazindikira kuti china chake chimachitika - m'nyumba zomwe zimasowa, mtundu wina wa zisonyezo, koma munthu amakana chilichonse. Ndipo muyenera kutanthauza akatswiri a akatswiri ndikumvetsetsa zomwe zikuchitika. Eya, wodalirika kwambiri ayenera kumveredwa - ngati ali ndi chidwi chofuna kuthandizidwa.
- Ndi mabungwe angati ku Moscow ku Moscow?
- Zipatala zitatu zowerengeka - MNPC Nurclogy ("Ninewene", Chipatala. 19), Chipatala № 17 ndi nthambi yake ku Annino. Pali okhwima, amodzi - ndi Norcology ya MNPS. Kuti mufike ku kukonzanso popanda kudutsa koyamba detoxication ndikosatheka.
Ngati mungaganize zopita kuchipatala, kukhala okonzeka makina a Bureaucratic - muyenera kusonkhanitsa zikalata. Khalani pafupi.
Kwa anthu okhala ku Moscow. Pasipoti kapena kutchulanso, kuwononga. Popanda pasipoti, simudzatengedwa chithandizo. Kenako: Polis kapena pepala kwakanthawi ndi nambala yomwe idzadzaza ndi iyo. Malangizo ochokera kwa narcologist (koma mu mankhwala a MNPC, mutha kubwera "ndikulemba mawu pomwepo). Zotsatira zakusanthula syphilis ndi kachilombo ka HIV - kuchokera ku ofesi yosadziwika sikuvomerezedwa! Fluologram kapena kutulutsa kuchokera ku khadi ndi zotsatira za kafukufuku womaliza. Koma, mwakutero, tsopano mwa zipatala zonenedwa ndi anthu ambiri pali mwayi wopanga ma flaornophyphy.
Ngati pali zotupa kapena zochitika za opaleshoni yaposachedwa kwambiri - satifiketi ya dokotala wa opaleshoni yomwe palibe contraindication kuchipatala. Ngati mkaziyo ali ndi pakati - satifiketi kwa dokotala wa gynecologist, kuti kuchipatala sikunapangidwe (koma mwina sadzatenga mimba). Ngati pali kachilombo ka HIV, chiwembu chovomerezeka chikufunika ngati munthu ali kale pamankhwala. Mwa njira, wokhala ndi kachilombo ka HIV tsopano amatenga gawo lililonse - ngakhale pomwepo panali zoletsa.
Ngati mulibe kulembetsa kwa Moscow, tinene kuti mukuchokera kudera la Moscow. Kuphatikiza pa zikalata zomwe zalembedwazo, mumafunikira t. N. "Coun Coupon" - Malangizo ochokera ku Dipatimenti ya Moscow yaumoyo. Kuti muchite izi, tengani malangizo ochokera kwa narcologist yanu, kenako mukalumikizane ndi chipatala cha ku Moscow ndikunena kuti mukufuna thandizo, ndipo kuli wokonzeka kupereka. Ndipo ndi izi, aliyense amapita ku dipatimenti yathanzi.
Niriclogy sizitenga: popanda zikalata, ndi kutentha ndi matenda osachiritsika: matenda ashuga, zilonda. Amayi oyembekezera.
- Zonsezi ndikofunikira kuti mufike ku Detox. Ndipo zimakhala zochuluka motani?
- masiku 21-28. Kenako munthuyo amagwiranso ntchito kukonzanso. Pakadali pano, munthu akuzunzidwa, ndikofunikira kugwira ntchito ndi abale. Ndipo izi ndizovuta kwambiri kuposa zomwe zimadzitengera okha. Zimachitika m'banja mutu wa mankhwalawa zatsekedwa kwambiri kotero kuti umachita manyazi ngakhale chidziwitso mu dispens kuti apite. ... Mankhwala Osiyanasiyana Amtundu: Zakuda - Nthawi zambiri, zosokoneza bongo - zochititsa manyazi.
- Kodi ndizotheka kusonkhanitsa mapepala onsewa?
- Zambiri zodalira sizifika kuchipatala chifukwa cha kusapezeka kwawo. Zolemba izi ndizofunikira. Koma mukawasonkhanitsa nokha, zitenga masiku osachepera atatu - tchuthi, tsiku losavomerezeka, osangopereka pepala. Ndipo m'moyo wa wodalira m'masiku atatu Chilichonse chitha kuchitika - kumangidwa, kunenepa, kusokonekera m'maganizo, kunangosintha malingaliro ake. Makamaka ngati uyu ndi munthu yemwe adamasulidwa posachedwa ndipo alibe zikalata. Munthu wowonjezera mankhwala popanda thandizo ali ovuta kudutsa njira yonseyi. Koma mu "phulusa" lathu pali ntchito yofananira - wogwira ntchito pagulu adzathandizira kuti atole zikalata, kuti apange chipatala, amatsogolera munthu kuchipatala.
Loto lathu lamtambo ndikupanga dongosolo la anthu ochezera ndi omwe ali ndi mndandanda wa Moscow ndi mtundu wa "Windo umodzi". Kenako chiwerengero cha anthu omwe adalandira mankhwala osokoneza bongo, adachulukirachulukira.
"Kudziwona moona mtima ndi kukhala pafupi ndi"
Mwana wamkazi wa Irina samagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kwa zaka 4. Irrina nayenso amapita kumagulu kuti makolo a anthu asamale "anon", nawonso, zaka 4. Monga kholo lililonse, amakhulupirira kuti ndikofunikira kuyamba ndi kusaka malo okonzanso mwana wake wamkazi. Koma zinali kunja, kunali kofunikira kuyamba ndekha.
- Kodi ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ndipo ndi zolakwa ziti zomwe zimapangitsa makolo? Ndipo palibe algorithm - ndikaganiza za ine ndikumvera ena, ndikumvetsetsa kuti aliyense ali ndi njira ina. Koma akamadziyang'ana moona mtima komanso moyo wanga, zimandidziwikiratu.
- Ndi chiyani - "penyani moona mtima"?
- Ambiri sadzamvetsetsa tanthauzo lake. Ndinalinso wokana, ndipo ine, monga abale ena odalira, sizinali zosamveka. Zinkawoneka kwa ine zomwe zimathandizira kuti zichitike, monga lamulo, kwa munthu. Ndipo muyenera kukhala pafupi ndi iye, osamuchitira zonse.
... Pa chiyambi kwambiri, nditazindikira za kudalira kwa mwana wanga, adandiuza kuti: "Amayi, kodi simukuwona kuti zonsezi zikuwoneka?" Amatanthawuza moyo wathu ndi iye. Ndipo ndinkasowa zaka zambiri kuyang'ana pa moyo wanga komanso ubale wathu ndikuzindikira: Inde, zambiri zinali zowoneka. Sindinazindikire kwa nthawi yayitali zomwe zinali zosatheka kuzindikira, ndidanamizira kuti zonse zinali "zochulukirapo kapena zochepa." Pambuyo pake ndinadabwa mwana wanga wamkazi ataulula kuti: "Inde, ndikhulupirira kuti ndilandira chilichonse m'manja mwanga!"
Kenako mwana wamkazi adagona pamalo okonzanso, koma moona mtima wathu unayamba kuyenda bwino, pokhapokha nditayang'ana moona mtima nditayang'ana moona mtima ndi kuti sindinalole kuti mwana wanga wamkazi akule ndekha, nthawi zonse ndimayesetsa kudzutsa udzu, kuti ndichepetse mavuto. Ndipo, zachidziwikire, zinali zoyipa zomwe ndimazikonda. ... Ndipo tsopano ndikuwona milandu makolo akamapereka ndalama zogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, amawapeza kuti: "Adzafa popanda iwo." Zowawa za matendawa zikupitilira, ndipo makolowo anasokoneza momwe amachita zabwino ... ndikuwona kuti, ngati ine, ngati ine zisanachitike, sindimadziwa choti nkutha kuchita.
Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kuti mulembe zambiri za matendawa momwe mungathere, za momwe zimakhudzira momwe zimakhalira ndi omwe ali pafupi.
Ndikaphunzira kudziyang'ana moona mtima, zonse zinayamba kusintha. Kubwezera, mwana wamkazi anali ndi nkhawa kwambiri, zinali zovuta kwambiri. Kenako ndinaphunzira m'njira yatsopano kukhala pafupi (osalamulira, kuwongolera, kuwongolera, kukwiya, ndi zina), kumvetsera, kuti alankhule moona mtima. Mwachitsanzo, pamutu "Chifukwa Chiyani Mumakhala Ndi Moyo?". Zinali zovuta kwa ine. Koma kudzipereka, kutentha, kumvetsetsa kudabwezedwa ku ubale wathu. Kwa ine, izi ndi chisangalalo chachikulu.
Ndipo tsopano, mavuto ena akakhala ndi mavuto, amagawana, ndipo ndimamvetsera mwachidwi, ndikumverani chisoni, koma sindimafuna thandizo ndipo sindikuyesera kuwagwira ndekha. Inde, iye amaganiza, momwe iye aliri pa nthawi yake. Koma zili ngati wina aliyense. Pali kukula. Munthu amayamba kudzilemekeza, ali wokondwa kuti ali ndi chochita, chifukwa cha mphamvu yake ya munthu amene amakhala ndi mosamala.
- Kodi pali upangiri wopangidwa ndi makolo?
- Inde, inde, pali. Ndimayesetsa kukumbukira nthawi zonse, amandithandiza kwambiri. Amatchedwa kuti: "Zoyenera kuchita ndi chotani?"
- Yesetsani kukumana ndi zibwenzi zilizonse ku ulesi kuti apemphe thandizo.
- Kumbukirani kuti muyenera kusaka ndi kuwona zabwino mwa anthu ena komanso mwa inu.
- Osadziimba mlandu chifukwa cha zochita za anthu ena.
- Osasiyira, musaganize, osawerenga zamakhalidwe ndipo simukukumbukira zolakwika zakuthupi zapakhomo (ndi anthu ena).
- Osayesa kuteteza, kuphimba kapena kupulumutsa omwe amagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
- Musamadzichepetse kudzidalira kwanu ndipo musakhale nsalu yomwe miyendo imapukuta.
- Kumbukirani kuti kusokoneza ndi matenda, osatinso kulephera.
- ndikuyendera magulu othandiza anthu achibale?
- Inde. "Yambitsani pulogalamu yochira osati kuchokera ku mankhwala ophuka, koma nokha. Pitani magulu a Nar-Anon ndikuphunzira kuthandiza osokoneza bongo. "
Pakangoganiza kapena sindinkafuna kupita ku gululi, ndinadziuza kuti: Kodi mungadikire bwanji munthu yemwe amadalira mankhwalawa kuti ayambe kuchira ?! Ndipo izi (nthawi zonse!) Zinandithandiza kuthana ndi ulesi, kusakonda, kusakonda, kusasamala. Onse olumikizidwa.
- Kodi nkosavuta 'kusatenga udindo'?
- kuda nkhawa kuli koopsa. Ndathamangitsa malingaliro olakwika nthawi zonse nthawi zonse m'malo mokumbukira kuti ine ndidali nazo ndipo mwana wanga anali ndi njira yake. Ndinasokoneza nkhawa. Ndinaganiza zonsezi: "Nanga zinatheka bwanji?" Koma zinachitika. Chifukwa chake, kuda nkhawa sikunathandize.
- Makolo sangakumvetsetse: Kodi zingadetse bwanji nkhawa?
- Payenera kukhala nthawi yoti muzindikire zolakwa zanu. Ndipo ali ndi mizu yakuya kwambiri. Magulu ambiri amakumbukira momwe zimakhalira m'mabanja awo, monga momwe zimakhalira odalira makolo awo.
- Ndipo mukukumbukira zomwe iwonso anali zaka 4 zapitazo?
- Inde, ndikukumbukira bwino. Kuphwanya kwathunthu, kutaya mtima, kupweteka, kumverera, kumverera koopsa kwa zovuta komanso kudziimba mlandu ... ndikukumbukira nthawi zonse ndikadzaona munthu yemwe adabwera kwa gulu koyamba. Koma, monga akunena, "Palibe vuto lomwe silinathe kuchepetsedwa, ndipo palibe chomwe sichingathe bwino bwino." Kuchokera pansi pamtima wanga ndikufuna kugawana ndi chiyembekezo ndi omwe akufunika thandizo! Simuli nokha, ndipo mudzazipeza!