Ilipo 2 polarica:
Zofala kwambiri Makolo a Hypophe . Mwanayo alibe nthawi yoyesera, apezani dziko mozungulira, ndipo ali kale ndi Rulux kuyambira kumbali zonse: "Tulutsani bolyak! Ndizowopsa ... osachita mantha ... Chifukwa chake ana abwino sabwera, simukufuna kukwiya amayi? " Etc. Makolo ndi amayi, makamaka, pozungulira mwana ndi nkhawa ngati kuti nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kwa iye kuti adziwe zomwe iye akufuna. Kuchita njira koteroko kumachepetsa gawo lomwe limayambitsa muzu, zimapangitsa kuti mwana azidalira mwana komanso. Ndipo akakula, amamva moyo wake wonyamula ngongole yopanda malipiro: Amayi adawakoka kwambiri mwa iye, ndidapereka zaka zabwino kwambiri. Chifukwa chake, mwachangu, zomwe ndi zongokhoza chabe, zimayamba kupereka ngongoleyi. Mutha kukumana ndi ana aakazi kwa 30, omwe akukana kukhala osangalatsa ndi maulendo ndi abwenzi sabata kuti mutenge mayi tsiku ndi tsiku pafoni, kuti amayi asakhale otopa komanso osungulumwa. Amabereka ana awo ndikupatsa amayi kuti athe kuwalitsa masabata opanda tanthauzo ndi thandizo lomwe likufunanso munthu. Mwa azimayi ndi abambo ndizofala. Amayi anali ndi nambala ya chiwerengero. Iye ndi Bwenzi, ndi Amayi, ndi mnzake m'moyo, ndi chilichonse padziko lapansi. Ana ambiri a makolo omwe amakula mu matenda oopsa samathetsedwa kuti ayambe mabanja awo. Pofuna kuti amayi akhumudwitse kuyesayesa kwanu kuti apange moyo wamunthu, ndipo khalani omasuka kwa makolo anu. Mabanja ena atha kupanga mabanja awo, koma nthawi zonse amakhala modekha, nthawi zonse pa cheke. Pang'onopang'ono, amakhala okonzeka kusiya zinthu zonse ndikupeza makolo kuti awathandize, ngakhale atatha kuchita chilichonse kuti asakhale ndi thanzi labwino.
Njira yachiwiri ndi Mabanja Omwe Ana adadzuka ngati akunja . Makolo anali otanganidwa, mavuto awo. Izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala m'mabanja omwe makolo amamwa, mankhwala osokoneza bongo, matenda amisala, kapena matenda amisala kapena amisala. Nthawi zina zimachitika makolo akasinthana. Ana amasamuka kumbuyo kumbali yakumbuyo za zovuta zawo ndi njira zopulumuka. Chifukwa chake, ana otere amakula ndi kuchepa kwa chikondi, kudalirika, kuzindikira. Amalumikizidwa mwanjira yawo yawo kwa makolo awo, ndi amayi makamaka. Moyo wonse wamkulu, amafuna kutsimikizira kuti ndiabwino: Pangani Ntchito Ndi Masitepe Asanu ndi Awiri , omwe ali mwana anasowa. Chifukwa chake, amuna ndi akazi onsewa sadzipereka kwenikweni kwa moyo wawo wachikulire. Amamangirizidwanso kwa amayi makamaka, amayesetsanso kukhala ofunikira komanso ofunikira popereka moyo ndi moyo wawo wapadera.
Kachitidwe kupatukana ndi makolo ndi amayi, makamaka, - Ichi ndiye gawo lofunikira kwambiri pakupanga munthu ndi kufuna kwake, kuyamba. Ngati sakuyenda, njira ya munthu m'moyo idzakhala yolemedwa kwambiri ndi kufunikira kofuna kukonda amayi kapena kufunafuna chikondi chake. Ndipo - chobisika kwambiri - m'milandu chotere chimakwiyitsidwa nthawi zonse. M'mafuko akale, pali miyambo yoyambitsa, kudzipereka kwa ana adzuwa. Ngati makolo asiya kupita kwa mwana wawo kuti apite njira yawo, kuzindikira ufulu wake ku zolakwa, zovuta, ndi iwo. Nthawi yomweyo monga makolo, amamutumikira ndi chithandizo ndi thandizo. Palibe miyambo yofananayo m'dziko lamakono. Mayiyu alibe nkhawa m'nyumba ya ana achikulire ndi ana aakazi. Amawalola kuti ikhale yokwiya, ndikukunyengerera mkwiyo wawo. Ndikupitiliza kupweteketsana.
Ngati mumapezeka mu umodzi mwa maudindowa - mwana yemwe watalika kwa nthawi yayitali kapena mayi yemwe samasiya mwana wake wokulirapo, ndi nthawi yoti apereke mlanduwo.
Yakwana nthawi yotumiza mayesero kuti asalimbane ndi wina ndi mnzake, koma zofunikira zenizeni ndi ntchito zomwe sizikukwanira. Kudzaza moyo ndi tanthauzo lawo, kufunikira kwa chitsimikizo kapena kulandira chikondi nthawi yomweyo chomwe mungafune kungoyang'ana payokha.
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin