Ngati ndikufuna kukhala woyang'anira kanema wina, ndikuwonjezera lingaliro la chiwembu kuti ndiloletse kuti ndiyambe kutanthauzira mu comporn iyi.
Kuti ndifotokozere malotowa, ndikufunika kujambula chisangalalo. Ndinkakayikira momwe banja lathu limakhalira, cholowa chake chathupi chimakhudza ana. Anselyn Schrzifalirgergeger mu buku Kutsatira, kukhulupirika kwa miyambo ya mabanja komanso malamulo a banja, nthawi zambiri amatsatiridwa, amatchedwa kukhulupirika. Kukhulupirika ndi kulumikizana kwathu ndi gwero, uku ndikumverera kofunikira kwambiri.
Kuti mulumikizane ndi "mapaketi", ndi banja, simuyenera kukhala abwino konse. Mukamatsatira nkhani za banja, zilibe kanthu kuti ubale wathu ndi banja lathu umatheka bwanji m'njira zabwino kwambiri. Anselin Herzzberger amatsogolera ku zitsanzo zofananira zofananira m'dziko la mabanja: Matenda owopsa omwewo ku mibadwo imodzimodzi ku makolo ndi mbadwa zomwe sizikudziwana. Zochitika zomwezo ndi masewero, kubadwa kapena ana a mitsempha, chiwerengero cha okwatirana ndi osudzulana. Nthawi zina zimawoneka kuti banja limangobwereza zochitika zam'mbuyo pansi pagalimoto. Mwinanso, monga mtundu wathu, zomwe zikubwerezedwa, zimakhala ndi tanthauzo lalikulu. Mwina tanthauzo ili silidziwika mosiyana ndi wachibale, koma wamkulu m'banjamo, banja limasuntha mtundu uwu. Ndipo mwatero anapeza kulumikizana kwamphamvu ndi makolo awo.
Njira yothandizirana ndi anthu am'banja wina ndi mnzake
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Munthu akachotsa mbiri ya banja ndipo amapeza maubwenzi pakati pawo ndi cholowa chake, amawoneka bwino. Mutha kufooketsa ubale ndi banja, posinthana ndi izi kuti mupeze ufulu wosankha ena mwatsatanetsatane, zomwe mwina sizingayesedwe m'banjamo.
Mwina kukhala munthu woyamba wambiri pamene mibadwo yambiri yabwerera, idasungidwa ndi chingwe chotambalala, tapeza umphawi zonse.
Ndikotheka kupanga ubale wautali pomwe palibe nkhani zokhala ndi ubale wachimwemwe m'banjamo, koma pali mbiri yakale, zotayika, kuperekedwa. Koma ndiye kuti mudzasiya kuyesayesa kuti mupange kulumikizana kwakukulu ndi momwe muliri pokhulupirika kwambiri.
Munthu amene amadziwa kuyanjana naye ndi banja lake akudziwa kuti kulumikizidwa kumeneku sikoyenera kuuza ena zovuta zomwe zimavuta, mwachitsanzo, monga mayi, osati okhulupirira amuna, osakhulupirira anthu; Monga bambo, yesetsani kumanga bizinesi yanu yopanda ngongole.
Ndipo tsopano, monga fanizo la nkhaniyi, yemwe amatenga nawo mbali kwa nkhani ya nkhani adalota maloto. "Ndimatsogolera squadi ya zombie. Amatulutsa magazi kuchokera m'mitsempha ndikupeza zokwanira. Palibe chowopsa kwa ena omwe samachita, koma kuyamba kuwonetsa mphamvu zawo: chotsani, kukwera pamakoma, kuthamanga pa liwiro lalikulu. Ndingakhale chimodzimodzi, koma ndikuopa mphamvuyi. "
Mafotokozedwe ochepa: kuchokera ku lingaliro lachiberekero, magazi ndikugwirizana ndi banja. Bulgakov analemba kuti: "Funso la magazi ndi funso lovuta kwambiri, mfumukazi '.
Mwinanso, kuvutika kuvomereza ubale wake womwe unali nawo ndi banja komanso, limodzi ndi izi, ufulu wodziyimira pawokha zomwe ndikofunikira kulipira kufooka kwa kulumikizana uku.
Maloto a maloto omwe kupeza mphamvu zake kuli kunja kwa banja. Ngati akufuna kuphunzira kuzigwiritsa ntchito, ndiye kulumikizana ndi makolo awo, ndi miyambo yawo, kuwona kwawo kwa chitsimikizo cha moyo chiyenera kufooketsa ndipo, nthawi zambiri kufooketsa.
Ndikudabwa zomwe mumalota? Zitsanzo za maloto anu kutumiza ndi makalata: [email protected]. Mwa njira, maloto ndiosavuta kufotokoza ngati mu kalata yopita kwa mkonzi womwe mudzalemba nthawi ya moyo, koma koposa zonse - malingaliro ndi malingaliro panthawi ya kudzutsidwa m'maloto.
Maria DonaCkova, zamatsenga, othandizira am'banja komanso akutsogolera paubwenzi wapakati pa Marika Khazin