Sikoyenera kukhala munthu wabwino kuti azikonda anthu. Ndikofunika kugulitsa zina mwa zovuta zanu, ndipo mudzawona kuti iwo omwe akuzungulirani adzakwaniritsa.
Zimakhala zovuta kunena kuti sizili ngati anthu omwe ali ndi anthu ena, aliyense wa ife ali ndi mikhalidwe ina, zabwino komanso zoipa. Mwa njira, ngakhale mikhalidwe yabwino ikhoza kukwiyira anthu, sizimachitika kawirikawiri. Lero tinena za zizolowezi zisanu (Werengani - Makhalidwe Abwino) omwe amakwiyitsa aliyense.
M'malankhulidwe anu kwambiri "Ine"
Kumbukirani mawu kuti kuyambira ndili mwana: "Ndine kalata yomaliza." Koma zimasiya ndani? Tikukhulupirira kuti mukudziwa anthu ambiri omwe akuyesera kuti azikumbutsa, ngakhale ngati kukambirana sikuli za iwo. Anthu amapanga malingaliro oti munthu ndi omwe ali ndi vuto ndipo, ambiri, ndibwino kuti asakhale kutali ndi iye. Kuti ndikhale wothandizika kwa iye, ndikofunikira kwambiri kumvetsera ndi chidwi ndi munthu yemwe tikulankhula naye, ndiye kuti sukuwopseza ulemerero wa munthu wamwano.
Anthu akuyembekezera kuti mumvere
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Mumasokoneza banja
Kodi mukudziwa kuti kuthekera komvera aliyense? Aliyense angasangalale ngati mungamvere bwino zomwe akufuna kunena. Mukayamba kusokoneza, zikuwonetsa kuchokera kumbali yoyipa: Potengera izi zindikirani kuti mulibe chidwi ndi nkhani ya zokambirana ndipo mukufuna kumaliza kukambirana. Sinthani vutolo m'malo mwake - kodi mungasangalale kulankhulana? Sitikuganiza choncho. Mudzakhala ndi nthawi yofotokozera malingaliro anu pa funso lomwe mukukambirana, koma kuyamba ndi chipiriro ndikudikirira kuti akusulire nthawi yanu kuti amalize mawuwo. Palibenso chifukwa chotenga dzina lanu pasadakhale.
Simuyankha mafoni ndi mauthenga
Anthu ndi osasangalatsa ngati angayese, uthengawu ukupeza, mwina, kusiya zochitika zawo, ndipo mumawanyalanyaza. Munthu akhoza kuwoneka kuti uli ndi chidwi cholankhula naye. Palibe amene akufuna zifukwa ngati "Ine ndinali," anayankha uthengawo - nkhani ya mphindi zochepa, simudzalephera. Ngati kalatayo ndi yayitali, lembani kuti pakadali pano simungathe kuyankha mwatsatanetsatane ndikuyankha pang'ono. Chinthu chachikulu sichokhala chete.
Kukonda Kwambiri Ena
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Mumadzidyetsa nokha mtengo
Lolani kuti mukhale ndi maphunziro apamwamba atatu, chidziwitso cha zilankhulo khumi ndi chimodzi ndi mbiri yanu mu dziwe lakumaloko patali - iyi si chifukwa choponyera zabwino zawo pamaso pa ena. Zochita zanu zidzatha kuwunika komanso popanda chikumbutso chosalekeza - palibe amene amakonda kudzitama. Chovuta kwambiri munthu akamawonetsa zolemba zenizeni za chenicheni. Pakapita nthawi, chinyengo chivomerezedwa, ndipo udzakhala wowala. Mukutsimikiza kuti mukufuna kunama?
Lolani ena ayankhe zomwe mwakwanitsa
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Mukunena zodekha
Zimakhala zovuta kwa munthu nthawi yomweyo kuti athetse, kuyesera kumva mawu anu, ndikutsutsa tanthauzo lake. Pazifukwa izi, sizachidziwitso zonse zomwe mumafuna kuti mufikire zizifika nthawi yanu. Ngati kukambirana kuchedwa, malankhulidwe anu chete ayamba kukwiyitsa. Zikatero, yankho labwino kwambiri lidzakhala maphunziro pa luso la mafuta, komwe munthawi yochepa mutha kuyika mawu ndikumangopeka.